{"id":3200,"date":"2021-12-14T06:08:56","date_gmt":"2021-12-14T05:08:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/?p=3200"},"modified":"2022-03-28T18:29:04","modified_gmt":"2022-03-28T16:29:04","slug":"boldizsar-nagy-knizka-mi-pomohla-celit-internalizovanej-homofobii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/boldizsar-nagy-knizka-mi-pomohla-celit-internalizovanej-homofobii\/","title":{"rendered":"Boldizs\u00e1r Nagy: Kni\u017eka mi pomohla \u010deli\u0165 internalizovanej homof\u00f3bii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"block-0bae83f6-29db-4573-a068-6faf40a0e5e6\"><strong>Autorka textu:<strong>  Dominika Chrastov\u00e1 \/ <\/strong>Fotografie: Arch\u00edv Boldizs\u00e1ra Nagya, Drama Queer<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2021<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00e1 krajina pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch<\/em><\/strong><strong> alebo po ma\u010farsky <em>Meseorsz\u00e1g mindenki\u00e9<\/em>. Tak sa vol\u00e1 kniha, ktor\u00fa p\u00f4vodne vyda<\/strong><strong>lo zdru\u017eenie Labrisz a ktorej v\u00fdtla\u010dok ma\u010farsk\u00e1 poslanky\u0148a v&nbsp;septembri 2020 verejne skartovala, preto\u017ee pod\u013ea nej i\u0161lo o \u201ehomosexu\u00e1lnu propagandu\u201c. V&nbsp;skuto\u010dnosti ide o&nbsp;s\u00fabor sedemn\u00e1stich rozpr\u00e1vok, v&nbsp;ktor\u00fdch vystupuj\u00fa okrem LGBTQ post\u00e1v napr\u00edklad aj r\u00f3mske \u010di zdravotne znev\u00fdhodnen\u00e9 postavy. Kni\u017eka vych\u00e1dza na Slovensku u\u017e v&nbsp;decembri, preto sme sa nielen o&nbsp;nej porozpr\u00e1vali priamo s jej&nbsp;editorom Boldizs\u00e1rom Nagyom.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Knihu <em>Rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00e1 krajina pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch<\/em> tvor\u00ed sedemn\u00e1s\u0165 pr\u00edbehov od r\u00f4znych autoriek a autorov. Ako ste ich vyberali?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oslovili sme dev\u00e4\u0165 zn\u00e1mych mien a&nbsp;okrem toho sme vyhl\u00e1sili s\u00fa\u0165a\u017e, v&nbsp;ktorej sme&nbsp;h\u013eadali nov\u00e9 talenty&nbsp;najm\u00e4 z men\u0161inov\u00fdch skup\u00edn. Nakoniec sme zozbierali vy\u0161e osemdesiat textov a&nbsp;z&nbsp;nich vybrali osem.&nbsp;Z&nbsp;minor\u00edt sa v\u0161ak ve\u013emi nehl\u00e1sili, v&nbsp;knihe m\u00e1me len dva texty od lesbick\u00fdch autoriek, jeden od nebin\u00e1rnej osoby a&nbsp;jeden od matky transrodov\u00e9ho die\u0165a\u0165a. Ja som ich pr\u00edspevky redak\u010dne spracoval, \u010di\u017ee sme piati z&nbsp;osemn\u00e1stich \u013eud\u00ed. Nie je to ve\u013ea, bolo by lep\u0161ie, keby sme dali hlas viacer\u00fdm z men\u0161\u00edn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Autorky a autori pri\u0161li s pr\u00edbehmi sami, alebo dostali zadanie?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iba sme im povedali, \u017ee by bolo skvel\u00e9, keby pou\u017eili klasick\u00e9 rozpr\u00e1vky alebo in\u00e9 druhy zn\u00e1mych detsk\u00fdch pr\u00edbehov, ktor\u00e9 by prerozpr\u00e1vali s postavami z men\u0161\u00edn. Chceli sme, aby sa texty \u013eahko \u010d\u00edtali a&nbsp;nep\u00f4sobili prvopl\u00e1novo eduka\u010dne alebo moralisticky. Inak i\u0161lo o&nbsp;ich n\u00e1pady. Viac ako polovica pr\u00edbehov v&nbsp;s\u00fa\u0165a\u017ei bola nakoniec o lesbickej Popolu\u0161ke. Stala sa najpopul\u00e1rnej\u0161ou t\u00e9mou, neviem pre\u010do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vznik knihy inicioval<\/strong><strong>o lesbick\u00e9 zdru\u017eenie Labrisz. \u010co ho k&nbsp;tomu viedlo?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pred pand\u00e9miou zastre\u0161ovalo najm\u00e4 na stredn\u00fdch \u0161kol\u00e1ch vzdel\u00e1vac\u00ed program o sexu\u00e1lnych men\u0161in\u00e1ch. \u013dudia zo zdru\u017eenia vysvet\u013eovali, \u010do znamen\u00e1 patri\u0165 do LGBTQ skupiny, a&nbsp;\u017eia\u010dky a \u017eiaci im opisovali svoje stereotypn\u00e9 predstavy, o&nbsp;ktor\u00fdch sa potom mohli porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 priamo s osobami z&nbsp;komunity. Bol to ve\u013emi popul\u00e1rny projekt, no pre nov\u00fd ma\u010farsk\u00fd z\u00e1kon by sa u\u017e nie\u010do tak\u00e9 nedalo zorganizova\u0165. Podobn\u00e9 vzdel\u00e1vanie m\u00f4\u017eu teraz vies\u0165 len vl\u00e1dne in\u0161tit\u00facie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f pri\u0161iel COVID-19, v zdru\u017een\u00ed Labrisz chceli nadviaza\u0165 na tento projekt a dostali n\u00e1pad zostavi\u0165 knihu. Vedeli, \u017ee som editor a umeleck\u00fd kritik, ktor\u00fd p\u00ed\u0161e o detsk\u00fdch knih\u00e1ch. Venoval som sa tie\u017e queer t\u00e9mam, tak\u017ee poznali moje meno a&nbsp;oslovili ma. Prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eali sme, \u017ee by bolo e\u0161te lep\u0161ie, keby pr\u00edbehy neboli iba o LGBTQ \u013eu\u010foch, ale aj o mnoh\u00fdch \u010fal\u0161\u00edch men\u0161in\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ktor\u00e9 \u010fal\u0161ie sa teda objavuj\u00fa v&nbsp;rozpr\u00e1vkach?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e1jdete tam postavy r\u00f3mske a inej farby pleti, zdravotne znev\u00fdhodnen\u00e9, chudobn\u00e9 \u010di postavy det\u00ed \u017eij\u00facich v n\u00e1siln\u00fdch dom\u00e1cnostiach, a \u010fal\u0161ie. V&nbsp;strednej a&nbsp;v\u00fdchodnej Eur\u00f3pe neexistuje trad\u00edcia, \u017ee by sa rodi\u010dia alebo u\u010dite\u013eky a u\u010ditelia rozpr\u00e1vali s&nbsp;de\u0165mi o&nbsp;\u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch t\u00e9mach. Takou je napr\u00edklad aj smr\u0165, preto v&nbsp;knihe vystupuje tie\u017e sm\u00fatiaca \u0160\u00edpkov\u00e1 Ru\u017eenka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u010co sa e\u0161te t\u00fdka LGBTQ komunity, som naozaj r\u00e1d, \u017ee okrem lesbick\u00fdch a gejsk\u00fdch rozpr\u00e1vok m\u00e1me aj dve transrodov\u00e9, preto\u017ee ide z\u00e1rove\u0148 o prv\u00e9 transrodov\u00e9 pr\u00edbehy pre deti v ma\u010farskom jazyku.&nbsp;Doteraz sme tak\u00e9 nemali ani len v&nbsp;preklade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do fin\u00e1lneho v\u00fdberu sme zahrnuli i texty s&nbsp;nebin\u00e1rnou a&nbsp;asexu\u00e1lnou postavou. Je to teda ve\u013emi r\u00f4znorod\u00e9 a ve\u013emi nov\u00e9 \u2013 nielen v&nbsp;Ma\u010farsku, ale, ako sa uk\u00e1zalo, aj v in\u00fdch krajin\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"728\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Princ-sa-zeni_SRGB-728x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3207\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Princ-sa-zeni_SRGB-728x1024.jpg 728w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Princ-sa-zeni_SRGB-497x700.jpg 497w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Princ-sa-zeni_SRGB-1092x1536.jpg 1092w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Princ-sa-zeni_SRGB.jpg 1137w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 728px) 100vw, 728px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S&nbsp;ak\u00fdmi o\u010dak\u00e1vaniami ste vyd\u00e1vali knihu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mysleli sme si, \u017ee to bude kni\u017eka iba pre nieko\u013eko ma\u010farsk\u00fdch rod\u00edn. Ne\u010dakali sme, \u017ee z&nbsp;toho vznikne hit. Vytla\u010dili sme len 1 500 kusov, ktor\u00e9 sa mali preda\u0165 za dva alebo tri roky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Napokon vy\u0161la v \u0161tyroch vydaniach a predali sme vy\u0161e 30-tis\u00edc kusov.&nbsp;Kniha bude navy\u0161e publikovan\u00e1 v \u010fal\u0161\u00edch deviatich jazykoch. St\u00e1le tomu nem\u00f4\u017eeme uveri\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Na Slovensku n\u00e1jdeme <em>Rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00fa krajinu pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch<\/em> od 17. decembra. V ktor\u00fdch \u010fal\u0161\u00edch krajin\u00e1ch sa pripravuje?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V Po\u013esku vych\u00e1dza takisto v decembri, z toho sa ve\u013emi te\u0161\u00edm. Bud\u00faci rok v&nbsp;m\u00e1ji pribudne \u0161v\u00e9dske vydanie a&nbsp;v&nbsp;septembri anglick\u00e9. T\u00fato jese\u0148 vydali kni\u017eku v&nbsp;Holandsku. Z ostatn\u00fdch kraj\u00edn e\u0161te nem\u00e1me d\u00e1tumy, ale dostane sa na pulty aj v&nbsp;\u010cesku, F\u00ednsku, Nemecku a&nbsp;Est\u00f3nsku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prejdime k&nbsp;tomu, \u010do sa dialo v&nbsp;Ma\u010farsku po vydan\u00ed knihy. Ako sa o&nbsp;nej v\u00f4bec dozvedela poslanky\u0148a D\u00f3ra D\u00far\u00f3, ktor\u00e1 ju skartovala?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V Ma\u010farsku existuje ultrapravicov\u00e1 strana Hnutie Na\u0161a vlas\u0165. Jej \u010dlenky a&nbsp;\u010dlenovia s\u00fa ve\u013emi anti-LGBTQ, tak\u017ee st\u00e1le si pozeraj\u00fa, \u010do sa deje v&nbsp;komunitn\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch. Hne\u010f de\u0148 alebo dva po tom, ako sme zverejnili pr\u00edspevok o&nbsp;knihe, za\u010dala strana poz\u00fdva\u0165 m\u00e9di\u00e1 na online tla\u010dov\u00fa konferenciu. Jeden z novin\u00e1rov n\u00e1m povedal, \u017ee pod\u013ea pozv\u00e1nky knihu nejak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom na tla\u010dovke zni\u010dia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O\u010dak\u00e1vali sme, \u017ee ju sp\u00e1lia alebo nie\u010do podobn\u00e9. S Labrisz sme si aj volali cez Zoom a&nbsp;sna\u017eili sa pr\u00eds\u0165 na to, ako a kedy by bolo najlep\u0161ie reagova\u0165. Nakoniec sme sa rozhodli, \u017ee po\u010dk\u00e1me, uvid\u00edme, \u010do sa bude dia\u0165, a potom povieme komunite, \u017ee sa t\u00fdchto homof\u00f3bnych a transf\u00f3bnych \u013eud\u00ed neboj\u00edme a budeme knihu \u010falej pred\u00e1va\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Len\u017ee po tla\u010dovej konferencii sa z&nbsp;toho stal vir\u00e1lny pr\u00edbeh. Nakoniec sme neboli prv\u00ed, kto sa ozval, v\u0161etci o&nbsp;tom p\u00edsali. A&nbsp;to aj pohor\u0161ene, preto\u017ee ni\u010denie kn\u00edh prin\u00e1\u0161a spomienky na najhor\u0161ie \u010dasy, napr\u00edklad nacistick\u00fa \u00e9ru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00edtili sme sa teda hrozne, ale potom v priebehu jedin\u00e9ho t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a \u013eudia vyk\u00fapili v\u0161etky kni\u017eky. Zdru\u017eenie Labrisz nemalo peniaze na posielanie v\u00fdtla\u010dkov do ve\u013ek\u00fdch kn\u00edhkupectiev, tak\u017ee z\u00e1ujemkyne a z\u00e1ujemcovia si ich sami na\u0161li v nieko\u013ek\u00fdch men\u0161\u00edch predajniach. Bolo to skvel\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kupovali si knihu aj <\/strong><strong>heterosexu\u00e1lni spojenci a spojenkyne LGBTQ \u013eud\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V&nbsp;prvom rade si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee mnoh\u00e9 a mnoh\u00ed sa dovtedy za na\u0161e spojenkyne a na\u0161ich spojencov ani nepova\u017eovali. Predt\u00fdm na tom ani ve\u013emi nez\u00e1le\u017ealo, s&nbsp;v\u00fdnimkou p\u00e1r z\u00e1konov sa ni\u010d tak\u00e9 ma\u010farskej&nbsp;LGBTQ komunite nestalo. Ale po skartovan\u00ed knihy sa otvorene prihl\u00e1sili k spojenectvu, preto\u017ee sa hnevali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bolo skvel\u00e9 to pozorova\u0165. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee v&nbsp;Ma\u010farsku sa prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t za\u010dalo mainstreamovo rie\u0161i\u0165, \u010do by sme mali \u010d\u00edta\u0165 de\u0165om a&nbsp;spom\u00ednalo sa aj transrodov\u00e9 vzdel\u00e1vanie. Bez tej tla\u010dovky by n\u00e1m otvori\u0165 podobn\u00fa debatu trvalo roky. Len\u017ee n\u00e1sledne premi\u00e9r Viktor Orb\u00e1n&nbsp;povedal, nech LGBTQ \u013eudia nechaj\u00fa deti na pokoji a nerobia z&nbsp;nich homosexu\u00e1lov a&nbsp;transsexu\u00e1lov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f sa vl\u00e1da postavila proti knihe, ovplyvnilo to mnoh\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. Ma\u010farsk\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 je sama osebe ve\u013emi homof\u00f3bna a&nbsp;n\u00e1\u0161 syst\u00e9m je transf\u00f3bny. Komunik\u00e1cia vl\u00e1dy sp\u00f4sobila, \u017ee ma\u0165 tak\u00e9to n\u00e1zory sa javilo e\u0161te viac opr\u00e1vnen\u00e9. Dokonca do\u0161lo k&nbsp;nieko\u013ek\u00fdm \u00fatokom. Mo\u017eno ste o nich \u010d\u00edtali. \u013dudia op\u013euli lesbick\u00e9 diev\u010da na koncerte alebo napadli lek\u00e1ra, ktor\u00fd je gej. Predt\u00fdm to nebolo be\u017en\u00e9. Teraz na to nabrali odvahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u00favis\u00ed s knihou aj \u00fastavn\u00fd dodatok, pre ktor\u00fd si u\u017e rovnakopohlavn\u00e9 p\u00e1ry nem\u00f4\u017eu adoptova\u0165 deti?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mnoh\u00ed hovoria, \u017ee \u00e1no, ale pod\u013ea m\u0148a nejde o priamu s\u00favislos\u0165, preto\u017ee anti-LGBTQ z\u00e1kony sa schva\u013eovali u\u017e predt\u00fdm. Sk\u00f4r je to s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 agendy. Ma\u010farsk\u00e1 vl\u00e1da si zvykne vybera\u0165 kolekt\u00edvneho nepriate\u013ea, napr\u00edklad migruj\u00facich \u013eud\u00ed, R\u00f3mov a R\u00f3mky alebo pr\u00e1ve LGBTQ komunitu. Kniha bola pre \u0148u dobrou pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165ou na zvidite\u013enenie svojej kampane. Tak\u017ee ju pou\u017eila ako komunika\u010dn\u00fd n\u00e1stroj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"530\" height=\"777\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Rozpravkova-krajina-pre-vsetkych-2.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Rozpravkova-krajina-pre-vsetkych-2.png 530w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/12\/Rozpravkova-krajina-pre-vsetkych-2-477x700.png 477w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 530px) 100vw, 530px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ako ovplyvnili reakcie na <em>Rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00fa krajinu pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch<\/em> tvoj \u017eivot?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zmenili ho v&nbsp;mnoh\u00fdch oh\u013eadoch. \u013dudia v&nbsp;mojom okol\u00ed za\u010dali vyjadrova\u0165 svoju podporu, \u010do bolo pre m\u0148a celkom nov\u00e9. Mo\u017eno to bolo nov\u00e9 aj pre nich. Dovtedy si mysleli, \u017ee sta\u010d\u00ed, ke\u010f nie s\u00fa homof\u00f3bni, transf\u00f3bni alebo rasisti a podobne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie\u010do sa zmenilo aj v&nbsp;mojej konzervat\u00edvnej rodine. Postupne ma prij\u00edmali, ale nikdy som nemal pocit, \u017ee by na m\u0148a boli hrd\u00ed. Po vydan\u00ed knihy mi v\u0161ak otec povedal, \u017ee som odviedol skvel\u00fa pr\u00e1cu. Ve\u013ea to pre m\u0148a znamenalo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dokonca si vraj uvedomil, ak\u00e9 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 by bolo, keby sa so mnou o t\u00fdchto veciach v detstve rozpr\u00e1val. Ak dok\u00e1\u017ee on ako ve\u013emi konzervat\u00edvny a&nbsp;n\u00e1bo\u017en\u00fd mu\u017e takto zmeni\u0165 n\u00e1zor, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00f4\u017eu aj \u010fal\u0161\u00ed. Preto je t\u00e1to kniha ur\u010den\u00e1 pre ka\u017ed\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f sme na nej za\u010dali pracova\u0165, v\u017edy som myslel na mal\u00e9 deti, ktor\u00e9 maj\u00fa probl\u00e9m so svojou sexualitou alebo rodovou identitou. Ale bolo by skvel\u00e9, keby aj \u010fal\u0161ie deti spoznali tieto rozpr\u00e1vky. Preto\u017ee zmena nastane, iba ak v\u0161etci uvid\u00edme rovnak\u00fa reprezent\u00e1ciu men\u0161\u00edn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No a&nbsp;mne osobne kni\u017eka pomohla \u010deli\u0165 internalizovanej homof\u00f3bii a&nbsp;internalizovan\u00e9mu rasizmu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ako konkr\u00e9tne?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nemal som sa ve\u013emi r\u00e1d, nebol som na seba hrd\u00fd. V\u017edy som mal pocit, \u017ee som menej ako in\u00ed \u013eudia, preto\u017ee som n\u00edzky gej s&nbsp;r\u00f3mskymi kore\u0148mi. Tieto my\u0161lienky mi s\u0165a\u017eovali \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale pri redigovan\u00ed textov do knihy a rozhovoroch s&nbsp;podobn\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi som si uvedomil, \u017ee som bol ve\u013emi hl\u00fapy, ke\u010f som sa za seba hanbil. Ak by som bol menej ja, znamenalo by to, \u017ee aj ostatn\u00ed z&nbsp;t\u00fdchto men\u0161\u00edn s\u00fa menej. No pre m\u0148a s\u00fa \u00fa\u017easn\u00ed,&nbsp;poklad\u00e1m ich za svojich hrdinov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nikdy som nechcel by\u0165 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou akejko\u013evek komunity, preto\u017ee som mal so sebou probl\u00e9my. Ke\u010f som sa napokon za\u010dlenil, dalo mi to ve\u013emi ve\u013ea. Teraz c\u00edtim ist\u00fd tlak, preto\u017ee m\u00e1m \u0161ancu poskytn\u00fa\u0165 men\u0161in\u00e1m hlas a&nbsp;\u013eudia ma po\u010d\u00favaj\u00fa. Sna\u017e\u00edm sa teda \u010dastej\u0161ie hovori\u0165 o&nbsp;transrodov\u00fdch ot\u00e1zkach a o&nbsp;probl\u00e9moch R\u00f3mov, ke\u010f\u017ee im spolo\u010dnos\u0165 neposkytuje dostato\u010dn\u00fd priestor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ani LGBTQ skupina nie je sama osebe ve\u013emi inkluz\u00edvna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>Potrebujeme by\u0165 navz\u00e1jom solid\u00e1rni, aj ke\u010f nevid\u00edme ve\u013ea podobnost\u00ed medzi L a G a B a T a \u010fal\u0161\u00edmi. Mus\u00edme o&nbsp;sebe prem\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 ako o&nbsp;komunite, preto\u017ee v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina chce, aby sme sa ako celok c\u00edtili menejcenne. Spolo\u010dne mus\u00edme hovori\u0165, \u017ee nie sme menej a&nbsp;mali by sme si to pripom\u00edna\u0165 aj medzi sebou.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fadr\u017ene zvl\u00e1dneme \u010doko\u013evek, no pre tie internalizovan\u00e9 veci je to \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie. Aj homosexu\u00e1li m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 homof\u00f3bni a transf\u00f3bni a rasisti.&nbsp;Navy\u0161e, ke\u010f sa hovor\u00ed o LGBTQ \u013eu\u010foch, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina si zvykne predstavi\u0165 bieleho cis mu\u017ea, a som z toho ve\u013emi unaven\u00fd. Chcel by som vidie\u0165 reprezent\u00e1ciu v\u0161etk\u00fdch p\u00edsmen. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to bude moja \u010fal\u0161ia pr\u00e1ca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bude\u0161 na tom pracova\u0165 z&nbsp;Ma\u010farska, alebo z&nbsp;inej krajiny? \u010c\u00edtala som, \u017ee sa pl\u00e1nuje\u0161 pres\u0165ahova\u0165.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S&nbsp;partnerom sme prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eali nad s\u0165ahovan\u00edm u\u017e \u0161tyri alebo p\u00e4\u0165 rokov. Akur\u00e1t po vydan\u00ed knihy sa n\u00e1m podarilo n\u00e1js\u0165 vhodn\u00fd dom, no nechceme zverej\u0148ova\u0165, kde sa nach\u00e1dza. Niektor\u00e9 m\u00e9di\u00e1 p\u00edsali, \u017ee na\u0161e rozhodnutie s\u00favis\u00ed pr\u00e1ve so skartovan\u00edm a n\u00e1sledn\u00fdmi&nbsp;anti-LGBTQ z\u00e1konmi, no nie je to pravda. S\u0165ahujem sa, lebo sa v&nbsp;Ma\u010farsku nec\u00edtim dobre u\u017e roky. A mysl\u00edm, \u017ee nie som s\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>St\u00e1le v\u0161ak m\u00e1te v \u0161t\u00e1te aspo\u0148 registrovan\u00e9 partnerstv\u00e1, ku ktor\u00fdm sme sa na Slovensku e\u0161te ani z\u010faleka nedopracovali.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c1no, minul\u00fd rok sme si s&nbsp;partnerom na\u0161e partnerstvo dali zaregistrova\u0165, ale pr\u00e1ve kv\u00f4li obav\u00e1m, \u017ee o&nbsp;t\u00fato mo\u017enos\u0165 pr\u00eddeme. \u010cakali sme, \u017ee p\u00f4jde len o&nbsp;podp\u00edsanie papierov, no nakoniec sme za\u017eili aj men\u0161iu cerem\u00f3niu. Bolo to vlastne romantick\u00e9, ako ozajstn\u00fd sob\u00e1\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Smutn\u00e9 na tom je, \u017ee u\u017e si tu teda nem\u00f4\u017eeme adoptova\u0165 die\u0165a. A&nbsp;to sme boli na zozname tri roky. Miestnos\u0165, v ktorej teraz sed\u00edm, mala by\u0165 detsk\u00e1 izba.&nbsp;Nov\u00fd z\u00e1kon pri\u0161iel akur\u00e1t p\u00e1r dn\u00ed pred Vianocami, tak\u017ee to bol pre n\u00e1s viano\u010dn\u00fd dar\u010dek od vl\u00e1dy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sn\u00e1\u010f to bude v \u010fal\u0161ej krajine lep\u0161ie.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fafam.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autorka textu: Dominika Chrastov\u00e1 \/ Fotografie: Arch\u00edv Boldizs\u00e1ra Nagya, Drama Queer Text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2021 Rozpr\u00e1vkov\u00e1 krajina pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch alebo po ma\u010farsky Meseorsz\u00e1g mindenki\u00e9. Tak sa vol\u00e1 kniha, ktor\u00fa p\u00f4vodne vydalo zdru\u017eenie Labrisz a ktorej v\u00fdtla\u010dok ma\u010farsk\u00e1 poslanky\u0148a v&nbsp;septembri 2020 verejne skartovala, preto\u017ee pod\u013ea nej i\u0161lo o \u201ehomosexu\u00e1lnu propagandu\u201c. 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