{"id":27,"date":"2017-11-08T10:59:19","date_gmt":"2017-11-08T09:59:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=27"},"modified":"2017-11-08T10:59:19","modified_gmt":"2017-11-08T09:59:19","slug":"10-veci-ktore-mozete-urobit-ked-vam-kamarat-alebo-kamaratka-oznamia-som-gej-lesba-bi-ci-trans-clovek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/10-veci-ktore-mozete-urobit-ked-vam-kamarat-alebo-kamaratka-oznamia-som-gej-lesba-bi-ci-trans-clovek\/","title":{"rendered":"10 vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eete urobi\u0165, ke\u010f v\u00e1m kamar\u00e1t, alebo kamar\u00e1tka ozn\u00e1mia \u201eSom gej, lesba, bi, \u010di trans \u010dlovek..“"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Vy\u017eaduje to ve\u013ea odvahy, ke\u010f v\u00e1m niekto povie, \u017ee je gej, lesba, bi, alebo transrodov\u00fd \u010dlovek \u2013 po\u010d\u00favajte v\u0161etko, \u010do v\u00e1m hovoria bez preru\u0161ovania, bez odsudzovania, neot\u00e1\u010dajte sa im chrbtom, alebo nehovorte stereotypy a ur\u00e1\u017eky o LGBT \u013eu\u010foch.<\/p>\n

2. Povedzte im, ako v\u00e1s pote\u0161ilo, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00f4veruj\u00fa tak ve\u013emi, \u017ee sa s vami podelili s touto osobnou inform\u00e1ciou a zablaho\u017eelajte im k odvahe by\u0165 otvoren\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n

3. Povedzte im, \u017ee o nich zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eate rovnak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, ako predt\u00fdm a \u017ee sa ni\u010d nezmenilo (okrem toho, \u017ee si teraz m\u00f4\u017eete by\u0165 bli\u017e\u0161\u00ed).<\/p>\n

4. P\u00fdtajte sa ot\u00e1zky a uk\u00e1\u017ete im, \u017ee sa zauj\u00edmate o ich pocity a sk\u00fasenosti, ale re\u0161pektujte ak nechc\u00fa odpoveda\u0165 a nep\u00fdtajte sa na osobn\u00e9 veci (ako sex, HIV at\u010f.), a\u017e k\u00fdm v\u00e1m nepovedia, \u017ee je v poriadku sa ich to p\u00fdta\u0165.<\/p>\n

5. Ke\u010f sa c\u00edtite nepr\u00edjemne, alebo sklamane, bu\u010fte \u00faprimn\u00fd, alebo \u00faprimn\u00e1. Povedzte im, \u017ee potrebujete ur\u010dit\u00fd \u010das na spracovanie v\u0161etk\u00e9ho, ale priznajte, \u017ee je to v\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m, vy potrebujete \u010das a oni nie s\u00fa za to zodpovedn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

6. Pam\u00e4tajte, \u017ee ich nem\u00f4\u017eete zmeni\u0165 a ani sa o to nepok\u00fa\u0161ajte \u2013 m\u00e1te pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 podpori\u0165 ich a nie \u201evylie\u010di\u0165\u201c ich.<\/p>\n

7. Op\u00fdtajte sa, \u010do m\u00f4\u017eete pre nich spravi\u0165, \u010do teraz potrebuj\u00fa.<\/p>\n

8. Rozpr\u00e1vajte sa s nimi aj nesk\u00f4r o ich pocitoch, l\u00e1skach. Coming out rozhovor je prv\u00fdm z mnoh\u00fdch. Aj nesk\u00f4r pokra\u010dujte v overovan\u00ed si
\ninform\u00e1ci\u00ed a p\u00fdtan\u00ed sa ot\u00e1zok.<\/p>\n

9. Bu\u010fte otvoren\u00e1, alebo otvoren\u00fd pri spozn\u00e1van\u00ed ich nov\u00fdchpriate\u013eov a priateliek, a to v r\u00f4znych prostrediach, aj v LGBT aj v hetero.
\nDajte im vedie\u0165, \u017ee nemusia deli\u0165 svoj \u017eivot na dve \u010dasti.<\/p>\n

10. Bu\u010fte ich obhajcom, alebo obhajky\u0148ou. \u010c\u00edtajte \u010dl\u00e1nky o LGBT \u013eu\u010foch, noste d\u00fahov\u00fd odznak, alebo z\u00e1lo\u017eku, pr\u00edpadne sa pridajte k spojeneck\u00fdm skupin\u00e1m a konfrontujte homof\u00f3biu a transf\u00f3biu v\u0161ade, kde m\u00f4\u017eete.<\/p>\n

Autorkou ilustr\u00e1cie je Vikt\u00f3ria Szabov\u00e1 (23).
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

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Op\u00fdtajte sa, \u010do m\u00f4\u017eete pre nich spravi\u0165, \u010do teraz potrebuj\u00fa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-comingout","category-tipy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}