{"id":4091,"date":"2023-05-15T08:41:11","date_gmt":"2023-05-15T06:41:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=4091"},"modified":"2023-05-15T08:42:26","modified_gmt":"2023-05-15T06:42:26","slug":"pride-prvy-raz-v-bardejove-queer-ludi-sa-zastanu-hetero-rodicia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/pride-prvy-raz-v-bardejove-queer-ludi-sa-zastanu-hetero-rodicia\/","title":{"rendered":"Pride prv\u00fd raz v Bardejove: Queer \u013eud\u00ed sa zastan\u00fa hetero rodi\u010dia"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autor: Marek Hudec<\/strong> \/ FOTO: Pride Bardejov<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Leto 2023.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pochod za pr\u00e1va LGBTI+ \u013eud\u00ed zorganizuj\u00fa v k\u00fape\u013enom meste\u010dku zap\u00edsanom v UNESCO. Sprievod prejde n\u00e1mest\u00edm s mestskou aj slovenskou vlajkou. Mesto podujatie prijalo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00fahov\u00e9 pochody sa na Slovensku v poslednom desa\u0165ro\u010d\u00ed roz\u0161\u00edrili z Bratislavy do dvoch krajsk\u00fdch miest, Ko\u0161\u00edc a Banskej Bystrice, a podujatie Pride sa teraz prv\u00fd raz odohr\u00e1 aj na hradb\u00e1ch Bardejova. Meste\u010dko v Pre\u0161ovskom kraji m\u00e1 len nie\u010do cez 30 tis\u00edc obyvate\u013eov, je prepojen\u00e9 s bl\u00edzkym ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fdm k\u00fape\u013en\u00fdm are\u00e1lom, prekr\u00e1snym skanzenom a jeho malebn\u00e9 stredovek\u00e9 centrum je zap\u00edsan\u00e9 medzi pamiatky svetov\u00e9ho dedi\u010dstva UNESCO.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Architekt Adam Dzamba sa sem pris\u0165ahoval v roku 2011 z Bratislavy. Spom\u00edna si, \u017ee hoci poch\u00e1dza z ve\u013ek\u00e9ho mesta, ktor\u00e9 sa pova\u017euje za liber\u00e1lne, v rodine si vypo\u010dul mnoho predsudkov. Tie sa na\u0148ho v mladosti nalepili, pohyboval sa medzi skinheadmi a potom mu trvalo dlho netolerantn\u00e9 postoje prekona\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u010clovek sa m\u00f4\u017ee b\u00e1\u0165 nezn\u00e1meho a vyrasta\u0165 v podmienkach, ktor\u00e9 by som nazval chor\u00fdmi. Spoznal som v\u0161ak ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z LGBTI+ komunity, boli to moji kolegovia, spolu\u017eiaci, zn\u00e1mi, niektor\u00ed \u010dlenovia rodiny, hral som s nimi volejbal, chodil na pivo, na koncerty, do sauny a zistil som, \u017ee s\u00fa to skvel\u00ed, zlat\u00ed \u013eudia. Nie so v\u0161etk\u00fdmi sme si s\u00edce sadli, ale ani s jedn\u00fdm z nich som sa nepoh\u00e1dal, \u017eiadny z nich ma neoklamal, s mnoh\u00fdmi m\u00e1m dlhoro\u010dn\u00e9 priate\u013estv\u00e1. Zistil som, \u017ee pre mnoh\u00fdch z nich je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 o sebe hovori\u0165, a na\u0161tvalo ma, ke\u010f som si pri darovan\u00ed krvi pre\u010d\u00edtal v dotazn\u00edku ot\u00e1zku o sexu\u00e1lnej orient\u00e1cii,\u201c vrav\u00ed Adam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bol pohor\u0161en\u00fd, nerozumel, pre\u010do by mal by\u0165 niekto vyl\u00fa\u010den\u00fd. \u201eOdpovedali mi, \u017ee gejov vylu\u010duj\u00fa kv\u00f4li ich sp\u00f4sobu \u017eivota. Ja som sa ohradil: Pozor! Pozn\u00e1m chlapov, \u010do \u017eij\u00fa spolu v monogamnom vz\u0165ahu 14 rokov, ako by oni mohli by\u0165 rizikom? A \u010do keby som ja striedal partnerky ka\u017ed\u00fd mesiac? To v\u00e1m nevad\u00ed?\u201c Adamovi sa tie\u017e zdalo, \u017ee v dejin\u00e1ch sa slovensk\u00fd n\u00e1rod \u010dasto ocitol na zlej strane, za vojny bol s Hitlerom, teraz mnoh\u00ed a mnoh\u00e9 obhajuj\u00fa inv\u00e1ziu Ruska na Ukrajinu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eTieto rozhodnutia si potom v\u017edy odsk\u00e1\u010de niekto z na\u0161ich spoluob\u010danov, spoluob\u010dianok. Z toho mi vyplynulo, \u017ee k\u00fdm sa my, bieli hetero otcovia s man\u017eelkami a rodinami, nepostav\u00edme za queer \u013eud\u00ed, nebud\u00fa ma\u0165 \u0161ancu vyhra\u0165 a ma\u0165 pln\u00e9 pr\u00e1va. A pre\u010do? M\u00e1m deti vo veku, ke\u010f e\u0161te nevieme, ak\u00e9 bud\u00fa. A nech s\u00fa ak\u00e9ko\u013evek, nechcem, aby museli v spolo\u010dnosti rie\u0161i\u0165 svoju inakos\u0165. Tak, ako ma nezauj\u00edma, \u010di m\u00e1 niekto in\u00fa nohu, in\u00e9 vlasy, nemalo by ma ani zauj\u00edma\u0165, kto s k\u00fdm sp\u00e1va. Malo by ma zauj\u00edma\u0165, \u010di si \u010destn\u00fd \u010dlovek, dobr\u00fd remeseln\u00edk, \u010di je s tebou sranda.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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S kamar\u00e1tmi a kamar\u00e1tkami sa za\u010dali rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 o n\u00e1pade zorganizova\u0165 prv\u00fd Pride pochod v Bardejove. Organiza\u010dn\u00fd triumvir\u00e1t podujatia dop\u013a\u0148aj\u00fa Erika Frick\u00e1 a \u013dubor Balovi\u010d. V\u0161etci traja s\u00fa hetero rodi\u010dia, ktor\u00ed by si \u017eelali, aby mesto p\u00f4sobilo bezpe\u010dnej\u0161ie a otvorenej\u0161ie pre men\u0161iny. \u201eHoci sa m\u00f4\u017ee zda\u0165, \u017ee Bardejov\u010dania s\u00fa bigo\u0165\u00e1ci a komunisti, je tu aj ve\u013ea tolerantn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed,\u201c vysvet\u013euje Adam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pochod je napl\u00e1novan\u00fd na 10. j\u00fana. 2023 o 15.00 a symbolicky za\u010dne pri \u017didovskom suburbiu. V Bardejove je to v\u00fdznamn\u00fd okruh nieko\u013ek\u00fdch stavieb zap\u00edsan\u00fdch do zoznamu UNESCO \u2013 starej synag\u00f3gy, domu zhroma\u017edenia, ritu\u00e1lneho k\u00fape\u013ea, expanznej ve\u017ee a kotolne. Organiz\u00e1tori po\u010dkaj\u00fa na oneskorencov a potom zamieria na hlavn\u00e9 n\u00e1mestie, kde sa po oto\u010dke zastavia ved\u013ea kostola v parku Emila Korbu. Pod stromami bude podujatie pokra\u010dova\u0165 kult\u00farnym programom, najprv vyst\u00fapia dvaja folkov\u00ed muzikanti, Michal Kralovi\u010d a \u0160tefan \u0160anta, a hudbu doplnia pr\u00edhovory rodi\u010dov LGBTI+ det\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Program nebude pr\u00edli\u0161 dlh\u00fd, organiz\u00e1torsk\u00fd t\u00edm zatia\u013e nevie, \u010di m\u00e1 o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 nejak\u00fa protireakciu, preto sa rozhodli najprv pre nahustenej\u0161iu dramaturgiu. Adam si pam\u00e4t\u00e1, ke\u010f s tehotnou man\u017eelkou nav\u0161t\u00edvili prv\u00fd slovensk\u00fd Pride v roku 2010 a kv\u00f4li obav\u00e1m z \u00fatoku neonacistov sa nez\u00fa\u010dastnili pochodu. Bezpe\u010dnos\u0165 podujatia teraz zaistili v\u010faka spolupr\u00e1ci s mestskou aj \u0161t\u00e1tnou pol\u00edciou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00daradn\u00fa komunik\u00e1ciu s mestom hodnot\u00ed Adam ako hladk\u00fa, nestretli sa so \u017eiadnymi komplik\u00e1ciami. \u201eMysl\u00edm si, \u017ee po dvojn\u00e1sobnej vra\u017ede Juraja a Mat\u00fa\u0161a pred Tepl\u00e1r\u0148ou si u\u017e \u00farady nedovolia poveda\u0165 nie.\u201c T\u00edm si v\u0161ak nerob\u00ed il\u00fazie, ne\u010dak\u00e1, \u017ee jedn\u00fdm podujat\u00edm zmen\u00ed bigotn\u00e9 n\u00e1zory niektor\u00fdch obyvate\u013eov a obyvateliek v meste. \u201eO\u010dak\u00e1vame postupn\u00e9 obrusovanie hr\u00e1n. D\u00fafame v\u0161ak, \u017ee diskusii pom\u00f4\u017eeme a minim\u00e1lne mlad\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom uk\u00e1\u017eeme, \u017ee hoci sa o t\u00e9me inakosti nevedia v\u017edy porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 s pr\u00edbuzn\u00fdmi, v Bardejove m\u00f4\u017eu n\u00e1js\u0165 komunitu,\u201c vysvet\u013euje Adam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zd\u00f4raz\u0148uje tie\u017e, \u017ee na \u010dele pochodu bud\u00fa okrem inkluz\u00edvnej LGBTI+ vlajky (s klinom, ktor\u00e1 reprezentuje aj etnick\u00e9 men\u0161iny) nies\u0165 aj z\u00e1stavy Bardejova a Slovenska. \u201eDostali sme sa do bodu, ke\u010f si \u0161t\u00e1tnu vlajku u n\u00e1s privlastnili fa\u0161isti a komunisti, no je to vlajka v\u0161etk\u00fdch slu\u0161n\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, \u010do tu \u017eij\u00fa. Treba si ju vzia\u0165 sp\u00e4\u0165,\u201c dod\u00e1va Adam.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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