{"id":3231,"date":"2022-01-25T17:40:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-25T16:40:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=3231"},"modified":"2022-01-25T21:20:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-25T20:20:16","slug":"zivot-queer-ludi-po-pandemii-zatial-sa-akceptujme-aspon-navzajom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/zivot-queer-ludi-po-pandemii-zatial-sa-akceptujme-aspon-navzajom\/","title":{"rendered":"\u017divot queer \u013eud\u00ed po pand\u00e9mii: Zatia\u013e sa akceptujme aspo\u0148 navz\u00e1jom"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autorka: Dominika Chrastov\u00e1<\/strong> \/ Ilustr\u00e1cia: Vikt\u00f3ria Szab\u00f3ov\u00e1<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2021<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Od vypuknutia pand\u00e9mie vy\u0161lo u\u017e osem \u010d\u00edsel magaz\u00ednu QYS vr\u00e1tane toho, ktor\u00e9 pr\u00e1ve dr\u017e\u00edte v ruk\u00e1ch. V ka\u017edom sme v\u00e1m okrem aktu\u00e1lnych t\u00e9m pon\u00fakali aj povzbudenie a mo\u017enosti, ako opatrenia trpezlivo pre\u010dka\u0165. Nikto by v\u00e1m v\u0161ak nevy\u010d\u00edtal, ak by ste na optimizmus nena\u0161li energiu, preto\u017ee toto obdobie je naozaj \u00fanavn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Novin\u00e1ri u\u017e takmer dva roky p\u00ed\u0161u o tom istom. Dokonca by sa mohli zavies\u0165 st\u00e1vky, \u010do bude na titulk\u00e1ch najbli\u017e\u0161ie. Preplnen\u00e9 nemocnice, nov\u00fd variant, \u010fal\u0161ia at\u00f3mov\u00e1 zbra\u0148 plant\u00e1\u017enika, \u010di interrupcie? Fr\u00e1za \u201esame shit, different day\u201c plat\u00ed na Slovensku zrejme viac ne\u017e kedyko\u013evek predt\u00fdm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hoci nem\u00e1me ve\u013ek\u00fd vplyv na to, \u010do sa deje v parlamente, hlavn\u00e9 slovo n\u00e1m patr\u00ed v na\u0161om s\u00fakrom\u00ed. I ke\u010f aj tu m\u00f4\u017eete namieta\u0165, \u017ee nie v\u0161etko z\u00e1vis\u00ed len od v\u00e1s. Mo\u017eno ste si na\u0161li \u010fal\u0161iu pr\u00e1cu, lep\u0161\u00ed byt a o\u010daruj\u00facu polovi\u010dku, no nakoniec ste zistili, \u017ee s kolegami si nerozumiete, izby potrebujete v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie a nov\u00fd objav v\u00e1s nepo\u010d\u00fava. Ale aspo\u0148 ste sa niekam posunuli.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00fdba n\u00e1m odvaha, alebo spolupatri\u010dnos\u0165?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u017e v druhej vlne za\u010dalo by\u0165 jasn\u00e9, \u017ee \u010dakanie je najhor\u0161ia strat\u00e9gia, preto\u017ee koniec pand\u00e9mie je v nedoh\u013eadne. \u017di\u0165 treba, ako v\u017edy, v pr\u00edtomnosti. A je tu nie\u010do, na \u010dom by LGBTI+ komunita mohla zapracova\u0165 u\u017e teraz, nech ju to nebrzd\u00ed v bud\u00facnosti, ke\u010f sa sn\u00e1\u010f diskusie o na\u0161ich pr\u00e1vach op\u00e4\u0165 dostan\u00fa do popredia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pouk\u00e1zal na to aj ma\u010farsk\u00fd editor Boldizs\u00e1r Nagy v rozhovore pre QYS. Chceme, aby n\u00e1s spolo\u010dnos\u0165 bez probl\u00e9mov akceptovala, no v komunite sa nevieme akceptova\u0165 navz\u00e1jom. Mo\u017eno pozn\u00e1te geja alebo lesbu, \u010do ned\u00f4veruje bisexu\u00e1lnym osob\u00e1m. Mo\u017eno ste u\u017e stretli pr\u00e1ve bisexu\u00e1lnu osobu, ktor\u00e1 m\u00e1 predsudky vo\u010di transrodov\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom. Alebo ste nadobudli pocit, \u017ee gejovia a lesby sn\u00edvaj\u00fa o rovnak\u00fdch pr\u00e1vach, no navz\u00e1jom s\u00fa si tieto skupiny \u013eahostajn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pr\u00e1ve \u013eahostajnos\u0165 a neporozumenie LGBTI+ skupinu zvn\u00fatra rozdrobuj\u00fa a sp\u00f4sobuj\u00fa, \u017ee niektor\u00ed \u013eudia sa k svojej \u201epr\u00edslu\u0161nosti\u201c rad\u0161ej ani nepriznaj\u00fa. Slovensk\u00e1 komunita z\u00e1rove\u0148 nepatr\u00ed medzi najakt\u00edvnej\u0161ie v boji za to, \u010do chce dosiahnu\u0165. Ch\u00fdba n\u00e1m odvaha, alebo \u201elen\u201c spolupatri\u010dnos\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1no, ch\u00fdba n\u00e1m aj to, \u017ee n\u00e1s heterosexu\u00e1lna cisrodov\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina \u010dasto nechce po\u010d\u00fava\u0165. No to je druh\u00fd krok, ku ktor\u00e9mu m\u00f4\u017eeme op\u00e4\u0165 prist\u00fapi\u0165, ke\u010f n\u00e1m prestan\u00fa kolabova\u0165 nemocnice. Slovensk\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 zatia\u013e toti\u017e neuk\u00e1zala, \u017ee by zvl\u00e1dala multitasking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stretneme sa pri maj\u00e1ku<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pred pand\u00e9miou sme prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eali nad predsavzatiami do \u010fal\u0161ieho nepredv\u00eddate\u013en\u00e9ho roka. Teraz je u\u017e viac-menej jasn\u00e9, \u017ee pokia\u013e sa koronav\u00edrusov\u00e9 tr\u00e1penie z\u00e1zra\u010dne neskon\u010d\u00ed, rok 2022 bude podobn\u00fd ako uplynul\u00e9 mesiace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenechajme sa t\u00fdm v\u0161ak odradi\u0165 a pracujme na sebe \u2013 komunitne aj jednotlivo. Nemus\u00edme hne\u010f dosiahnu\u0165 na\u0161e najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie sny a \u00faspechy, s\u00fastre\u010fme sa na mali\u010dkosti. Zbavme sa kone\u010dne v\u0161etk\u00fdch \u0161\u00e1lok a ko\u0161ie\u013e, \u010do n\u00e1m po niekom zostali, a zoberme na v\u00fdlet (\u010di prech\u00e1dzku v r\u00e1mci okresu) osobu, na ktorej n\u00e1m teraz najviac z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ke\u010f sa lockdown \u010d\u00edslo X alebo rovno cel\u00e9 tr\u00e1penie napokon skon\u010d\u00ed, m\u00f4\u017eeme \u00eds\u0165 napr\u00edklad do pekn\u00e9ho meste\u010dka k\u00fasok za hranicami \u2013 Podersdorf am See, sadn\u00fa\u0165 si k tamoj\u0161iemu maj\u00e1ku a pogratulova\u0165 si, ako sme toto obdobie predsa len zvl\u00e1dli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Autorka: Dominika Chrastov\u00e1 \/ Ilustr\u00e1cia: Vikt\u00f3ria Szab\u00f3ov\u00e1 Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2021 Od vypuknutia pand\u00e9mie vy\u0161lo u\u017e osem \u010d\u00edsel magaz\u00ednu QYS vr\u00e1tane toho, ktor\u00e9 pr\u00e1ve dr\u017e\u00edte v ruk\u00e1ch. V ka\u017edom sme v\u00e1m okrem aktu\u00e1lnych t\u00e9m pon\u00fakali aj povzbudenie a mo\u017enosti, ako opatrenia trpezlivo pre\u010dka\u0165. Nikto by v\u00e1m v\u0161ak nevy\u010d\u00edtal, ak by ste na optimizmus nena\u0161li energiu, …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":3238,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[261,6,12],"tags":[266,93,154],"class_list":["post-3231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-komentare-a-analyzy","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-tipy","tag-from-qys","tag-komentar","tag-queer-komentar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3231"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3231\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3301,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3231\/revisions\/3301"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3238"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}