{"id":4758,"date":"2025-07-12T16:32:28","date_gmt":"2025-07-12T14:32:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=4758"},"modified":"2025-07-12T16:51:58","modified_gmt":"2025-07-12T14:51:58","slug":"fyzicky-zijeme-v-21-storoci-ale-stale-otvarame-tie-iste-temy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/fyzicky-zijeme-v-21-storoci-ale-stale-otvarame-tie-iste-temy\/","title":{"rendered":"Fyzicky \u017eijeme v 21. storo\u010d\u00ed, ale st\u00e1le otv\u00e1rame tie ist\u00e9 t\u00e9my\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Autor: Sofia Vetterov\u00e1 \/ Foto:<\/strong> <strong>Canva<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Jar 2025.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Predsudky, stereotypy a strach z inakosti neust\u00e1le k\u013eu\u010dkuj\u00fa medzi r\u00f4znymi gener\u00e1ciami a komplikuj\u00fa \u013eu\u010fom \u017eivoty. Niekedy si ich aj odn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa so sebou.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Stretol sa s nimi aj 13-ro\u010dn\u00fd Martin z \u0164ahanoviec, ktor\u00fd v marci sp\u00e1chal samovra\u017edu. T\u00e1to spr\u00e1va ma ve\u013emi zasiahla.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Vraj \u017eijeme v 21. storo\u010d\u00ed, modernej dobe, ja v\u0161ak st\u00e1le vid\u00edm tie ist\u00e9 t\u00e9my, ktor\u00e9 kv\u00edr \u013eudia otv\u00e1rali aj 30 rokov dozadu. V tomto je pre m\u0148a ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 moje okolie, v ktorom nach\u00e1dzam bezpe\u010die a d\u00e1va mi n\u00e1dej do \u017eivota, preto\u017ee sa dok\u00e1\u017eem a\u017e pr\u00edli\u0161 \u013eahko necha\u0165 zahlti\u0165 nen\u00e1vis\u0165ou z m\u00e9di\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Vtedy rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u010di aj ja raz budem vy\u010dlenen\u00e1 zo spolo\u010dnosti kv\u00f4li mojej sexualite, \u010di budem \u017ei\u0165 niekedy norm\u00e1lny \u017eivot, alebo sa mi stane nie\u010do zl\u00e9. D\u00e1vnej\u0161ie som si tie\u017e predstavovala, \u017ee ak by som neexistovala, bolo by v\u0161etko \u013eah\u0161ie. Ver\u00edm v\u0161ak, \u017ee jedn\u00e9ho d\u0148a pr\u00edde ve\u013ek\u00e1 zmena, ktorej s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou chcem by\u0165 aj ja. Nem\u00f4\u017eem si to necha\u0165 ujs\u0165.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Rozpr\u00e1vala som sa o tom aj s mojimi rovesn\u00edkmi, s ktor\u00fdmi som zdie\u013eala sk\u00fasenosti s dospievan\u00edm na Slovensku.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bezpe\u010die a slobodu sme na\u0161li v umen\u00ed<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na Slovensku sme si tak ve\u013emi zvykli na nen\u00e1vis\u0165, a\u017e ju pova\u017eujeme za prirodzen\u00fa s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 n\u00e1\u0161ho kv\u00edr \u017eivota. \u0160ikana aj neslu\u0161n\u00e9 nar\u00e1\u017eky s\u00fa vo verejnom priestore tolerovan\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mnoh\u00fdch mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed vr\u00e1tane m\u0148a t\u00e1to atmosf\u00e9ra odr\u00e1dza od \u017eitia v tejto krajine. M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 hlas sa \u00faplne stratil, \u017ee je \u00faplne bezv\u00fdznamn\u00fd, alebo pre niektor\u00fdch aj smie\u0161ny. My sme ale bud\u00facnos\u0165ou na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti, z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed n\u00e1m na nej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sklony k samovra\u017ede medzi LGBTI+ ml\u00e1de\u017eou s\u00fa nieko\u013ekokr\u00e1t vy\u0161\u0161ie ako medzi heterosexu\u00e1lnymi \u013eu\u010fmi. V prieskume britskej organiz\u00e1cie Just Like Us z roku 2021 uviedlo a\u017e 68-percent kv\u00edr respondentov vo veku od 11 do 18 rokov, \u017ee mali sk\u00fasenos\u0165 s my\u0161lienkami na samovra\u017edu. Takmer tretina z nich sa sebapo\u0161kodzovala, \u010do pri hetero t\u00edned\u017eeroch bolo len na \u00farovni deviatich percent z op\u00fdtan\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pr\u00e1ve preto som sa rozhodla anga\u017eova\u0165 v ob\u010dianskej a kult\u00farnej \u010dinnosti v Nov\u00fdch Z\u00e1mkoch. Chcem to zmeni\u0165, objavi\u0165 priestor, v ktorom budeme m\u00f4c\u0165 by\u0165 so svojimi bl\u00edzkymi sam\u00fdmi sebou. Bez strachu. A tak som zalo\u017eila Kruh Milovn\u00edkov Po\u00e9zie, kde m\u00f4\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd uk\u00e1za\u0165, k\u00fdm je, bez potl\u00e1\u010dania svojej inakosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e1tlak, ktor\u00e9mu sme vystaven\u00ed, nie je toti\u017e \u201evidite\u013en\u00fd na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead\u201c \u2013 ako povedala moja kamar\u00e1tka Bianka. Pod\u013ea Adriena je v\u0161ak jeho dopad \u201ehlbok\u00fd a dlhodob\u00fd\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePreto je ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 budova\u0165 prostredie, v ktorom sa mlad\u00ed kv\u00edr \u013eudia m\u00f4\u017eu c\u00edti\u0165 bezpe\u010dne, slobodne a re\u0161pektovane,\u201c hovor\u00ed Adrien. \u201eNielen v \u0161kol\u00e1ch, ale aj v rodin\u00e1ch a m\u00e9di\u00e1ch. Fungujeme rovnako ako ostatn\u00ed, len inak milujeme.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pre Adriena je umenie priestorom, v ktorom \u201em\u00f4\u017eem by\u0165 \u00faprimn\u00fd k sebe aj k svetu\u201c. V tvoren\u00ed na\u0161iel jazyk, cez ktor\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee svoje pocity \u013eah\u0161ie vyjadri\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Z coming outu m\u00e1me st\u00e1le strach<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u00f4j proces sebaprijatia bol celkom n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd, preto\u017ee som mala pocit, \u017ee som stratila posledn\u00fa \u0161ancu ma\u0165 norm\u00e1lny \u017eivot,\u201c povedala mi Kaja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Boj\u00ed sa, \u017ee ke\u010f sa bude prech\u00e1dza\u0165 na verejnosti so svojou frajerkou, \u013eudia na ne bud\u00fa zazera\u0165 a komentova\u0165 ich sexualitu. Mrz\u00ed ju, \u017ee na Slovensku pri\u0161la aj o sen ma\u0165 \u201eve\u013ek\u00fa typick\u00fa svadbu v kostole\u201c s rodinou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rodi\u010dom o tom e\u0161te nepovedala a boj\u00ed sa, ako bud\u00fa reagova\u0165, ke\u010f im raz predstav\u00ed svoju partnerku. Strach c\u00edti aj Kaja, nechce, aby sa na \u0148u rodi\u010dia pozerali \u201ev inom svetle\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eSom spokojn\u00e1 s&nbsp;t\u00fdm, kto som, nevymenila by som asi ni\u010d, preto\u017ee je to ve\u013ek\u00e1 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 m\u0148a,\u201c pokra\u010duje Kaja. \u201eNajv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia prek\u00e1\u017eka pre m\u0148a bola, \u010do bude na to vravie\u0165 moje okolie a&nbsp;hlavne, ako to zvl\u00e1dnem ja.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biankasi svoj coming out v\u017edy starostlivo pripravuje a sk\u00f4r ne\u017e niekomu nie\u010do povie, d\u00e1va najprv n\u00e1znaky. Boj\u00ed sa homof\u00f3bnych nar\u00e1\u017eok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eVe\u013ek\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina bola premyslen\u00e1 a dopadla hlavne dobre,\u201c hovor\u00ed Bianka. \u201ePomohla mi hlavne komunita na soci\u00e1lnej sieti, prib\u00fadaj\u00faci obsah na t\u00fato t\u00e9mu a&nbsp;to, \u017ee som si vyh\u013ead\u00e1vala inform\u00e1cie na internete. Sk\u00fasila som aj Am I lesbian quiz (kv\u00edz: Som lesba?, pozn. red.).\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spoliehala sa aj na \u010dl\u00e1nky v m\u00e9di\u00e1ch. Inform\u00e1cie si h\u013eadala cielene, nechcela sa spolieha\u0165 na algoritmy soci\u00e1lnych siet\u00ed. Kv\u00edr reprezent\u00e1ciu na Slovensku v\u0161ak pova\u017euje st\u00e1le za ve\u013emi \u201eobmedzen\u00fa, povrchn\u00fa a stereotypn\u00fa\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCh\u00fdbaj\u00fa n\u00e1m pr\u00edbehy, ktor\u00e9 ukazuj\u00fa kv\u00edr \u013eud\u00ed nielen ako ved\u013eaj\u0161ie postavy, ale ako hlavn\u00e9 postavy s vlastn\u00fdmi snami, z\u00e1pasmi a v\u00ed\u0165azstvami. Potrebujeme viac priestoru pre autentick\u00e9 pr\u00edbehy, ktor\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017eu in\u0161pirova\u0165, sp\u00e1ja\u0165 aj motivova\u0165,\u201c hovor\u00ed Adrien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vieme, \u017ee to m\u00e1me \u013eah\u0161ie ne\u017e t\u00ed pred nami<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bianka pozn\u00e1 aj zop\u00e1r star\u0161\u00edch kv\u00edr \u013eud\u00ed vo svojom okol\u00ed. Vyoutovan\u00ed s\u00fa len do ur\u010ditej pre nich bezpe\u010dnej miery a nikto z nich o svojej inakosti ve\u013emi nehovor\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eJe na nich vidie\u0165, \u017ee to mali \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie ako my,\u201c hovor\u00ed Bianka. \u201eMnohokr\u00e1t si v\u0161\u00edmam internalizovan\u00fa homof\u00f3biu (zvn\u00fatornenie predsudkov okolia samotnou kv\u00edr osobou, pozn. red.), ktor\u00e1 je v nich zakorenen\u00e1, ale aj predsudky vo\u010di n\u00e1m mlad\u00fdm. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je to kv\u00f4li tomu, \u017ee my sme to mali jednoduch\u0161ie \u2013 a taktie\u017e kv\u00f4li na\u0161ej otvorenosti vo\u010di in\u00fdm.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Svoje postavenie v spolo\u010dnosti ozna\u010dili za \u201ezlo\u017eit\u00e9\u201c a \u201ecitliv\u00e9\u201c. Na jednej strane vn\u00edmaj\u00fa, \u017ee sa spolo\u010dnos\u0165 postupne men\u00ed a mlad\u00ed v umeleck\u00fdch kruhoch aj v mest\u00e1ch za\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa viacej slobody, no predsudky ani stereotypy nikam nezmizli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eMnoh\u00ed mlad\u00ed kv\u00edr \u013eudia, ktor\u00fdch pozn\u00e1m, \u017eij\u00fa v nap\u00e4t\u00ed medzi autentickos\u0165ou a obavami z neprijatia,\u201c hovor\u00ed Adrien. \u201eSlovensko m\u00e1 potenci\u00e1l na pozit\u00edvnu zmenu, ale vy\u017eaduje si to empatiu a otvorenos\u0165 zo strany celej spolo\u010dnosti.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Z\u00e1rove\u0148 vn\u00edmaj\u00fa protichodn\u00e9 reakcie, napr\u00edklad, ke\u010f dostan\u00fa odpove\u010f \u201emy v\u00e1s re\u0161pektujeme dos\u0165\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAk neprijm\u00fa na\u0161e pocity a sp\u00f4sob, ak\u00fdm chceme niekoho milova\u0165, tak mi ten re\u0161pekt ve\u013emi nepom\u00f4\u017ee,\u201c komentuje Adrien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Adrien, XX rokov<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nestret\u00e1vame sa na svetle,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">len tam, kde slnko nedo\u010d\u00edha,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">kde steny maj\u00fa pam\u00e4\u0165,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ale s\u013e\u00fabili ml\u010da\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na\u0161e ruky s\u00fa tiene v divadle l\u00edstia,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0161epk\u00e1me si v jazyku,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ktor\u00fd vymyslela hmla,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">aby nik nepo\u010dul,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ako sa l\u00e1ska vyslovuje inak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to ako h\u013eadanie domova,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ktor\u00fd nem\u00e1me,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">nie miesta, ale pocitu,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017ee m\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 cel\u00ed,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">aj ke\u010f n\u00e1s niekto st\u00e1le orez\u00e1va.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ty si m\u00f4j nevidite\u013en\u00fd de\u0148<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">v kalend\u00e1ri, \u010do vis\u00ed opa\u010dne,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a ja tvoj no\u010dn\u00fd list,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">nepodp\u00edsan\u00fd,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ale d\u00fdcha tvojou v\u00f4\u0148ou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sn\u00edvame o svete,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">kde l\u00e1ska nebude pod z\u00e1mkom,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">kde by sme mohli \u017ei\u0165,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">neby\u0165 brzden\u00ed strachom z okolia,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ale \u017ei\u0165 sami<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">a skuto\u010dne sa n\u00e1js\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u00fdm ten svet pr\u00edde,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">sme kvapky pod hladinou,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">dot\u00fdkame sa bez svedkov,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">veriac, \u017ee raz vypl\u00e1vame,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">ako pravda, ktor\u00e1 sa nebude b\u00e1\u0165 d\u00fdcha\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: Sofia Vetterov\u00e1 \/ Foto: Canva Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Jar 2025. Predsudky, stereotypy a strach z inakosti neust\u00e1le k\u013eu\u010dkuj\u00fa medzi r\u00f4znymi gener\u00e1ciami a komplikuj\u00fa \u013eu\u010fom \u017eivoty. Niekedy si ich aj odn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa so sebou. Stretol sa s nimi aj 13-ro\u010dn\u00fd Martin z \u0164ahanoviec, ktor\u00fd v marci sp\u00e1chal samovra\u017edu. 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