{"id":901,"date":"2018-07-17T15:46:29","date_gmt":"2018-07-17T13:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=901"},"modified":"2018-07-17T15:46:29","modified_gmt":"2018-07-17T13:46:29","slug":"tipy-ako-byt-skvelym-partnerom-alebo-partnerkou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/tipy-ako-byt-skvelym-partnerom-alebo-partnerkou\/","title":{"rendered":"Tipy ako by\u0165 skvel\u00fdm partnerom alebo partnerkou"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vytvorenie vz\u0165ahu s niek\u00fdm, do koho ste bl\u00e1zon, je jeden z najlep\u0161\u00edch pocitov v \u017eivote. Vytvorenie \u00faspe\u0161n\u00e9ho a trval\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu si v\u0161ak vy\u017eaduje \u00fasilie. Nasleduj\u00face tipy v\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 skvel\u00fdm partnerom alebo partnerkou.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

1. Najsk\u00f4r len randite<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Viac ako jedenkr\u00e1t. Be\u017en\u00e1 chyba, ktor\u00fa LGBT \u013eudia pri prv\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch robia, je, \u017ee pr\u00edli\u0161 skoro rie\u0161ia v\u00e1\u017enos\u0165 vz\u0165ahu, mo\u017eno preto, \u017ee sa boja, \u017ee u\u017e si nikoho nen\u00e1jdu, ke\u010f\u017ee spozna\u0165 LGBT partnera, alebo partnerku nie je tak\u00e9 \u013eahk\u00e9. Predt\u00fdm, ako sa pristihnete, \u017ee sa zob\u00fadzate pri niekom koho ledva pozn\u00e1te, cho\u010fte spolu von, aby ste zistili, \u010di si vyhovujete. Nesta\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee ste obaja tepl\u00ed. Mali by ste vedie\u0165, \u010di m\u00e1te spolo\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1ujmy, podobn\u00e9 hodnoty a\u00a0pl\u00e1ny do bud\u00facnosti. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Komunik\u00e1cia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Spolu s d\u00f4verou je to to najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie, \u010do treba vedie\u0165 vo vz\u0165ahu zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby ste otvorene, \u00faprimne \u00a0a\u00a0pokojne hovorili o svojich pocitoch. Skr\u00fdva\u0165 to, ako sa c\u00edtite, hovori\u0165 svojej partnerke, alebo partnerovi, \u010do si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee chc\u00fa po\u010du\u0165, alebo komunikova\u0165 nahnevane, m\u00f4\u017ee vz\u0165ahu u\u0161kodi\u0165. Ak v\u00e1s niekto ob\u0165a\u017eoval, alebo ak ste post\u00fapili v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci, alebo ak ste dostali cenu, alebo ak v\u00e1m najlep\u0161\u00ed priate\u013e povedal, \u017ee sa s\u0165ahuje \u2013 zdie\u013eajte to s\u00a0partnerkou, alebo partnerom. \u00a0Hovori\u0165 \u010destne a otvorene v\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed lep\u0161ie spozna\u0165 sa, rie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my a urovn\u00e1va\u0165 nezhody. Na druhej strane, h\u00e1dky alebo ignorovanie probl\u00e9mov vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa medzi nami vzdialenos\u0165. Ak m\u00e1te nie\u010do, o \u010dom potrebujete hovori\u0165 – povedzte to! Nemus\u00edte s\u00fahlasi\u0165 so v\u0161etk\u00fdm, ale d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je vypo\u010du\u0165 aj partnera alebo partnerku a pok\u00fasi\u0165 sa n\u00e1js\u0165 kompromis. Koniec koncov, neh\u013eadali ste na vz\u0165ah klon sam\u00e9ho seba.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. D\u00f4vera<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Vz\u0165ah bez d\u00f4very v\u00e1m \u0161\u0165astie neprinesie. Ak podozrievate, \u017eiarlite, ned\u00f4verujete a neust\u00e1le sledujete partnera alebo partnerku vonku, na internete, v\u00a0mobile, pravdepodobne to v\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah zni\u010d\u00ed. Jedin\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, ako naozaj da\u0165 vz\u0165ahu \u0161ancu rozv\u00edja\u0165 sa, je veri\u0165 va\u0161ej partnerke alebo partnerovi, \u017ee bud\u00fa vern\u00ed a spravia v\u0161etko pre dobro v\u00e1\u0161ho vz\u0165ahu. Znie to jasne, ale mnoh\u00ed potrebuj\u00fa pripomen\u00fa\u0165: v\u00e1\u0161 partner alebo partnerka sa rozhodli by\u0165 s vami a\u00a0s\u00a0nik\u00fdm in\u00fdm.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Ujasnite si spolu, \u010di v\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah bude exkluz\u00edvny, alebo nie<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Dobr\u00e1 komunik\u00e1cia v\u00a0tejto oblasti je naozaj d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1. Ak jeden alebo jedna z\u00a0v\u00e1s pova\u017euje v\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah za \u201eotvoren\u00fd\u201c, inak povedan\u00e9, \u017ee in\u00ed partneri s\u00fa okej a\u00a0druh\u00fd zase ver\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah je monogamn\u00fd a\u00a0exkluz\u00edvny, m\u00e1te probl\u00e9m. Ke\u010f za\u010dne \u201eotvoren\u00fd\u201c partner, alebo partnerka flirtova\u0165 s\u00a0niek\u00fdm, tak \u201eexkluz\u00edvny\u201c partner, alebo partnerka m\u00f4\u017ee c\u00edti\u0165 zm\u00e4tok, hnev, ubl\u00ed\u017eenie.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Smiech<\/strong><\/h4>\n

U\u017eite si seba navz\u00e1jom a bavte sa. Niekedy \u013eudia vn\u00edmaj\u00fa vo vz\u0165ahu len rozdiely a\u00a0in\u00e9 n\u00e1zory, nehovoriac o\u00a0vonkaj\u0161\u00edch probl\u00e9moch a\u00a0zab\u00fadaj\u00fa na \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 a\u00a0z\u00e1bavn\u00e9 chv\u00edle s\u00a0partnerkou, alebo partnerom. Zdie\u013eanie smiechu a dobr\u00fdch momentov s\u00a0partnerom alebo partnerkou je jedn\u00fdm z najlep\u0161\u00edch z\u00e1\u017eitkov v \u017eivote. Ak sa ale zd\u00e1, \u017ee o sebe pochybujete a d\u00e1vate prednos\u0165 tomu, \u017ee tr\u00e1vite \u010das oddelene, m\u00f4\u017ee to by\u0165 \u010das na to, aby sa va\u0161e cesty rozi\u0161li.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Stojte pri sebe<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Nenechajte svojho partnera alebo svoju partnerku tr\u00e1pi\u0165 sa, hlavne ak nie ste vyoutovan\u00fd a\u00a0\u010dlen va\u0161ej rodiny si rob\u00ed pred vami vtipy z\u00a0LGBT \u013eud\u00ed, alebo nad\u00e1va na nich. Ja va\u0161e pr\u00e1vo milova\u0165, nikto nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo hovori\u0165 v\u00e1m nie\u010do in\u00e9. Ak nie ste vyoutovan\u00e1 alebo vyoutovan\u00fd, zoberte svoju partnerku, alebo partnera a\u00a0od\u00ed\u010fte s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee poviete, \u017ee tak\u00e9to ur\u00e1\u017eaj\u00face vtipy s\u00fa v\u00e1m nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9. A\u00a0ke\u010f je vtip namieren\u00fd na partnera alebo partnerku, povedzte kamar\u00e1tom, rodine, ktor\u00ed tak\u00fdto vtip spravili, \u017ee je to pre v\u00e1s neakceptovate\u013en\u00e9 a\u00a0po\u017eiadajte ich, aby si tak\u00e9to pozn\u00e1mky nabud\u00face nechali pre seba. Nenechajte in\u00fdch, aby ubli\u017eovali va\u0161im partnerom, alebo partnerk\u00e1m.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Dr\u00e1ma<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia sa radi h\u00e1daj\u00fa a emo\u010dne vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00fa, ale dr\u00e1ma je zl\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako vyrie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my alebo vyjadri\u0165 nespokojnos\u0165 vo vz\u0165ahoch. M\u00f4\u017ee v\u00e1s to uspokoji\u0165 v tom, \u017ee sa c\u00edtite d\u00f4le\u017eito a\u00a0ste stredobodom pozornosti, ale je to vlastne ve\u013emi detsk\u00fd sp\u00f4sob, ako komunikova\u0165 svoje pocity.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Romantika<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Romantika a pozornos\u0165 k\u00a0druh\u00e9mu by nemali skon\u010di\u0165 v momente, ke\u010f m\u00e1te istotu, \u017ee ste si partnerku, alebo partnera z\u00edskali. Je dobr\u00e9 pravidelne ukazova\u0165 svojmu partnerovi alebo partnerke ako v\u00e1m na \u0148om alebo na nej z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed a\u00a0\u017ee ich nepova\u017eujete za samozrejmos\u0165. Bu\u010fte mil\u00ed a\u00a0kreat\u00edvni: prekvapte dar\u010dekom, ve\u010derou, alebo kult\u00farou. To rob\u00ed \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd \u013e\u00fabi. Je to tvrd\u00e1 pr\u00e1ca a neudr\u017eate\u013en\u00e1, ak vyv\u00edja \u00fasilie iba jeden partner alebo partnerka. Uistite sa, \u017ee ste sa nestali leniv\u00fdmi vo vz\u0165ahu.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Re\u0161pekt<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Neberte svoju partnerku ako samozrejmos\u0165, alebo neza\u010dnite s \u0148ou zaobch\u00e1dza\u0165 ako s pr\u00edslu\u0161enstvom, ktor\u00e9 v\u00e1m patr\u00ed. On alebo ona s\u00fa rovnako \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 osoby, ako ke\u010f ste sa spoznali. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. Nedokonalosti<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Nikto nie je dokonal\u00fd. Prijmite to, \u017ee aj v\u00e1\u0161 partner alebo partnerka robia chyby, maj\u00fa nedokonalosti a nebud\u00fa v\u017edy v najlep\u0161om rozpolo\u017een\u00ed. Ani vy nie. Nikto sa nerod\u00ed ako odborn\u00edk na vz\u0165ahy a my v\u0161etci m\u00e1me zl\u00e9 dni.<\/span><\/p>\n

11.\u00a0Minulos\u0165<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Neumo\u017enite, aby va\u0161a minulos\u0165 alebo minulos\u0165 v\u00e1\u0161ho partnera alebo partnerky ovplyv\u0148ovali to, \u010do m\u00e1te teraz. Ak v\u00e1m bolo vo vz\u0165ahoch predt\u00fdm ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00e9, neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee sa to stane aj so s\u00fa\u010dasnou partnerkou alebo partnerom. Mo\u017eno, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 chalan alebo priate\u013eka mali pred vami ve\u013ea partnerov a partneriek, ale nepredpokladajte, \u017ee s\u00fa neschopn\u00ed a neschopn\u00e9 monogamie. \u013dudia sa m\u00f4\u017eu meni\u0165.<\/span><\/p>\n

12. Asertivita<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Nesta\u0148te sa roho\u017ekou. Aj ke\u010f je norm\u00e1lne chcie\u0165 sa p\u00e1\u010di\u0165 svojmu partnerovi alebo partnerke a urobi\u0165 ich \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi, nemalo by to by\u0165 na \u00fakor va\u0161ich vlastn\u00fdch potrieb. Je v poriadku z \u010dasu na \u010das nes\u00fahlasi\u0165. By\u0165 asert\u00edvnymi znamen\u00e1, \u017ee h\u013ead\u00e1te pre seba to, aby bol v\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah v\u00a0rovnov\u00e1he. Tak\u017ee ak sa v\u00e1m nep\u00e1\u010di skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 priate\u013e tr\u00e1vi ka\u017ed\u00fa noc so svojimi kamar\u00e1tmi, a s\u00a0\u00fasmevom mu povedzte, \u017ee sa v\u00e1m to nep\u00e1\u010di. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

13.\u00a0Poznajte svoje pr\u00e1va<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Vedeli ste, \u017ee napriek neexistencii pr\u00e1vnej \u00fapravy je mo\u017en\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie vznikaj\u00face v partnerskom \u017eivote rie\u0161i\u0165? Napr\u00edklad v r\u00f4znych \u017eivotn\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch, pri ktor\u00fdch vykon\u00e1vate pr\u00e1vne \u00fakony (zastupovanie v\u00a0 be\u017en\u00fdch veciach, preberanie z\u00e1sielok, uzatv\u00e1ranie k\u00fapnopredajn\u00fdch zml\u00fav) sa m\u00f4\u017eete vz\u00e1jomne splnomocni\u0165 na zastupovanie. M\u00f4\u017eete udeli\u0165 aj tzv. gener\u00e1lnu pln\u00fa moc a splnomocni\u0165 tak partnera alebo partnerku na v\u0161etky pr\u00e1vne \u00fakony. Pod\u013ea druhu pr\u00e1vnych \u00fakonov mus\u00ed by\u0165 podpis na plnej moci \u00faradne overen\u00fd. Overenie vykon\u00e1 ktor\u00fdko\u013evek not\u00e1r alebo matrik\u00e1r. Viac inform\u00e1ci\u00ed o\u00a0pr\u00e1vnom rie\u0161en\u00ed svojich partnerstiev n\u00e1jdete v\u00a0bro\u017e\u00fatke Q \u2013 centra Spoznaj svoje pr\u00e1va <\/span>https:\/\/qcentrum.sk\/download\/spoznaj-svoje-prava.pdf<\/span><\/a>, alebo m\u00f4\u017eete kontaktova\u0165 pr\u00e1vnu porad\u0148u Q-centra <\/span>poradna@qcentrum.sk<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Spracovan\u00e9 pod\u013ea: <\/span><\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Have-a-Gay-or-Lesbian-Relationship<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.bgiok.org.uk\/relationships\/tips.html<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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