{"id":3422,"date":"2022-05-23T13:13:32","date_gmt":"2022-05-23T11:13:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=3422"},"modified":"2022-05-23T17:20:18","modified_gmt":"2022-05-23T15:20:18","slug":"ta-bolest-ta-mozno-prejde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/ta-bolest-ta-mozno-prejde\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00e1 boles\u0165 \u0165a (mo\u017eno) prejde"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autorka: Dominika Chrastov\u00e1<\/strong> \/ Foto: Nomantinels \/ Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Novin\u00e1rka Mia \u017durekov\u00e1 \u010dasto p\u00ed\u0161e o pr\u00e1vach \u017eien a queer komunite. Minul\u00fd rok z\u00edskala za s\u00e9riu textov o transrodov\u00fdch \u013eu\u010foch nomin\u00e1ciu na Cenu Inakosti. Ako povedala pre QYS, k t\u00fdmto t\u00e9mam ju vedie tendencia v\u017edy sa postavi\u0165 za niekoho, s k\u00fdm spolo\u010dnos\u0165 zaobch\u00e1dza nef\u00e9rovo. V marci divadlo Nomantinels navy\u0161e vydalo jej debutov\u00fa novelu T\u00e1 boles\u0165 \u0165a prejde<\/em>. Kni\u017eka m\u00e1 potenci\u00e1l pribl\u00ed\u017ei\u0165 spektrum transrodovej identity aj \u013eu\u010fom mimo komunity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201ePristupoval si ku mne tak, ako som ani netu\u0161ila, \u017ee chcem, aby ku mne niekto pristupoval,\u201c opisuje rozpr\u00e1va\u010dka svojho kolegu Michala Hviezdu. Hoci spolu pracovali u\u017e dlh\u0161ie, detailnej\u0161ie si ho v\u0161imla a\u017e na teambuildingu v Boh\u00e9me. Nie\u010do ju k nemu pri\u0165ahovalo, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 by po\u013eahky uverila, \u017ee je gej. Bol tak\u00fd zvl\u00e1\u0161tne elegantn\u00fd a… \u017eensk\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Navy\u0161e ju dok\u00e1zal bez probl\u00e9mov rozosmia\u0165 a nemal probl\u00e9m vyzdvihn\u00fa\u0165 ju z nevydaren\u00e9ho rande. Zrodilo sa tak \u201el\u00e1skou pre\u0161pikovan\u00e9 priate\u013estvo\u201c, ktor\u00e9 e\u0161te viac utu\u017eilo int\u00edmne tajomstvo. Michal bol toti\u017e z\u00e1rove\u0148 aj Maia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pr\u00edbeh stoj\u00ed na re\u00e1lnych z\u00e1kladoch. Autorku in\u0161piroval \u017eivot transrodovej osoby z jej okolia. Odha\u013eovanie vlastnej identity a komplik\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e9 inakos\u0165 m\u00f4\u017ee sp\u00f4sobi\u0165 v kamar\u00e1tstvach, rodine, pr\u00e1ci \u010di romantick\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch, n\u00e1sledne Mia pretavila do svojej kni\u017eky. \u201ePripadalo mi zauj\u00edmav\u00e9 pozrie\u0165 sa bli\u017e\u0161ie na t\u00fato t\u00e9mu a z\u00e1rove\u0148 ju liter\u00e1rne dotvori\u0165,\u201c objas\u0148uje autorka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zasl\u00fa\u017een\u00e1 frustr\u00e1cia<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pridan\u00e9 depres\u00edvne stavy na strane Michala aj rozpr\u00e1va\u010dky bez mena posunuli dej do vcelku ponurej roviny. Pr\u00edbeh napreduje prostredn\u00edctvom listov, ktor\u00e9 hlavn\u00e1 postava p\u00ed\u0161e ako zadanie od svojej terapeutky. U\u017e na prvej strane je teda jasn\u00e9, \u017ee rozpr\u00e1va\u010dka musela za\u017ei\u0165 nie\u010do bolestiv\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako vysvitne, e\u0161te predt\u00fdm v nej smr\u0165 otca zakorenila spasite\u013esk\u00fd komplex. Mo\u017eno aj preto ju pri\u0165ahuje Michal, ktor\u00fd sa tr\u00e1pi svojou identitou. Maiu jej predstav\u00ed po dlh\u0161om v\u00e1han\u00ed. Rozpr\u00e1va\u010dka zareaguje tak jednoducho, a\u017e sa na tom LGBTI+ komunita mo\u017eno pobav\u00ed. No jej prvotn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky a postrehy uverite\u013ene zobrazuj\u00fa my\u0161lienkov\u00e9 pochody v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rovnako v\u00fdsti\u017ene p\u00f4sob\u00ed aj kapitola s\u00a0paroch\u0148ou. Hlavn\u00e1 postava chce dok\u00e1za\u0165 svoju otvorenos\u0165 vo\u010di inakosti a\u00a0objedn\u00e1 pre Maiu p\u00e4\u0165desiateurov\u00fd model. Namiesto trpezlivosti a\u00a0empatie v\u0161ak rozpr\u00e1va\u010dka priam vyv\u00edja n\u00e1tlak, aby sa jej Michal uk\u00e1zal v \u017eenskej podobe. Frustr\u00e1cii pri \u010d\u00edtan\u00ed sa teda zrejme nevyhnete, no v\u00a0tejto pas\u00e1\u017ei vytv\u00e1ra \u017eelan\u00fd efekt. Queer \u013eudia si mo\u017eno spomen\u00fa na podobn\u00e9 sk\u00fasenosti a\u00a0heterosexu\u00e1lna majorita poc\u00edti, \u017ee in\u00fd pr\u00edstup by bol ove\u013ea vhodnej\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u010co sa stalo \u0161tvrt\u00e9ho novembra?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kvalitu kni\u017eky mierne zni\u017euje \u010dast\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edvanie o\u0161\u00fachan\u00fdch fr\u00e1z (\u201enohy ako z olova\u201c, \u201ekamenn\u00fd v\u00fdraz v tv\u00e1ri\u201c), ktor\u00e9 sa daj\u00fa n\u00e1js\u0165 vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine \u017eensk\u00fdch rom\u00e1nov. M\u00e1lokedy sa v\u0161ak autork\u00e1m a autorom podar\u00ed uverite\u013ene vystihn\u00fa\u0165 psychick\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ekosti a vn\u00fatorn\u00fd z\u00e1pas s identitou, pokia\u013e nevych\u00e1dzaj\u00fa z vlastnej sk\u00fasenosti. Mii sa to podarilo, sama tvrd\u00ed: \u201eMysl\u00edm, \u017ee som dobr\u00e1 pozorovate\u013eka. Viem ve\u013ea vec\u00ed nasa\u0165 alebo vyc\u00edti\u0165, predstavi\u0165 si ich a pretavi\u0165 do slov.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako \u010falej prezr\u00e1dza, pri p\u00edsan\u00ed z\u00e1veru ju mierne skrotila editorka, inak by k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e1 sc\u00e9na vyzerala e\u0161te vyhrotenej\u0161ie. Obsah jedn\u00e9ho z listov celkom okato zd\u00f4vod\u0148uje, pre\u010do sa hlavn\u00e1 postava nechala vovies\u0165 do danej situ\u00e1cie. Napriek tomu ide o potrebn\u00fa pas\u00e1\u017e, inak by ovplyvnite\u013enos\u0165 rozpr\u00e1va\u010dky ned\u00e1vala ve\u013emi zmysel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eNeurob\u00ed \u010dlovek azda v\u0161etko preto, aby aspo\u0148 raz za\u017eil skuto\u010dn\u00e9 spojenie s in\u00fdm \u010dlovekom, hoci ho to nesk\u00f4r m\u00f4\u017ee st\u00e1\u0165 nesmierne ve\u013ea?\u201c U\u017e t\u00e1to ot\u00e1zka je predzves\u0165ou toho, \u010do hlavn\u00e9 postavy podnikn\u00fa \u0161tvrt\u00e9ho novembra. Najm\u00e4 dan\u00fd ve\u010der tvor\u00ed esenciu novelov\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1nru kni\u017eky a tie\u017e azda najtemnej\u0161ie tajomstvo rozpr\u00e1va\u010dky. Terapeutka sa ho nedozvie, no my z listov \u00e1no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kruhy pod o\u010dami, t\u00e1 boles\u0165 \u0165a prejde…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Autorka sa na za\u010diatku p\u00edsania zapo\u010d\u00favala do Katarzie, a tak sa \u00fatr\u017eky z piesne Michal <\/em>tiahnu dejom. Okrem mena je k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00e1 aj fr\u00e1za \u201et\u00e1 boles\u0165 \u0165a prejde\u201c, ktor\u00e1 svieti na obale kni\u017eky. Mo\u017eno v\u0161ak nejde o najv\u00fdsti\u017enej\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1zov. Hoci tie\u017e dotv\u00e1ra novelov\u00fd dojem, neodr\u00e1\u017ea koniec pr\u00edbehu. Bolesti ujde len jedna z post\u00e1v, druh\u00e1 dospeje k z\u00e1veru, \u017ee aj ke\u010f boles\u0165 m\u00f4\u017ee \u010dasom zoslabn\u00fa\u0165 alebo zmeni\u0165 formu, nezbav\u00ed sa jej nikdy. Presved\u010div\u00e1 preto zost\u00e1va iba interpret\u00e1cia, \u017ee ide o zbo\u017en\u00e9 prianie \u010di v\u00fdkrik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kni\u017eka je pre slovensk\u00fa literat\u00faru jednozna\u010dn\u00fdm obohaten\u00edm, a to z dvoch d\u00f4vodov. Zatia\u013e vy\u0161lo v na\u0161om jazyku len ve\u013emi m\u00e1lo diel, ktor\u00e9 bez kli\u0161\u00e9 pon\u00fakaj\u00fa n\u00e1h\u013ead do pre\u017e\u00edvania transrodovej osoby a maj\u00fa potenci\u00e1l pozit\u00edvne ovplyvni\u0165 zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eanie heterosexu\u00e1lnej cisrodovej v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iny. Pr\u00edbeh z pera Mie \u017durekovej navy\u0161e d\u00e1va do pozornosti potrebu zamera\u0165 sa na vlastn\u00e9 du\u0161evn\u00e9 zdravie. Nech si u\u017e akoko\u013evek cen\u00edme loj\u00e1lne priate\u013estv\u00e1 a chceme pom\u00e1ha\u0165 druh\u00fdm s ich probl\u00e9mami, svoje vlastn\u00e9 pocity nesmieme ods\u00fava\u0165 do \u00fazadia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Novelu T\u00e1 boles\u0165 \u0165a prejde<\/em> vydalo divadlo Nomantinels. Text by sa teda e\u0161te pokojne dal posun\u00fa\u0165 do dramatickej roviny, ktor\u00e1 by v\u010faka vyp\u00e4t\u00fdm sc\u00e9nam bola rovnako zapam\u00e4tate\u013en\u00e1, ako napr\u00edklad monodr\u00e1ma na mot\u00edvy pr\u00edbehu Bordeline<\/em> od Ivany Gibovej.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Autorka: Dominika Chrastov\u00e1 \/ Foto: Nomantinels \/ Jakub Kov\u00e1\u010d Novin\u00e1rka Mia \u017durekov\u00e1 \u010dasto p\u00ed\u0161e o pr\u00e1vach \u017eien a queer komunite. Minul\u00fd rok z\u00edskala za s\u00e9riu textov o transrodov\u00fdch \u013eu\u010foch nomin\u00e1ciu na Cenu Inakosti. Ako povedala pre QYS, k t\u00fdmto t\u00e9mam ju vedie tendencia v\u017edy sa postavi\u0165 za niekoho, s k\u00fdm spolo\u010dnos\u0165 zaobch\u00e1dza nef\u00e9rovo. V marci divadlo Nomantinels navy\u0161e vydalo …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":3498,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[261,257,10,13],"tags":[266,92,365,333,366,212,213],"class_list":["post-3422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-komentare-a-analyzy","category-literatura","category-kultura","category-viditelnost","tag-from-qys","tag-kniha","tag-mia-zurekova","tag-spisovatelka","tag-ta-bolest-ta-prejde","tag-transrodovost","tag-tranzicia"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3422"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3422\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3505,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3422\/revisions\/3505"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3498"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}