{"id":3579,"date":"2022-07-05T06:56:37","date_gmt":"2022-07-05T04:56:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=3579"},"modified":"2022-07-06T18:26:04","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T16:26:04","slug":"masky-latex-kroje-ako-sa-obliect-na-pride","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/masky-latex-kroje-ako-sa-obliect-na-pride\/","title":{"rendered":"Masky, latex, kroje. Ako sa obliec\u0165 na Pride?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autor: Tonie Thimble<\/strong> \/ Foto: Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pribl\u00ed\u017eme si hor\u00face trendy a m\u00f3dne st\u00e1lice. Pride je pre n\u00e1s mo\u017enos\u0165 zvidite\u013eni\u0165 queer komunitu na Slovensku a pouk\u00e1za\u0165 na jej probl\u00e9my. Chceme sa predvies\u0165 v tom najlep\u0161om svetle a predstavi\u0165 sa t\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed e\u0161te nevedia, \u010do slovko queer znamen\u00e1, ale aj podrypn\u00fa\u0165 Alianciu za rodinu a zabavi\u0165 sa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u017edy s\u00fa v\u00edtan\u00e9 d\u00fahov\u00e9 vlajky, n\u00e1ramky, pr\u00edvesky. Nemus\u00edte sa v\u0161ak obmedzova\u0165 na klasick\u00fa d\u00fahov\u00fa, m\u00e1me aj progres\u00edvnu d\u00fahov\u00fa, bledomodro-ru\u017eovo-bielu transrodov\u00fa, hned\u00fa s medve\u010fou packou pre ve\u013ek\u00fdch chlpat\u00fdch gejov \u010di ru\u017eov\u00fa vlajku pre femme lesby. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 citov\u00e1 a sexu\u00e1lna orient\u00e1cia \u010di identita m\u00e1 t\u00fa svoju a najlep\u0161ie je spravi\u0165 si o nich preh\u013ead na wikip\u00e9dii<\/a> alebo webin\u00e1ri o queer symboloch na na\u0161om facebookovom profile D\u00fahov\u00fd rok.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1no, aj heterosexu\u00e1lni \u013eudia maj\u00fa svoju, \u010dierno-bielu p\u00e1sikav\u00fa. T\u00ed z nich, ktor\u00ed podporuj\u00fa queer komunitu, pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa \u010dierno-bielu vlajku s d\u00fahov\u00fdm \u201eA\u201c ako ally<\/em> \u2013 angl. spojenec \u010di spojenky\u0148a. V\u0161etky permut\u00e1cie queer komunity s\u00fa v\u00edtan\u00e9 a mo\u017eno v\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017eu n\u00e1js\u0165 niekoho podobn\u00e9ho. Osobne si pl\u00e1nujem obliec\u0165 asexu\u00e1lnu a nebin\u00e1rnu vlajku, ktor\u00e9 bud\u00fa spojen\u00e9 na ramen\u00e1ch a prep\u00e1san\u00e9 do starogr\u00e9ckeho odevu peplos, lebo \u010do je teplej\u0161ie ako starovek\u00e9 Gr\u00e9cko?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kvetinov\u00e1 koruna \u010di veniec bud\u00fa ide\u00e1lnymi doplnkami. Britsko-\u00edrska skupina One Direction pred rokmi zaviedla kvetinov\u00e9 koruny do m\u00f3dy a fandom seri\u00e1lu Hannibal<\/em> vy\u0161vihol tento doplnok do m\u00f3dneho mainstreamu a ka\u017ed\u00e9ho obchodu. Pred pand\u00e9miou boli kvetinov\u00e9 koruny v m\u00f3de tak v queer komunite, ako aj mimo nej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pride je ide\u00e1lna pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 na experimentovanie so sebavyjadren\u00edm. V pr\u00e1ci v\u00e1s vidia cel\u00fd t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148 iba v obleku? Pride v\u00e1s priv\u00edta v sukni. Doma v\u00e1m chc\u00fa natla\u010di\u0165 ma\u0161li\u010dky a ru\u017eov\u00fa? Berte na seba binder a kaps\u00e1\u010de. Pride je skvel\u00e9 miesto na v\u00fdmenu typov a trikov na m\u00f3du a mejkap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zv\u00e1\u017ete v\u0161ak obuv. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina pochodov sa kon\u00e1 v starom centre miest a dla\u017edice s\u00fa nevhodn\u00e9 pre va\u0161e nov\u00e9 ihli\u010dky. \u0164a\u017ek\u00e9 \u010di\u017emy, kanady a podobne vyzeraj\u00fa dobre aj so \u0161atami a ochr\u00e1nia va\u0161e \u010dlenky pred vyvrtnut\u00edm. Ak predsa len chcete \u00eds\u0165 na nestabiln\u00fdch top\u00e1nkach, berte so sebou niekoho, koho sa cel\u00fd \u010das m\u00f4\u017eete pridr\u017eiava\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vych\u00e1dzkov\u00e9 pali\u010dky a barle s\u00fa ide\u00e1lnym spolo\u010dn\u00edkom pre bo\u013eav\u00e9 nohy. Neodpor\u00fa\u010dam taktick\u00e9 pali\u010dky alebo tak\u00e9 so skryt\u00fdm me\u010dom vn\u00fatri. S\u00fa pr\u00edli\u0161 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 a nemotorn\u00e9, ak ich potrebujete ako zdravotn\u00edcku pom\u00f4cku pri ch\u00f4dzi. Je aj ist\u00e1 pravdepodobnos\u0165, \u017ee v\u00e1s s nimi nepustia na Pride cez bezpe\u010dnostn\u00fa kontrolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O latexe a ko\u017ei sa zvykne \u010dasto diskutova\u0165. Mal by si \u010dlovek obliec\u0165 kinky \u0161ato\u010dky \u010di ko\u017een\u00e9 nohavice? To je ot\u00e1zka. N\u00e1jde sa nejeden hlas, \u010do tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00fahov\u00fd pochod m\u00e1 by\u0165 vhodn\u00fd pre cel\u00fa rodinu. Najhlasnej\u0161ie protestuj\u00fa konzervat\u00edvci, ktor\u00ed by chceli v\u0161etky tieto \u201ezvrhlosti\u201c zak\u00e1za\u0165. \u010co je v\u0161ak na Pride nevhodn\u00e9 pre deti? Ke\u010f vieme vysvetli\u0165 troj- \u010di p\u00e4\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e9mu die\u0165a\u0165u, pre\u010do sa here\u010dka a herec vo filme bozk\u00e1vaj\u00fa, ak\u00fd m\u00e1me probl\u00e9m poveda\u0165 to ist\u00e9 o dvoch mu\u017eoch \u010di dvoch \u017een\u00e1ch? Dali si pusu, lebo sa \u013e\u00fabia. Hotovo. Ujovia a tety maj\u00fa na sebe masky ako na ma\u0161karnom b\u00e1le. Tomu deti rozumej\u00fa, aj oni maj\u00fa v \u0161k\u00f4lke karneval. Ak neviete vysvetli\u0165 svojmu die\u0165a\u0165u veci, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017ee uvidie\u0165 na Pride, neberte ho na Pride. Po\u010fte sa najprv vzdela\u0165 a ratoles\u0165 vezmite na Pride a\u017e o rok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Polonah\u00ed \u013eudia s\u00fa aj na k\u00fapalisku. Kto nechce vidie\u0165 obna\u017een\u00e9 genit\u00e1lie, jednoducho nejde na nudapl\u00e1\u017e. Vidite\u013en\u00e1 poko\u017eka nie je amor\u00e1lna, o mravnosti \u010dloveka rozhoduj\u00fa \u010diny. \u010ci u\u017e ide o majite\u013ea alebo majite\u013eku obna\u017eenej hrude, alebo toho, kto sa na nich pozer\u00e1. Ak niekto ubl\u00ed\u017ei druh\u00e9mu len kv\u00f4li jeho v\u00fdzoru, je to jeho vlastn\u00e1 vizitka. Nikto nem\u00e1 zo z\u00e1kona v\u00fdnimku na z\u00e1klade toho, \u017ee n\u00e1hle uvidel dlh\u00e9 nohy a m\u00e1 nutkanie p\u00e1cha\u0165 sexu\u00e1lne n\u00e1silie, napriek tomu, \u017ee napadnut\u00fdch sa \u010dasto p\u00fdtaj\u00fa, \u010do mali v \u010dase \u00fatoku oble\u010den\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Argument, \u017ee sa \u201ened\u00f4stojn\u00fdm oble\u010den\u00edm\u201c zni\u017euje \u00farove\u0148 podujatia, je chab\u00e1 z\u00e1sterka bigotnosti, a ke\u010f ho raz pripust\u00edme, posunie sa hranica toho, \u010do sa pova\u017euje za nevhodn\u00e9 pre deti. V Ma\u010farsku nesm\u00fa u\u010ditelia a u\u010dite\u013eky de\u0165om poveda\u0165, \u017ee existuje in\u00e1 ako heterosexu\u00e1lna orient\u00e1cia. Nechr\u00e1nia t\u00fdm v\u0161ak deti, ale ich rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed si mylne myslia, \u017ee ak svoje die\u0165a izoluj\u00fa od inform\u00e1ci\u00ed, oni sami sa vyhn\u00fa \u201ene\u0161\u0165astiu\u201c, ak\u00fdm je ma\u0165 die\u0165a s homosexu\u00e1lnou orient\u00e1ciou. V skuto\u010dnosti t\u00fdm nanajv\u00fd\u0161 oddialia rozhovor, ktor\u00ed nechc\u00fa ma\u0165, preto\u017ee svoje deti \u013e\u00fabia iba za ur\u010dit\u00fdch podmienok. Kink by v\u0161ak ur\u010dite mal ma\u0165 na Pride-och vyhraden\u00e9 priestory, aby sa mu dalo cielene vyhn\u00fa\u0165 aj ho z\u00e1merne vyh\u013eada\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010co by re\u00e1lne malo zav\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 pri va\u0161om rozhodovan\u00ed, \u010do na seba, je po\u010dasie. Naozaj si chcete pudrova\u0165 cel\u00e9 telo, aby ste sa vedeli zaodie\u0165 do latexu na najteplej\u0161iu \u010das\u0165 d\u0148a? Potom budete musie\u0165 \u0161pongiou vydrhn\u00fa\u0165, \u010do sa ned\u00e1 opra\u0165, a znova odev napudrova\u0165, aby sa nezlepil na veky vekov. V ko\u017ei v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 tie\u017e ve\u013emi teplo. Ak nem\u00e1te zdravotn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a neboj\u00edte sa, \u017ee odpadnete od hor\u00fa\u010davy a z\u00e1chran\u00e1ri v\u00e1m \u0161atstvo prestrihn\u00fa, hor sa do ko\u017ee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak si chcete da\u0165 na tv\u00e1r masku, pre\u010do nie? Pand\u00e9mia sa e\u0161te celkom neskon\u010dila a prenos koronav\u00edrusu z \u010dloveka na \u010dloveka je mo\u017en\u00fd aj na verejnom priestranstve. Ko\u017een\u00e9 masky v\u00e1s pred v\u00edrusmi ochr\u00e1nia menej, ale ak preferujete ma\u0165 v int\u00edmnych momentoch na sebe gimp masku, hor sa do toho. S jej verejn\u00fdm nosen\u00edm je ten ist\u00fd probl\u00e9m ako pri in\u00fdch kinky odevoch. Bude v\u00e1m na Pride teplo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak uva\u017eujete, \u010di zobra\u0165 na Pride dom\u00e1ceho mazn\u00e1\u010dika, overte si vopred, ako v\u00e1\u0161 pes, ma\u010dka \u010di papag\u00e1j zn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa davy \u013eud\u00ed a hluk. Zaba\u013ete im misku na vodu a jedlo. Aj svojmu partnerovi \u010di partnerke a sebe zaba\u013ete jedlo s vodou, bez oh\u013eadu na to, \u010di sa chcete hra\u0165 na pon\u00edka alebo ps\u00edka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Krinol\u00edny, korzety a \u010fal\u0161\u00ed odev z minulosti nemusia hne\u010f znamena\u0165, \u017ee aj va\u0161e hodnoty s\u00fa spiato\u010dn\u00edcke. Len si, pros\u00edm, neutiahnite \u017eiv\u00f4tik pr\u00edli\u0161 natesno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak ste si chceli obliec\u0165 \u013eudov\u00fd kroj a zhodi\u0165 matku smrti Morenu z mosta a symbolicky tak odzvoni\u0165 smrti, chorobe a zime, na to bol \u010das dva t\u00fd\u017edne pred Ve\u013ekou nocou. Ale aj tak m\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 hrd\u00ed a hrd\u00e9 na svoje korene. Kroj som s\u00edce e\u0161te na Pride nevidelo, n\u00e1pady a politiku zo stredoveku v\u00edda\u0165 sk\u00f4r na protidemon\u0161tr\u00e1ci\u00e1ch alebo v parlamente. Nu\u017e, \u017eeny a \u013eudia s maternicou, zoberte vare\u0161ky oble\u010den\u00e9 ako b\u00e1biky a \u201eodmorenujte\u201c ich, mo\u017eno pr\u00edde feministick\u00e1 obroda, jar a s \u0148ou koniec politick\u00fdch z\u00e1sahov do maternice n\u00e1roda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na z\u00e1ver si nezabudnite zobra\u0165 odli\u010dovacie obr\u00fasky a mo\u017eno n\u00e1hradn\u00fd, menej v\u00fdrazn\u00fd odev. Po ukon\u010den\u00ed podujat\u00ed Pride sa v okol\u00ed m\u00f4\u017eu potulova\u0165 r\u00f4zne vyholen\u00e9 hlavy. Je smutn\u00e9, \u017ee po oslave inakosti sa pre vlastn\u00e9 bezpe\u010die zaodejeme do f\u00e1dnych h\u00e1bov, aby na n\u00e1s nik neza\u00fato\u010dil. Pride je aj o zvidite\u013enen\u00ed faktu, \u017ee nie ka\u017ed\u00fd partnersk\u00fd p\u00e1r sa m\u00f4\u017ee len tak dr\u017ea\u0165 za ruky.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Autor: Tonie Thimble \/ Foto: Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d Pribl\u00ed\u017eme si hor\u00face trendy a m\u00f3dne st\u00e1lice. Pride je pre n\u00e1s mo\u017enos\u0165 zvidite\u013eni\u0165 queer komunitu na Slovensku a pouk\u00e1za\u0165 na jej probl\u00e9my. Chceme sa predvies\u0165 v tom najlep\u0161om svetle a predstavi\u0165 sa t\u00fdm, ktor\u00ed e\u0161te nevedia, \u010do slovko queer znamen\u00e1, ale aj podrypn\u00fa\u0165 Alianciu za rodinu a zabavi\u0165 …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":3580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,10,12,13],"tags":[266,316,139,282],"class_list":["post-3579","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pride","category-kultura","category-tipy","category-viditelnost","tag-from-qys","tag-moda","tag-pride","tag-tipy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3579","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3579"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3579\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3622,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3579\/revisions\/3622"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3579"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3579"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3579"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}