{"id":978,"date":"2018-07-25T11:13:24","date_gmt":"2018-07-25T09:13:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=978"},"modified":"2021-03-18T09:15:50","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T08:15:50","slug":"kolegovia-mi-hovorili-ze-k-nam-pride-transrodova-osoba-netusili-ze-som-to-ja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/kolegovia-mi-hovorili-ze-k-nam-pride-transrodova-osoba-netusili-ze-som-to-ja\/","title":{"rendered":"Kolegovia mi hovorili, \u017ee k n\u00e1m pr\u00edde transrodov\u00e1 osoba, netu\u0161ili, \u017ee som to ja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V ob\u010dianskom preukaze m\u00e1 meno Milan, ale v pr\u00e1ci jej v\u0161etci hovoria Isabel. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Niektor\u00e9 kolegyne ma ob\u010das volaj\u00fa princezn\u00e1 Isabel,\u201d smeje sa. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ak odo m\u0148a kolegy\u0148a nie\u010do potrebuje, elegantne sa na m\u0148a oto\u010d\u00ed a povie: Popros\u00edm v\u00e1s, \u0161armantn\u00e1 asistentka Isabel, mohli by ste mi pom\u00f4c\u0165? Je to ve\u013emi mil\u00e9. Som rada, \u017ee m\u00e1m tak\u00fdch kolegov, ak\u00fdch m\u00e1m.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Isabel m\u00e1 23 rokov a viac ako pol roka pracuje v predajni n\u00e1bytku Ikea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Na pohovore o\u010dak\u00e1vali mlad\u00e9ho mu\u017ea, ale namiesto neho pri\u0161la vysok\u00e1 \u0161t\u00edhla \u017eena s ve\u013ek\u00fdmi modr\u00fdmi o\u010dami, kr\u00e1tkymi vlasmi a pr\u00edjemn\u00fdm \u017eensk\u00fdm hlasom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nikto ma s\u00e1m od seba neoslovuje v mu\u017eskom rode, preto sa im p\u00e1\u010dil n\u00e1pad, \u017ee budem pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 meno Isabel,\u201d hovor\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Jej kolegovia sa u\u017e pred pr\u00edchodom dozvedeli, \u017ee ich novou kolegy\u0148ou bude trans \u010dlovek.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ke\u010f som pri\u0161la medzi nov\u00fdch kolegov a predstavili ma ako Isabel, hne\u010f ma medzi seba vzali. Niektor\u00ed sa ma p\u00fdtali, \u010di som po\u010dula, \u017ee k n\u00e1m m\u00e1 pr\u00eds\u0165 pracova\u0165 nejak\u00e1 transrodov\u00e1 osoba. Sami nevedeli, \u017ee ide o m\u0148a,\u201d smeje sa Isabel. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Boli prekvapen\u00ed a hovorili, \u017ee by to na m\u0148a nikdy nepovedali.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Isabel hovor\u00ed, \u017ee \u013eudia si transrodov\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed predstavuj\u00fa inak. Jej kolegovia \u010dakali, \u017ee pr\u00edde mu\u017e s oholenou bradou, v\u00fdrazn\u00fdm mejkapom a v \u017eensk\u00fdch \u0161at\u00e1ch. Namiesto toho medzi nich pri\u0161lo oby\u010dajn\u00e9 mlad\u00e9 diev\u010da, ktor\u00e9 sa ma\u013euje len zriedka.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Isabel po\u010das rozhovoru nieko\u013ekokr\u00e1t zopakuje, \u017ee svoju pr\u00e1cu m\u00e1 rada a t\u00fdm viac sa sna\u017e\u00ed im to ako zamestnanky\u0148a op\u00e4tova\u0165. Sama toti\u017e vie, \u017ee pre \u0148u nebolo \u013eahk\u00e9 n\u00e1js\u0165 si pr\u00e1cu, kde by ju medzi seba prijali tak\u00fa, ak\u00e1 je.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V jednej predch\u00e1dzaj\u00facej pr\u00e1ci odo m\u0148a chceli, aby som o tom nikomu nehovorila, ke\u010f\u017ee som rod st\u00e1le nemala ofici\u00e1lne zmenen\u00fd,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel. Ke\u010f ju potom predstavili ako Milana, kolegovia boli zasko\u010den\u00ed. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">P\u00fdtali sa ma, ak\u00e9 m\u00e1m korene. Mysleli si, \u017ee som z Ukrajiny, Bieloruska, Ruska a \u017ee m\u00e1m zahrani\u010dn\u00e9 meno, ktor\u00e9 u n\u00e1s len vyznieva mu\u017esky. Nevedeli, ako sa k tomu maj\u00fa postavi\u0165,\u201d opisuje Isabel. Po viacer\u00fdch nedorozumeniach preto aj v predch\u00e1dzaj\u00facej pr\u00e1ci za\u010dala pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 \u017eensk\u00e9 meno.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pri h\u013eadan\u00ed si pr\u00e1ce s\u00fa transrodov\u00ed \u013eudia v ne\u013eahkej situ\u00e1cii. Nevedia, ako na nich zareaguj\u00fa na prij\u00edmacom pohovore, boja sa postojov svojich nadriaden\u00fdch aj kolegov a koleg\u00fd\u0148. O\u00a0transrodovosti sa na Slovensku nehovor\u00ed skoro v\u00f4bec a mnoh\u00ed zamestn\u00e1vatelia preto nevedia, ako k\u00a0transrodov\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom pristupova\u0165. Mnoho firiem sa preto rozhodlo da\u0165 otvorene najavo, \u017ee s transrodov\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi po\u010d\u00edtaj\u00fa a s\u00fa u nich v\u00edtan\u00ed. Do svojich firemn\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t napr\u00edklad vlo\u017eili re\u0161pekt k LGBT \u013eu\u010fom alebo podp\u00edsali Chartu diversity, v ktorej sa zav\u00e4zuj\u00fa <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 kult\u00faru vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9ho re\u0161pektu, d\u00f4very, empatie, vzdel\u00e1vania a inkl\u00fazie\u201d, a to nielen pre LGBT \u013eud\u00ed, ale pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch bez oh\u013eadu na vek, rod, n\u00e1rodnos\u0165, politick\u00e9 presved\u010denie \u010di rodinn\u00fd stav. T\u00fato chartu podp\u00edsalo viac ako tridsa\u0165 firiem p\u00f4sobiacich na Slovensku, medzi nimi aj Ikea, kde teraz Isabel pracuje. Tieto firmy si od toho nes\u013eubuj\u00fa len zlep\u0161enie vz\u0165ahov na pracovisku, ale napr\u00edklad aj vy\u0161\u0161iu kreativitu zamestnancov a zamestnank\u00fd\u0148, v\u00fdkonnos\u0165 a ekonomick\u00fd \u00faspech.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Na pohovore mi ani nepodali ruku<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Isabel vie, \u017ee je transrodovou \u017eenou od svojich \u0161trn\u00e1stich rokov. V osemn\u00e1stich odi\u0161la z domu a odvtedy pracovala na viacer\u00fdch miestach. Vie, \u017ee to nie je v\u017edy ide\u00e1lne.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ke\u010f som pri\u0161la na pohovor do obchodu s luxusn\u00fdmi doplnkami a oble\u010den\u00edm, m\u00f4j \u017eivotopis odmietli s t\u00fdm, \u017ee u nich pracuj\u00fa len \u017eeny. Povedala som im, \u017ee som \u017eena, akur\u00e1t meno m\u00e1m tak\u00e9, ak\u00e9 m\u00e1m. Pozreli sa na m\u0148a s opovrhnut\u00edm, akoby boli pob\u00faren\u00ed, \u010do si to v\u00f4bec dovo\u013eujem, nepodali mi ani ruku na rozl\u00fa\u010dku a uk\u00e1zali mi dvere.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Na druhej strane v\u0161ak hovor\u00ed, \u017ee pr\u00e1cu si nakoniec v\u017edy na\u0161la. \u010ci u\u017e v predajni oble\u010denia alebo v tla\u010diarni. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ke\u010f sa nakoniec dostanete do takej pr\u00e1ce, kde to ber\u00fa ako \u00faplne prirodzen\u00fa vec a nerie\u0161ia to, je to ve\u013emi pr\u00edjemn\u00e9,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel. Aj v pr\u00e1cach, ktor\u00e9 mala rada, sa v\u0161ak objavili probl\u00e9my. \u013dudia na \u0148u napr\u00edklad zazerali, smiali sa na nej, \u010di si ju fotili. Nad tak\u00fdmito momentmi sa Isabel sna\u017e\u00ed m\u00e1vnu\u0165 rukou.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ikea je jednou z firiem, ktor\u00e1 sa sama hl\u00e1si k podpore LGBT \u013eud\u00ed a tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ich za\u010dlenenie do pracovn\u00e9ho kolekt\u00edvu je pre \u0148u d\u00f4le\u017eitou t\u00e9mou. Isabel tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee je to tam ve\u013emi c\u00edti\u0165. Postoj firmy sa nezmenil ani v roku 2014, ke\u010f \u010delili \u00fatokom konzervat\u00edvnych kres\u0165ansk\u00fdch aktivistov z Aliancie za rodinu s podporou Konferencie biskupov Slovenska. D\u00f4vodom bol pr\u00edbeh lesbick\u00e9ho p\u00e1ru vychov\u00e1vaj\u00faceho die\u0165a, ktor\u00fd uverejnili vo svojom katal\u00f3gu. Konzervat\u00edvnym aktivistom sa nep\u00e1\u010dilo, \u017ee Ikea tak\u00e9to spolu\u017eitie <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">m\u00e4t\u00faco naz\u00fdva rodinou\u201d. \u017diadali, aby sa firma ospravedlnila, magaz\u00edn stiahla a z\u00e1kazn\u00edkov vyzvali, aby vr\u00e1tili svoje vernostn\u00e9 karty Ikea Family. Tie nakoniec vr\u00e1tilo asi desa\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed, k\u00fdm denne im v tom \u010dase vo vernostnom programe pribudlo priemerne 140 z\u00e1kazn\u00edkov a z\u00e1kazn\u00ed\u010dok.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">N\u00e1\u0161 postoj sa v tomto nezmenil a nemen\u00ed,\u201d p\u00ed\u0161e hovorky\u0148a Ikea Jana Hrubcov\u00e1. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">R\u00f4znorodos\u0165 a za\u010dlenenie s\u00fa s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou na\u0161ej v\u00edzie. U n\u00e1s m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd zamestnanec rovnak\u00e9 pr\u00e1va a mo\u017enosti \u2013 bez oh\u013eadu na n\u00e1rodnos\u0165, rodov\u00fa pr\u00edslu\u0161nos\u0165, sexu\u00e1lnu orient\u00e1ciu \u010di n\u00e1bo\u017eenstvo.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Hrubcov\u00e1 hovor\u00ed, \u017ee ve\u013ea firiem sa pos\u00fava t\u00fdmto smerom. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">St\u00e1le je ale \u010do zlep\u0161ova\u0165,&#8220; hovor\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Nechce\u0161 oper\u00e1ciu, nie si trans \u010dlovekom<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V sedemn\u00e1stich rokoch, ke\u010f e\u0161te Isabel chodila na stredn\u00fa \u0161kolu sc\u00e9nick\u00e9ho v\u00fdtvarn\u00edctva, za\u010dala nav\u0161tevova\u0165 odborn\u00edkov a lek\u00e1rov, ktor\u00ed jej mali pom\u00f4c\u0165 zmeni\u0165 rod. Pod\u013ea inform\u00e1ci\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 na\u0161la na internete, zistila, \u017ee by mala za\u010da\u0165 psychologi\u010dkou.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bola to katastrofa. Podarilo sa mi n\u00e1js\u0165 si psychologi\u010dku, ktor\u00e1 bola ve\u013emi katol\u00edcky zalo\u017een\u00e1 a c\u00edtila som, \u017ee ma od zmeny odhov\u00e1ra. Hovorila mi, \u017ee si to m\u00e1m e\u0161te premyslie\u0165,\u201d hovor\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Isabel si v\u0161ak bola ist\u00e1, trvala na svojom a po siedmich mesiacoch jej psychologi\u010dka odporu\u010dila n\u00e1v\u0161tevu psychiatri\u010dky a sexuologi\u010dky. \u010ealej musela nav\u0161t\u00edvi\u0165 endokrinologi\u010dku, urol\u00f3ga, podst\u00fapi\u0165 genetick\u00e9 vy\u0161etrenie. Isabel \u010dasto vynech\u00e1vala \u0161kolu a spolu\u017eiaci si robili \u017earty, \u017ee chod\u00ed k lek\u00e1rovi preto, lebo si chce zmeni\u0165 pohlavie. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u017dartovali, lebo mi neverili, \u017ee je to skuto\u010dne tak. Mysleli si, \u017ee sa len ulievam zo \u0161koly,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Zmeni\u0165 si rod je na Slovensku behom na dlh\u00e9 trate. Po mnoh\u00fdch vy\u0161etreniach v\u00e1m diagnostikuj\u00fa transsexualizmus a m\u00f4\u017eu predp\u00edsa\u0165 \u017eensk\u00e9 horm\u00f3ny, ktor\u00e9 v\u00e1s fyzicky zmenia. Ak si chcete zmeni\u0165 rod aj v ofici\u00e1lnych dokumentoch, na Slovensku mus\u00edte prejs\u0165 aj oper\u00e1ciou, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1m znefunk\u010dn\u00ed pohlavn\u00e9 org\u00e1ny. A to Isabel nechcela.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ke\u010f sa jej lek\u00e1rka dozvedela, \u017ee Isabel nechce podst\u00fapi\u0165 t\u00fato oper\u00e1ciu, prestala jej predpisova\u0165 horm\u00f3ny. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Doktorka mi povedala, nech si to d\u00e1m v hlave najprv do poriadku. Lek\u00e1ri, s ktor\u00fdmi m\u00e1m na Slovensku sk\u00fasenos\u0165, si mysleli, \u017ee ak je niekto transrodov\u00e1 osoba, tak chce automaticky plnohodnotn\u00fa zmenu, tak\u017ee aj operat\u00edvnu zmenu genit\u00e1li\u00ed. Ale nie ka\u017ed\u00fd to skuto\u010dne chce. Ke\u010f som ju odmietla, mysleli si, \u017ee nie som transrodovou osobou a teda, \u017ee je moja diagn\u00f3za zl\u00e1,\u201d vysvet\u013euje Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u010casto sa stret\u00e1va s t\u00fdm, \u017ee trans \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed nechc\u00fa podst\u00fapi\u0165 oper\u00e1ciu, si v ob\u010dianskom iba zmenia \u010di pridaj\u00fa neutr\u00e1lne krstn\u00e9 meno, ako napr\u00edklad Nikola alebo Nikita. Ona by si chcela prida\u0165 stredn\u00e9 meno Lucca.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Horm\u00f3ny z internetu<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Na Slovensku neexistuj\u00fa jasn\u00e9 pravidl\u00e1 pre lek\u00e1rov, ku ktor\u00fdm pr\u00edde transrodov\u00fd \u010dlovek a ka\u017ed\u00fd doktor m\u00f4\u017ee postupova\u0165 inak.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Na Slovensku v tejto t\u00e9me funguje pr\u00e1vne v\u00e1kuum, ale \u010do je hor\u0161ie, neexistuj\u00fa \u017eiadne \u0161tandardy zdravotnej starostlivosti o trans \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 by sa opierali o modern\u00e9 medic\u00ednske postupy. Neexistuje \u017eiaden z\u00e1kon ani vyhl\u00e1\u0161ka, ani usmernenie. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 lek\u00e1rka \u010di lek\u00e1r postupuje r\u00f4zne. Je tu zau\u017e\u00edvan\u00e1 prax, ktor\u00e1 je prebrat\u00e1 z 80. rokov 20. storo\u010dia,\u201d hovor\u00ed Zara Kromkov\u00e1 z organiz\u00e1cie Transf\u00fazia, ktor\u00e1 je tie\u017e transrodovou \u017eenou.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V roku 1981 vy\u0161lo metodick\u00e9 usmernenie t\u00fdkaj\u00face sa transexu\u00e1lov, v ktorom sa p\u00ed\u0161e, \u017ee ak po oper\u00e1cii pacient dosiahne <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">dostato\u010dne presved\u010div\u00e9ho vzh\u013eadu opa\u010dn\u00e9ho pohlavia pri znemo\u017enen\u00ed jeho reproduk\u010dnej funkcie,&#8220; vyd\u00e1 nemocnica posudok, v ktorom takejto osobe na matrike zmenia rod, meno a priezvisko.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bez jasn\u00e9ho postupu dnes lek\u00e1ri posielaj\u00fa pacientov aj na rozdielne vy\u0161etrenia \u010di k in\u00fdm odborn\u00edkom a horm\u00f3ny za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa pacientom predpisova\u0165 a\u017e po nieko\u013ek\u00fdch mesiacoch \u010di rokoch.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V \u010cesku plat\u00ed z\u00e1kon, ktor\u00fd zmenu pohlavia upravuje a pod\u013ea Kromkovej s\u00fa tam lek\u00e1ri \u00fastretovej\u0161\u00ed aj \u010do sa t\u00fdka hormon\u00e1lnej lie\u010dby, predp\u00ed\u0161u ju pacientovi u\u017e asi po troch mesiacoch. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Na Slovensku nie je poskytovan\u00e1 zdravotn\u00e1 starostlivos\u0165 trans \u013eu\u010fom pod osemn\u00e1s\u0165 rokov, a preto t\u00fato mo\u017enos\u0165 vyh\u013ead\u00e1vaj\u00fa v \u010cesku,&#8220; hovor\u00ed Kromkov\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Po tom, \u010do lek\u00e1rka prestala Isabel predpisova\u0165 hormon\u00e1lnu lie\u010dbu, za\u010dala trpie\u0165 depresiami. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bolo to pre m\u0148a ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 obdobie, aj \u010do sa t\u00fdka s\u0165ahovania a pr\u00e1ce. Na chv\u00ed\u013eu som to prestala \u00faplne rie\u0161i\u0165, lebo u\u017e som na to nemala silu. Hormon\u00e1lnu lie\u010dbu teraz beriem na vlastn\u00fa p\u00e4s\u0165, s\u00fa \u013eudia, ktor\u00ed to vedia zaobstara\u0165 cez internet. Ale nikomu to neodpor\u00fa\u010dam, ak m\u00e1 aj in\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">V \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch chv\u00ed\u013each jej pom\u00e1ha pr\u00e1ve Transf\u00fazia, kde sa m\u00f4\u017ee stretn\u00fa\u0165 s \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed v \u017eivote st\u00e1li pred rovnak\u00fdmi v\u00fdzvami.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ka\u017ed\u00e1 transrodov\u00e1 alebo homosexu\u00e1lna osoba potrebuje c\u00edti\u0165 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 vlastn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed a poradi\u0165. V Transf\u00fazii je skupina \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed mi ve\u013emi pomohli. Nielen vyrovna\u0165 sa s t\u00fdm, ale n\u00e1js\u0165 v sebe aj ak\u00fdsi pokoj, \u017ee je to nie\u010do norm\u00e1lne a prirodzen\u00e9,\u201d hovor\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Doma so mnou hovoria ako s mu\u017eom<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Mama sa to dozvedela, ke\u010f som mala asi 15 rokov a odvtedy to st\u00e1le nejako vstreb\u00e1va. Povedala mi, \u017ee je to v poriadku a aj tak ma bude ma\u0165 rada,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel. Ani po tomto rozhovore sa v\u0161ak doma ve\u013ea nezmenilo. Rodi\u010dia aj s\u00farodenci jej st\u00e1le hovoria Milan. Isabel s nimi preto tie\u017e hovor\u00ed v mu\u017eskom rode.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Rodi\u010dia nevedia, \u017ee sa v pr\u00e1ci prezentujem ako Isabel. Nes\u00fahlasia s t\u00fdm, ale ani ja nes\u00fahlas\u00edm s ve\u013ea vecami, ktor\u00e9 robia a nepoukazujem na ne v jednom kuse. \u017di a nechaj \u017ei\u0165,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">To, \u017ee sa jej p\u00e1\u010dia mu\u017ei, vzala rodina lep\u0161ie. S mamou o tom ob\u010das \u017eartuj\u00fa. Ale prija\u0165 to, \u017ee Isabel je \u017eenou, je pre nich \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nejako hlb\u0161ie sa o tom nerozpr\u00e1vame, lebo je to ch\u00falostiv\u00e1 t\u00e9ma a aj pre m\u0148a je to trocha komplikovan\u00e9. Niekedy si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je to \u00faplne v poriadku a niekedy ma prekvap\u00ed, ako niektor\u00e9 veci vn\u00edma. Nie je to tak\u00e9, ak\u00e9 by to mohlo by\u0165, ale v kone\u010dnom d\u00f4sledku je to v poriadku. Zlep\u0161uje sa to. Ale mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to bude proces na nieko\u013eko rokov,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Te\u0161\u00edm sa z toho, ak\u00e9 to je, lebo nikdy nie je ni\u010d tak\u00e9 zl\u00e9, aby to nemohlo by\u0165 e\u0161te hor\u0161ie.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bud\u00fa ma pova\u017eova\u0165 za aktivistku<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148 prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u017ee by som sa vr\u00e1tila do \u0161koly,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel. Chcela by \u0161tudova\u0165 psychol\u00f3giu alebo dejiny kult\u00fary. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ale na rovinu, ke\u010f u\u017e \u010dlovek poc\u00edti, ak\u00e9 to je zar\u00e1ba\u0165 peniaze, s ktor\u00fdmi je spokojn\u00fd, tak nem\u00e1 potrebu vr\u00e1ti\u0165 sa k \u0161t\u00fadiu. Lebo ke\u010f u\u017e sa svojej pr\u00e1ci venujete na pln\u00fd \u00fav\u00e4zok, ste radi, \u017ee m\u00e1te aj osobn\u00fd \u017eivot a m\u00f4\u017eete sa vyspa\u0165.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Prestala sledova\u0165 politiku, o aktu\u00e1lnom dian\u00ed m\u00e1 najviac inform\u00e1ci\u00ed od priate\u013eov, hovor\u00ed, \u017ee nem\u00e1 silu to v\u0161etko sledova\u0165. M\u00e1 to jednu v\u00fdhodu \u2013 \u010dasto prehliadne aj mnoh\u00e9 udalosti a kampane konzervat\u00edvnych aktivistov, ktor\u00e9 transrodov\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed ur\u00e1\u017eaj\u00fa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Namiesto toho svoj \u010das investuje do \u013eud\u00ed a priate\u013eov, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa okolo nej. Ak sa jej kolegovia alebo kolegyne p\u00fdtaj\u00fa na jej \u017eivot, takmer v\u017edy odpovie. Ver\u00ed, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm viac inform\u00e1ci\u00ed \u013eudia maj\u00fa, t\u00fdm lep\u0161ie dok\u00e1\u017eu pochopi\u0165 ju aj \u010fal\u0161\u00edch trans \u013eud\u00ed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201e<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Nepova\u017eujem sa za aktivistku, ale po tom, \u010do vyjde text, u\u017e ma za \u0148u zrejme bud\u00fa pova\u017eova\u0165. T\u00e1 t\u00e9ma je u n\u00e1s tak\u00e1 nezn\u00e1ma, \u017ee sta\u010d\u00ed aj takto m\u00e1lo. Ale nevad\u00ed. \u013dudia musia by\u0165 informovan\u00ed a musia pozna\u0165 viac poh\u013eadov na vec. Ja im nebudem hovori\u0165, \u010do je pravda a \u010do je spr\u00e1vne, viem im len uk\u00e1za\u0165 svoju osobn\u00fa sk\u00fasenos\u0165 a ostatn\u00e9 je na nich,\u201d hovor\u00ed Isabel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Text vy\u0161iel aj v Denn\u00edku N.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Transrodov\u00ed \u00a0\u013eudia sa v pr\u00e1ci stret\u00e1vaj\u00fa s predsudkami a nepochopen\u00edm, ale aj s priate\u013esk\u00fdmi kolegami a ch\u00e1pav\u00fdmi nadriaden\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5,6,259],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-978","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-praca","category-praca-a-skola","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-rozhovory"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=978"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2613,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/978\/revisions\/2613"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=978"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=978"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=978"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}