{"id":4362,"date":"2024-06-02T11:16:20","date_gmt":"2024-06-02T09:16:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=4362"},"modified":"2024-06-02T11:16:48","modified_gmt":"2024-06-02T09:16:48","slug":"liberty-blake-simon-vogue-prinasa-pocit-rodiny-ktora-ta-akceptuje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/liberty-blake-simon-vogue-prinasa-pocit-rodiny-ktora-ta-akceptuje\/","title":{"rendered":"Liberty Blake Simon: Vogue prin\u00e1\u0161a pocit rodiny, ktor\u00e1 \u0165a akceptuje"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Autor: Andrej Kuruc<\/strong> <strong>\/<\/strong> <strong>FOTO: Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Jar 2024.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ako si sa dostala do Holandska?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017dila som v&nbsp;\u010c\u00edne sedem rokov a&nbsp;robila som modeling. M\u00f4j priate\u013e v\u0161ak b\u00fdval v&nbsp;Holandsku, tak som sa za n\u00edm pres\u0165ahovala a tam som dokon\u010dila magistersk\u00fd titul so zameran\u00edm na \u010d\u00ednsku politiku. Hlavne som t\u00fa\u017eila ma\u0165 z\u00e1\u017eitok \u0161tudovania mimo Slovenska, kde bolo podstatou \u0161t\u00fadia memorovanie. U\u010ditelia n\u00e1m rozpr\u00e1vali, \u017ee sme hl\u00fapi, a&nbsp;nerozv\u00edjali na\u0161e analytick\u00e9 myslenie, sebavedomie a&nbsp;sebad\u00f4veru. Vedela som, \u017ee v&nbsp;Holandsku je in\u00fd \u0161t\u00fdl vzdel\u00e1vania, mohli sme sedie\u0165 za stolom pri k\u00e1ve a&nbsp;rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa a&nbsp;rozv\u00edja\u0165 my\u0161lienky. Mali sme s&nbsp;priate\u013eom spolo\u010dn\u00e9 b\u00fdvanie a&nbsp;vz\u0165ah ako gej chalani. A\u017e tam som za\u010dala rie\u0161i\u0165 tranz\u00edciu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ako \u0165a oslovil vogue?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zbadala som na youtube Gigi Gorgeous a za\u010dala som rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 cez jej pr\u00edbeh o&nbsp;svojom vlastnom, o&nbsp;svojej identite. Po\u010das \u010fal\u0161ieho polroka som pochopila, \u017ee som in\u00fd \u010dlovek, ako som si myslela. U\u010dila som sa najsk\u00f4r od Madonny na jednom jej videoklipe. N\u00e1hodou som narazila na tane\u010dn\u00fa triedu vogueingu. Zistila som, \u017ee s\u00fa tam nebin\u00e1rni, transrodov\u00ed \u013eudia, a&nbsp;v\u00f4bec som vtedy nevedela, \u010do to cel\u00e9 znamen\u00e1, ale vedela som, \u017ee k&nbsp;nim patr\u00edm. Nie racion\u00e1lne, ale bol to pocit, \u017ee som nemusela prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t v&nbsp;miestnosti vysvet\u013eova\u0165 svoju energiu a&nbsp;oni ju vn\u00edmali, prij\u00edmali bez zna\u010dkovania. Za\u010dala som rozv\u00edja\u0165 tento svoj pocit a&nbsp;po\u010das roka som porozumela, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u00f4\u017eem by\u0165 \u010falej chlapcom s&nbsp;chlapcom vo vz\u0165ahu, ale \u017ee moja cesta bude prebieha\u0165 \u00faplne inak. A&nbsp;tak sme sa&nbsp;rozi\u0161li. Potrebovala som by\u0165 sama na cel\u00fd ten proces a&nbsp;vedela som, \u017ee on by pritom trpel. Ke\u010f sme sa rozi\u0161li,&nbsp;za\u010dala som tr\u00e9nova\u0165 vogue trikr\u00e1t do t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a. Bola som so skupinou super \u013eud\u00ed, varili sme si spolu a&nbsp;existovali ako tak\u00e1 rodina. Tak som na\u0161la podstatu vogue. U&nbsp;n\u00e1s sa \u010dasto berie ako sp\u00f4sob, cez ktor\u00fd sa m\u00f4\u017eem uk\u00e1za\u0165, \u010di u\u017e na instagrame, alebo na b\u00e1loch. Pre m\u0148a v obdob\u00ed, ke\u010f e\u0161te moja rodina \u00faplne neakceptovala moju tranz\u00edciu, bl\u00edzki \u013eudia z&nbsp;vogue tane\u010dnej skupiny boli mojou nebiologickou rodinou. Do\u0161lo mi, \u017ee s&nbsp;moj\u00edm vtedaj\u0161\u00edm partnerom sme boli ve\u013emi uzavret\u00ed, a&nbsp;uvedomila som si na\u0161u vlastn\u00fa homof\u00f3biu a&nbsp;transf\u00f3biu, ke\u010f\u017ee sme napr\u00edklad nikdy nechodili na Pride. \u017dili sme v na\u0161ej malej bublinke a&nbsp;precestovali svet. A&nbsp;pri vogue som si kone\u010dne uvedomila, \u017ee sme jedna ve\u013ek\u00e1 rodina, a&nbsp;za\u010dala som lie\u010di\u0165 v&nbsp;sebe to, \u010do som predt\u00fdm nechcela vidie\u0165. Nevedela som predt\u00fdm, \u017ee existuje LGBTIQ+ komunita, a&nbsp;zrazu som ju na\u0161la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A&nbsp;\u010do je pod\u013ea teba podstatou vogue?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rodina, tak ako povedal RuPaul: Ako queer \u013eudia m\u00e1me privil\u00e9gium vybra\u0165 si svoju rodinu. Nie je to len o&nbsp;tom, \u010di sa vie\u0161 h\u00fdba\u0165, alebo \u0165a bav\u00ed m\u00f3da, d\u00e1va ti to aj priestor, ak nechce\u0161 by\u0165 sama.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pomohol ti vogue pri rie\u0161en\u00ed tranz\u00edcie?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1no. Kone\u010dne som si dok\u00e1zala vizualizova\u0165 \u017eivot transrodov\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, preto\u017ee som predt\u00fdm nevedela, \u010di niekto tak\u00fd existuje, lebo neboli \u017eiadne vzory. To bolo e\u0161te pred <em>Pose<\/em>, <em>Disclosure<\/em>, v Amsterdame som spoznala prv\u00e9 transrodov\u00e9 \u017eeny. Napr\u00edklad sme pri\u0161li s\u00a0kamar\u00e1tom na Red Light District, kde pracuj\u00fa \u017eeny v\u00a0sexbiznise a\u00a0je tam aj ve\u013ea transrodov\u00fdch \u017eien. Chceli sme vedie\u0165, k\u00fdm s\u00fa, porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa s\u00a0nimi. A\u00a0ony na n\u00e1s zak\u00fdvali a\u00a0jedna z\u00a0nich mi povedala: <em>Oh you are doll<\/em>. (Si b\u00e1bika.) Doteraz vo mne rezonuje, \u017ee ona to vo mne videla. V\u00a0Amsterdame som na\u0161la samu seba a bez vogue by to nebolo v\u00f4bec mo\u017en\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"745\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8675_R_hm_z_opr_u22fin_poz_V_FB-745x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4420\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8675_R_hm_z_opr_u22fin_poz_V_FB-745x1024.jpg 745w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8675_R_hm_z_opr_u22fin_poz_V_FB-509x700.jpg 509w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8675_R_hm_z_opr_u22fin_poz_V_FB-1118x1536.jpg 1118w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8675_R_hm_z_opr_u22fin_poz_V_FB.jpg 1490w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 745px) 100vw, 745px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ak\u00e1 je tranz\u00edcia v&nbsp;Holandsku? Jednoduch\u0161ia, \u0165a\u017e\u0161ia?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spoznala som baby, ktor\u00e9 prech\u00e1dzali tranz\u00edciou v&nbsp;Holandsku. \u00da\u017easn\u00e9 na tom bolo, \u017ee prv\u00e9 horm\u00f3ny som dostala od transrodovej \u017eeny, lek\u00e1rky, ktorej som nemusela ni\u010d vysvet\u013eova\u0165, nejako sa pred \u0148ou pretvarova\u0165, sadla som si a&nbsp;ona povedala: Okej, tu m\u00e1\u0161 blok\u00e1tory a&nbsp;estrog\u00e9n. A&nbsp;jednoducho mi predp\u00edsala lieky. Je to prv\u00e1 \u0161peci\u00e1lna klinika v\u00f4bec, kde sa trans \u013eudia staraj\u00fa o&nbsp;trans \u013eud\u00ed. Ale t\u00fdm v\u0161eobecn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom to funguje tak, \u017ee v&nbsp;Amsterdame je cel\u00e1 \u0161pecializovan\u00e1 sekcia nemocnice ve\u013ek\u00e1 ako Kram\u00e1re, kde si pod\u00e1\u0161 prihl\u00e1\u0161ku a&nbsp;kde je oddelenie na medic\u00ednsku tranz\u00edciu, na terapie, cel\u00e9 pod jednou strechou. Prv\u00e9 stretnutie vyzer\u00e1 tak, \u017ee pr\u00edde\u0161 do auly, kde m\u00e1\u0161 predn\u00e1\u0161ku o&nbsp;tom, \u010do je tranz\u00edcia, \u010do je identita, vedeck\u00e9 fakty, ako m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 pokra\u010dova\u0165. Hne\u010f si m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 zachova\u0165 aj svoj biologick\u00fd materi\u00e1l. \u017diadne kroky sa nevynech\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u010dlovek tam neza\u017e\u00edva dehumaniz\u00e1ciu. U\u017e len t\u00fdm, \u017ee ste v&nbsp;miestnosti, kde bolo 500 \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa v&nbsp;r\u00f4znom \u0161t\u00e1diu tranz\u00edcie, kde boli ich rodi\u010dia, kamar\u00e1ti, ako aj odborn\u00edci, tak m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee je to norm\u00e1lna vec. Potom \u010dak\u00e1te ve\u013emi dlho, aj dva roky, k\u00fdm v\u00e1s zober\u00fa, a&nbsp;to bolo tak\u00e9 to nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9. Nakoniec pri\u0161iel covid a zostala som na Slovensku. Po\u010dula som, \u017ee doktorka Jamborov\u00e1 berie transrodov\u00e9 klientky a&nbsp;klientov. Pri\u0161la som k nej a&nbsp;dostala som, \u010do bolo treba. Mala som \u0161\u0165astie, lebo neboli \u017eiadne ot\u00e1zky, \u017eiadny real life test. Tam som dokon\u010dila tranz\u00edciu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ak\u00e9 s\u00fa tvoje vogue vzory?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to Shiva Mugler, teraz je s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou House of Miyake Mugler a&nbsp;ona ma nau\u010dila kr\u00e1\u010da\u0165 v&nbsp;mojej kateg\u00f3rii, \u010do je European runway. Obdivujem Leynu Bloom, Indyu Moore, v\u0161etky tieto femqueens, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. S\u00fa to diev\u010dat\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 som v\u0161etky stretla osobne a&nbsp;ktor\u00e9 ma podporili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pre\u010do je vogue d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd pre LGBTI+ komunitu?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Celospolo\u010densky prech\u00e1dzame osamelos\u0165ou a\u00a0izolovanos\u0165ou. Vogue prin\u00e1\u0161a pocit rodiny, ktor\u00e1 \u0165a akceptuje. Ide o nenahradite\u013en\u00fa s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 bezpe\u010dn\u00e9ho priestoru pre komunitu, ktor\u00fd sa potom odr\u00e1\u017ea aj vn\u00fatorne v\u00a0\u010dloveku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ak\u00e1 je vogue sc\u00e9na na Slovensku?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Som rada, \u017ee u&nbsp;n\u00e1s existuje, \u017ee ho Monika Prikkelov\u00e1 rob\u00ed a&nbsp;\u017ee mlad\u00ed \u013eudia si tam n\u00e1jdu svoju rodinu. Len t\u00fdm, \u017ee som sa uzavrela, ke\u010f som rie\u0161ila tranz\u00edciu, a&nbsp;covid mi pri tom pomohol, lebo som si mohla robi\u0165 slobodne \u010doko\u013evek sama doma, tak som sa s&nbsp;na\u0161ou sc\u00e9nou nespojila. Na b\u00e1ly chod\u00edm v\u017edy, pova\u017eujem to za moju povinnos\u0165, podpori\u0165 sc\u00e9nu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V&nbsp;nasleduj\u00facom obdob\u00ed sa chcem vr\u00e1ti\u0165 do Holandska, znova obnovi\u0165 vogue rodinn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy a&nbsp;porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa o&nbsp;v\u0161etkom. Doteraz si spolu st\u00e1le vol\u00e1me, v\u0161etky sme u\u017e pre\u0161li celou tranz\u00edciou. To bude pre m\u0148a siln\u00fd moment. S&nbsp;Ivanou Huc\u00edkovou tam p\u00f4jdeme aj nakr\u00faca\u0165 dokument o&nbsp;tejto t\u00e9me. Ide o&nbsp;roz\u0161\u00edrenie jej kr\u00e1tkeho filmu <em>House of Velvet<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pracuje\u0161 teraz aj s&nbsp;queer mlad\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Som teraz s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou Ligy za du\u0161evn\u00e9 zdravie, kde som za\u010dala pracova\u0165 na pln\u00fd \u00fav\u00e4zok a\u00a0vytv\u00e1ram takzvan\u00fa mapu podpory. V\u00a0nej mo\u017eno n\u00e1js\u0165 r\u00f4zne organiz\u00e1cie oh\u013eadne soci\u00e1lnej a\u00a0psychologickej podpory. Ale skuto\u010dn\u00fdm projektom je pre m\u0148a vytv\u00e1ranie komunity a\u00a0stret\u00e1vanie sa s\u00a0queer mlad\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi v\u00a0r\u00e1mci skupiny Queer Time Out BA (@queer_timeout.ba). Tam vid\u00edm, ako ch\u00fdba mlad\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom kontakt. Z\u00a0instagramu to m\u00f4\u017ee vyzera\u0165, \u017ee sa stret\u00e1vame a\u00a0je n\u00e1m fajn, ale pocit osobnej samoty je u nich ve\u013emi siln\u00fd, cite\u013en\u00fd. Ka\u017ed\u00fd utorok sa stret\u00e1vame a\u00a0rozpr\u00e1vame sa. P\u00ed\u0161u mi \u013eudia z\u00a0in\u00fdch \u010dast\u00ed zo Slovenska, chc\u00fa, aby sme spravili stretnutia aj u\u00a0nich, lebo nem\u00f4\u017eu cestova\u0165. Pre m\u0148a osobne je to tie\u017e lie\u010div\u00e9, preto\u017ee sa st\u00e1le vyskytujem v\u00a0bin\u00e1rnom, cisrodovom, heterosexu\u00e1lnom prostred\u00ed, kde som st\u00e1le ten outsider a z\u00e1rove\u0148 mimo svojej komunity. Takto sa s\u00a0\u0148ou m\u00f4\u017eem sp\u00e1ja\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8894_jd_R_hm2_hm22_r_hk_z_z22_V_FB-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4419\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8894_jd_R_hm2_hm22_r_hk_z_z22_V_FB-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8894_jd_R_hm2_hm22_r_hk_z_z22_V_FB-467x700.jpg 467w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8894_jd_R_hm2_hm22_r_hk_z_z22_V_FB-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2024\/04\/5S8A8894_jd_R_hm2_hm22_r_hk_z_z22_V_FB.jpg 1365w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autor: Andrej Kuruc \/ FOTO: Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Jar 2024. Ako si sa dostala do Holandska? \u017dila som v&nbsp;\u010c\u00edne sedem rokov a&nbsp;robila som modeling. M\u00f4j priate\u013e v\u0161ak b\u00fdval v&nbsp;Holandsku, tak som sa za n\u00edm pres\u0165ahovala a tam som dokon\u010dila magistersk\u00fd titul so zameran\u00edm na \u010d\u00ednsku politiku. Hlavne som t\u00fa\u017eila <a href=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/liberty-blake-simon-vogue-prinasa-pocit-rodiny-ktora-ta-akceptuje\/\" class=\"more-link\">&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4490,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,259],"tags":[266,541,185,212,287],"class_list":["post-4362","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-rozhovory","tag-from-qys","tag-liberty-blake-simon","tag-rozhovor","tag-transrodovost","tag-vogue"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4362","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4362"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4362\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4421,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4362\/revisions\/4421"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4490"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4362"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4362"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4362"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}