{"id":3876,"date":"2023-01-18T08:12:00","date_gmt":"2023-01-18T07:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=3876"},"modified":"2023-01-18T12:13:17","modified_gmt":"2023-01-18T11:13:17","slug":"niko-nagy-ludia-sa-nedelia-na-dobrych-a-zlych-prislusnikov-lgbti-komunity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/niko-nagy-ludia-sa-nedelia-na-dobrych-a-zlych-prislusnikov-lgbti-komunity\/","title":{"rendered":"Niko Nagy: \u013dudia sa nedelia na dobr\u00fdch a zl\u00fdch pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edkov LGBTI+ komunity"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autor: Matej Uhl\u00e1r<\/strong> \/ FOTO: Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2022.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Nikomu by sme nemali diktova\u0165, ako pre\u017e\u00edva svoju frustr\u00e1ciu, hnev, \u017eia\u013e. A to hlavne v situ\u00e1cii, ke\u010f n\u00e1m vra\u017edia kamar\u00e1tov, vrav\u00ed Niko Nagy, ktor\u00e9 sa zapojilo do organiz\u00e1cie protestov po vra\u017ed\u00e1ch pred Tepl\u00e1r\u0148ou. Pracuje v Amnesty International a vo vo\u013enom \u010dase p\u00f4sob\u00ed v spolku LIGHT* a v inTYMYte.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak\u00e9 pocity rezonuj\u00fa v queer komunite po \u00fatoku na Z\u00e1mockej ulici v Bratislave?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prv\u00e9 dni po incidente boli ve\u013emi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. Nevrav\u00edm to len preto, \u017ee som osobne poznalo Mat\u00fa\u0161a a m\u00e1m priate\u013esk\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy s \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed sa priatelili s oboma mlad\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed boli zavra\u017eden\u00ed (Juraj nebol mu\u017e, bol nebin\u00e1rny). Ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed z m\u00f4jho okolia sa za\u010dalo b\u00e1\u0165, tak\u017ee sme sa hlavne sna\u017eili navz\u00e1jom na seba d\u00e1va\u0165 pozor, podporova\u0165 sa, pom\u00e1ha\u0165 si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010ci\u017ee komunita sa stmelila?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je pravda, \u017ee vn\u00edmam v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu chu\u0165 spolupracova\u0165 v jednotliv\u00fdch kolekt\u00edvoch. Zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a hlavne u mlad\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed vo veku okolo 20 rokov. Vzniklo viacero protestov a niektor\u00e9 iniciat\u00edvy, ako napr\u00edklad Nebudeme ticho, LIGHT* a Povstanie pokra\u010duje, sa pri ich organiz\u00e1cii spojili, vznikli aj nov\u00e9 iniciat\u00edvy ako Ide n\u00e1m o \u017eivot. Organizovali sme tie\u017e kurz sebaobrany \u010di premietanie filmov. No na druhej strane mus\u00edm samo za seba poveda\u0165, \u017ee aj v tomto procese som videlo, ko\u013eko v sebe maj\u00fa \u013eudia queernegativity. Aj v r\u00e1mci na\u0161ej komunity som sa toti\u017e stretlo s t\u00fdm, \u017ee \u013eudia sa navz\u00e1jom obvi\u0148ovali napr\u00edklad za to, \u017ee niekto na protestoch nad\u00e1val \u010di plakal, alebo povedal do m\u00e9di\u00ed nie\u010do, \u010do sa druh\u00fdm nep\u00e1\u010dilo. Namiesto toho, aby sme vynalo\u017eili v\u0161etku energiu na boj za svoje pr\u00e1va, \u0148ou mrh\u00e1me na vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9 obvi\u0148ovanie sa. Treba si v\u0161ak uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s c\u00edti boles\u0165 a sm\u00fatok a ka\u017ed\u00fd sa s t\u00fdmito pocitmi vyrovn\u00e1va inak. Pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch je to obrovsk\u00e9 emocion\u00e1lne vyp\u00e4tie, hlavne v situ\u00e1cii, ke\u010f n\u00e1m vra\u017edia kamar\u00e1tov. Nikto nie je na tak\u00e9to situ\u00e1cie pripraven\u00fd, tob\u00f4\u017e nie v demokratickej krajine, za ktor\u00fa sa Slovensko vyhlasuje. Preto nikto nem\u00e1 ani najmen\u0161ie pr\u00e1vo nikomu diktova\u0165, ako by mal prejavova\u0165 svoj \u017eia\u013e, frustr\u00e1ciu, bezmocnos\u0165 a nes\u00fahlas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je pravda, \u017ee pre mnoh\u00fdch je nevhodnou formou propag\u00e1cie a protestu aj D\u00fahov\u00fd pochod\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee kritika PRIDE-u nie je opr\u00e1vnen\u00e1. Pramen\u00ed z toho, \u017ee \u013eudia maj\u00fa potrebu diktova\u0165, \u010do si kto m\u00f4\u017ee obliec\u0165, ako sa m\u00e1 prezentova\u0165. A o tom predsa PRIDE je \u2013 PRIDE za\u010dal ako vzbura a na jeho \u010dele od za\u010diatku boli transrodov\u00ed \u013eudia, \u010derno\u0161ky, drag queens, najviac marginalizovan\u00ed \u013eudia z komunity. PRIDE m\u00e1 by\u0165 protestom, deklarujeme n\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1me pr\u00e1vo na vyjadrenie svojej identity aj na s\u00fakromn\u00fd a rodinn\u00fd \u017eivot. Ja som ve\u013emi rado, \u017ee v situ\u00e1cii na Slovensku, ke\u010f politici chc\u00fa zak\u00e1za\u0165 tranz\u00edcie, ke\u010f na n\u00e1s \u013eudia neust\u00e1le \u00fato\u010dia a dokonca n\u00e1s vra\u017edia, m\u00f4\u017eu \u013eudia aspo\u0148 na PRIDE by\u0165 sami sebou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z \u010doho pramen\u00ed rast\u00faca queernegativita na Slovensku?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je to v\u00fdsledok snahy nieko\u013ek\u00fdch organiz\u00e1ci\u00ed \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa spojen\u00ed v takzvanom antigenderovom hnut\u00ed. Dnes u\u017e je dok\u00e1zan\u00e9, \u017ee t\u00e1to iniciat\u00edva je financovan\u00e1 ve\u013emi bohat\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi z r\u00f4znych kraj\u00edn. Maj\u00fa prepojenie na politikov a na in\u00fdch vplyvn\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. T\u00fdmto sp\u00f4sobom vn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa neust\u00e1le svoje presved\u010denie a negativizmus do spolo\u010dnosti. Ja chcem v\u0161ak veri\u0165 tomu, \u017ee ak sa oslab\u00ed moc \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed akt\u00edvne rozd\u00fachavaj\u00fa nen\u00e1vis\u0165 v r\u00e1mci svojej propagandy, spolo\u010dnos\u0165 prestane queer \u013eud\u00ed akt\u00edvne nen\u00e1vidie\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vedia queernegat\u00edvni \u013eudia nejak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom potla\u010di\u0165 svoje presved\u010denie a vych\u00e1dza\u0165 s pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00edkmi LGBT+ komunity?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jednou z vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 rada rob\u00ed, je, \u017ee rozde\u013euje \u013eud\u00ed z LGBTI+ komunity na dobr\u00fdch a zl\u00fdch. Dokonal\u00fdm pr\u00edkladom toho s\u00fa napr\u00edklad ich ob\u013e\u00faben\u00ed herci z telev\u00edznej obrazovky. T\u00fdm t\u00fato skuto\u010dnos\u0165 dok\u00e1\u017eu tolerova\u0165 a obhajuj\u00fa to t\u00fdm, \u017ee s\u00fa t\u00ed dobr\u00ed gejovia alebo lesby \u2013 no skr\u00e1tka svetl\u00e9 v\u00fdnimky. Tento princ\u00edp funguje aj v mnoh\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch. \u013dudia m\u00f4\u017eu ma\u0165 radi \u010dlena svojej rodiny, ktor\u00fd je queer, a napriek tomu volia radik\u00e1lnych politikov, ktor\u00ed chc\u00fa queer \u013eu\u010fom odopiera\u0165 pr\u00e1va. Pod\u013ea m\u0148a Slovensko nie je krajinou, ktor\u00e1 by si pevne st\u00e1la za svojimi hodnotami. S\u00edce deklarujeme hodnoty, ale n\u00e1sledne ich nenasledujeme vo v\u0161etk\u00fdch sf\u00e9rach \u017eivota. Potom v spolo\u010dnosti m\u00f4\u017eeme vidie\u0165 \u010fal\u0161\u00ed paradox. \u013dudia na v\u00fdznamn\u00fdch postoch si uvedomuj\u00fa, \u017ee priznanie, \u017ee patria medzi LGBT+ \u013eud\u00ed, by mohlo ohrozi\u0165 ich status, preto navonok podporuj\u00fa queernegat\u00edvne n\u00e1vrhy z\u00e1konov. Spom\u00ednam si na jeden kr\u00e1sny pr\u00edklad z Ma\u010farska, kde mal jeden vyslovene krajne pravicov\u00fd politik v jednom kuse nen\u00e1vistn\u00e9 prejavy proti queer \u013eu\u010fom. A potom sa zistilo, \u017ee chodil na LGBTI+ swingers p\u00e1rty do Belgicka. N\u00e1sledne o sebe vyhl\u00e1sil, \u017ee to bol iba posadnut\u00fd diablom, ale u\u017e je vylie\u010den\u00fd. Tak\u00fdchto \u013eud\u00ed m\u00e1me aj v na\u0161ej krajine ve\u013emi ve\u013ea. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou ide o privilegovan\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed si m\u00f4\u017eu dovoli\u0165 napr\u00edklad ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00edkend odletie\u0165 do nejak\u00e9ho bezpe\u010dn\u00e9ho priestoru na p\u00e1rty, a zvy\u0161ok t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a sa tv\u00e1ri\u0165 a robi\u0165 veci tak, aby neohrozili svoj nadobudnut\u00fd post. Treba si v\u0161ak uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee nie ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 mo\u017enos\u0165 si len tak odletie\u0165 niekam, kde sa c\u00edti bezpe\u010dne. Po vra\u017ede v Tepl\u00e1rni viacer\u00ed \u013eudia opustili Slovensko. Je pravdou, \u017ee teraz sa mo\u017eno o na\u0161ej komunite hovor\u00ed tro\u0161ku viac, \u017ee my z komunity o sebe hovor\u00edme viac, no na druhej strane m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee sa z\u00e1rove\u0148 omnoho viac skr\u00fdvame. Ja sa takisto so svojou priate\u013ekou na ulici nedr\u017e\u00edm za ruky. Ke\u010f sa ve\u010der l\u00fa\u010dime s priate\u013emi, pripom\u00edname si, aby sme si dali dolu odznaky, d\u00fahov\u00e9 stu\u017eky\u2026 \u017dijeme vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161om strachu. Je pochopite\u013en\u00e9, \u017ee mnoh\u00ed to nezvl\u00e1dli, a preto odi\u0161li. Ale nie ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 mo\u017enos\u0165 zbali\u0165 sa a od\u00eds\u0165 a ja za seba si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee pre m\u0148a to nie je rie\u0161enie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee podobn\u00e9 \u00fatoky by sa mohli na Slovensku opakova\u0165?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Samozrejme, \u017ee \u00e1no. Niektor\u00ed \u013eudia napr\u00edklad v m\u00e9di\u00e1ch polemizuj\u00fa o tom, \u010do v\u0161etko by sa malo, \u010do v\u0161etko sa zmen\u00ed. A potom tu m\u00e1me politikov, ktor\u00ed hovoria o tom, \u017ee zavra\u017eden\u00ed mlad\u00ed \u013eudia si mo\u017eno za \u00fatok mohli sami. K tomu, \u010do sa stalo, v skuto\u010dnosti \u013eudia pri moci nezaujali rezol\u00fatny postoj. Neprijalo sa ani jedno opatrenie, aby sa tak\u00e9to veci u\u017e viacej neopakovali. Tak trochu mi to pripom\u00edna moju \u00fa\u010das\u0165 na diskusi\u00e1ch \u010di predn\u00e1\u0161kach. V pozv\u00e1nke sa \u010dasto deklaruje, \u017ee dan\u00e1 akcia je otvoren\u00e1 absol\u00fatne pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch, no a potom daj\u00fa vyplni\u0165 dotazn\u00edk, kde by som si ja, ako nebin\u00e1rna osoba, malo vybra\u0165 medzi \u017eensk\u00fdm alebo mu\u017esk\u00fdm pohlav\u00edm. To je, ako keby mi niekto nepriamo nazna\u010dil, bu\u010fte tu, ke\u010f teda chcete a mus\u00edte, ale dr\u017ete \u00fasta a krok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je v\u00f4bec nejak\u00e9 re\u00e1lne v\u00fdchodisko pre queer \u013eud\u00ed na Slovensku?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ja vid\u00edm v\u00fdchodisko v sp\u00e1jan\u00ed sa. Sp\u00e1jajme sa, vytv\u00e1rajme siln\u00e9 komunity, ktor\u00fdch hlavnou prioritou bude staranie sa jeden o druh\u00e9ho. Bu\u010fme s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou hnutia. Spolo\u010dne si mus\u00edme budova\u0165 siete, kde si budeme navz\u00e1jom radi\u0165, ako oklama\u0165 syst\u00e9m, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s chce ist\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom vymaza\u0165. Aj z hist\u00f3rie vid\u00edme, \u017ee sme sa nikdy nenechali \u00faplne zatla\u010di\u0165 do k\u00fata. Ani vtedy, ke\u010f n\u00e1s zatv\u00e1rali do koncentra\u010dn\u00fdch t\u00e1borov, ani vtedy, ke\u010f n\u00e1m odmietali d\u00e1va\u0165 lieky proti HIV. A ver\u00edm, \u017ee tak tomu bude aj teraz. U\u017e dnes vn\u00edmam a c\u00edtim, \u017ee sa spolo\u010dne sp\u00e1jame, aby sme spolo\u010dne na\u010derpali silu na lep\u0161\u00ed zajtraj\u0161ok.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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