{"id":2276,"date":"2017-07-12T10:47:36","date_gmt":"2017-07-12T08:47:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=2276"},"modified":"2021-03-18T09:25:25","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T08:25:25","slug":"teple-historicke-okienko-predstavte-si-ze-by-ste-sa-narodili-niekde-v-strednej-europe-ako-gej-ci-lesba-v-roku-1896","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/teple-historicke-okienko-predstavte-si-ze-by-ste-sa-narodili-niekde-v-strednej-europe-ako-gej-ci-lesba-v-roku-1896\/","title":{"rendered":"Tepl\u00e9 historick\u00e9 okienko: Predstavte si, \u017ee by ste sa narodili niekde v Strednej Eur\u00f3pe ako gej \u010di lesba v roku 1896"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autorka textu: Jana Jablonick\u00e1 Zezulov\u00e1 \/ Foto: Siegfried a Wilfred Zdroj: theatrecloud.com<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arch\u00edvny text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Leto 2017.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Predstavte si, \u017ee by ste sa narodili niekde v strednej Eur\u00f3pe ako gej \u010di lesba v roku 1896. Slovo \u201egej\u201c by ste v\u00f4bec nepoznali. Pravdepodobne by ste nepoznali ani slovo \u201ehomosexu\u00e1l\u201c, v tom \u010dase toti\u017e bolo ve\u013emi mlad\u00e9. Sk\u00f4r by ste na seba po\u010duli ozna\u010denie \u201esodomita\u201c \u010di \u201epervert\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mali by ste v\u00f4bec \u0161ancu \u017ei\u0165 tak, ako v\u00e1s pr\u00edroda stvorila? Zrealizovali by ste svoje t\u00fa\u017eby, \u017eili s l\u00e1skou svojho \u017eivota? Nebudem v\u00e1s dlho na\u0165ahova\u0165, odpove\u010f toti\u017e nie je jednozna\u010dn\u00e9 \u00e1no, ani nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pokra\u010dujme v na\u0161ej fikcii. Ako v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina va\u0161ich rovesn\u00edkov v strednej Eur\u00f3pe, je pravdepodobn\u00e9, \u017ee ako \u201egej\u201c str\u00e1vite za\u010diatok svojej dospelosti na frontoch prvej svetovej vojny. Ako lesba na prahu dospelosti (a zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a aj sk\u00f4r) sa pravdepodobne vyd\u00e1te za mu\u017ea, lebo tak\u00e9 s\u00fa n\u00e1roky na mlad\u00e9 diev\u010dat\u00e1, tak\u00e1 je doba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pokia\u013e sa teda nerozhodnete pre \u017eivot v kl\u00e1\u0161tore \u010di pre povolanie u\u010dite\u013eky alebo \u00faradn\u00ed\u010dky, aj to len do\u010dasne, k\u00fdm sa nevyd\u00e1te. Ak sa toti\u017e vyd\u00e1te, u\u017e sa o v\u00e1s postar\u00e1 man\u017eel a ako vydat\u00e1 budete musie\u0165 uvo\u013eni\u0165 miesto. Ak sa predsa len rozhodnete pre \u017eivot \u201ev samote\u201c, pravdepodobne sa z v\u00e1s stane \u201estar\u00e1 dievka\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako mlad\u00fd \u201egej\u201c na v\u00fdchodnom, talianskom \u010di inom fronte mo\u017eno spozn\u00e1te prv\u00e9 l\u00e1sky svojho \u017eivota, spriaznen\u00fa du\u0161u, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1m zachr\u00e1ni \u017eivot alebo niekoho, komu budete p\u00edsa\u0165 b\u00e1sne a \u013e\u00fabostn\u00e9 listy, ako posielal britsk\u00fd vojak a poet Wilfred Owen vojakovi Siegfriedovi Sassonovi a ten mu l\u00e1sku op\u00e4toval. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sk\u00f4r je v\u0161ak pravdepodobnej\u0161ie, \u017ee za\u017eijete len nejak\u00fd \u00falet, \u017ee svoju identitu budete skr\u00fdva\u0165 a m\u00e1rne budete poh\u013eadom vyh\u013ead\u00e1va\u0165 niekoho, kto v\u00e1m porozumie. Ak budete ma\u0165 \u0161\u0165astie, vr\u00e1tite sa z frontu \u017eiv\u00fd a sk\u00f4r \u010di nesk\u00f4r sa o\u017een\u00edte a zalo\u017e\u00edte si rodinu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ak t\u00fdmto tlakom nepod\u013eahnete, budete \u201estar\u00fdm ml\u00e1dencom\u201c a narozdiel od kamar\u00e1tok lesieb nebudete \u010deli\u0165 tak otrasn\u00fdm stereotypom o star\u00fdch dievkach. \u010ci u\u017e budete slobodn\u00ed, \u017eenat\u00ed \u010di vydat\u00e9, ak sa budete sna\u017ei\u0165 o bl\u00edzky vz\u0165ah \u010di efem\u00e9rny int\u00edmny kontakt s \u010dlovekom rovnak\u00e9ho pohlavia, bude v\u00e1m hrozi\u0165 v\u00e4zenie, verejn\u00e1 hanba, strata povolania, dobr\u00e9ho mena \u010di d\u00f4stojnosti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako \u017eenat\u00fd mu\u017e, ktor\u00fd v skuto\u010dnosti miluje niekoho in\u00e9ho a ob\u010das sa chce tak prejavi\u0165, \u010del\u00edte tomu, \u017ee v\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee niekto prezradi\u0165 a \u013eahko tak vydiera\u0165. A vy pod\u013eahnete, lebo necha\u0165 sa vydiera\u0165 a plati\u0165 peniaze bude pre v\u00e1s znesite\u013enej\u0161ie ako verejn\u00e1 potupa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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L\u00edda Merlinova s partnerkou Zdroj: University of
Southampton, LGBT Research Community<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Odpove\u010f na moju \u00favodn\u00fa ot\u00e1zku by preto zrejme mala by\u0165 \u201enie\u201c, \u017ei\u0165 \u017eivot homosexu\u00e1la \u010di lesby v novom \u010ceskoslovensku muselo by\u0165 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9. Mohli v\u00e1s z\u00e1konne st\u00edha\u0165 a preto ste nemohli svoj \u017eivot \u017ei\u0165 slobodne a v s\u00falade s t\u00fdm, k\u00fdm ste. Ak by v\u0161ak takto zm\u00fd\u0161\u013eali v\u0161etci \u201etepl\u00ed\u201c (toto slovo bolo dobre zn\u00e1me), asi by tak\u00e9 z\u00e1kony trvali podnes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nechajte sa fikciou vies\u0165 \u010falej a sk\u00faste si predstavi\u0165, \u017ee \u017eivot v n\u00fatenom man\u017eelstve nie je pre v\u00e1s, \u017ee ste mlad\u00fd a pln\u00fd s\u00edl, \u017ee m\u00e1te svoje t\u00fa\u017eby a sny, \u017ee chcete \u017ei\u0165 so svojou l\u00e1skou, \u017ee v\u00e1m u\u010daroval Oscar Wilde a \u0161tve v\u00e1s, ke\u010f sa do\u010d\u00edtate, ako ho s\u00fadili za sodomiu, potrestali \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdm \u017eal\u00e1rom a zni\u010dili mu \u017eivot tak, \u017ee po prepusten\u00ed si u\u017e dlho nepo\u017eil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hnev vo v\u00e1s rastie, lebo viete, \u017ee nie ste zl\u00ed, \u017ee sa nec\u00edtite by\u0165 chor\u00ed ani divn\u00ed, za ak\u00fdch v\u00e1s m\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina vtedaj\u0161\u00edch psychiatrov. Hnev nakoniec vrie, ke\u010f sa dozviete, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 kamar\u00e1t, \u201erovnak\u00fd\u201c ako vy, n\u00e1hle sp\u00e1chal samovra\u017edu, lebo u\u017e nestrpel \u017eivot v nepravde, neust\u00e1ly sm\u00fatok a depresie z toho, \u017ee sa mus\u00ed skr\u00fdva\u0165 a \u010deli\u0165 ohov\u00e1raniu a zl\u00fdm re\u010diam. A \u010d\u00edm viac nad t\u00fdm prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eate a \u010d\u00edm viac v\u00e1s to tr\u00e1pi, naraz\u00edte na \u013eud\u00ed ako ste vy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A ich to tr\u00e1pi rovnako, tak sa rozhodnete, \u017ee nebudete ml\u010da\u0165. Nie preto, \u017ee ste dokonal\u00ed alebo lep\u0161\u00ed, ale preto, \u017ee ste rovnak\u00fdmi \u013eudsk\u00fdmi bytos\u0165ami ako ktoko\u013evek in\u00fd, \u017ee je va\u0161\u00edm najvy\u0161\u0161\u00edm mor\u00e1lnym pr\u00e1vom sa zasta\u0165 nielen seba, ale \u010fal\u0161\u00edch kamar\u00e1tov a kamar\u00e1tok. Nakoniec, nie je n\u00e1hoda, \u017ee jeden z tak\u00fdch \u010dasopisov pomenujete \u201eKamar\u00e1d\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tak sa rozhodnete zalo\u017ei\u0165 spolok a pr\u00edde v\u00e1s na stretnutie nie 5 ani 20, ale rovno 150 \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed to c\u00edtite rovnako. P\u00ed\u0161ete ako zmyslov zbaven\u00ed, st\u00e1le m\u00e1te o \u010dom, doba je nov\u00e1, modern\u00e1, takpovediac revolu\u010dn\u00e1 a vy m\u00e1te kone\u010dne svoj \u201ehlas\u201c. Hlas sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed men\u0161iny. Tak sa v rokoch 1931 \u2013 1937 volal \u010dasopis na obhajobu pr\u00e1v \u013eud\u00ed, o ktor\u00fdch by ste p\u00edsali ako o \u201erovnopohlavne miluj\u00facich\u201c. A mali by ste vz\u0165ah? Ale \u00e1no! Rovno osudov\u00fa l\u00e1sku. Ako mala napr\u00edklad \u010desk\u00e1 spisovate\u013eka L\u00edda Siegfried a Wilfred Merlinov\u00e1, ktor\u00e1 so svojou partnerkou \u017eila cel\u00fd \u017eivot a pre mlad\u00e9 lesby predstavovala ide\u00e1l, vzor hodn\u00fd nasledovania. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Organizovali by ste predn\u00e1\u0161ky, oslovovali lek\u00e1rov \u010di pr\u00e1vnikov, aby v\u00e1m pomohli a prihovorili sa za v\u00e1s v \u010dase, ke\u010f sa bude rokova\u0165 o tom, ktor\u00e9 star\u00e9 z\u00e1kony ostan\u00fa v platnosti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A p\u00edsali by ste. St\u00e1le a ne\u00fanavne, viac ako 40 rokov, ako Slov\u00e1k Imrich Maty\u00e1\u0161 (1896 \u2013 1974), ktor\u00fd sa napokon tej dekriminaliz\u00e1cie, \u010di\u017ee odtrestnenia homosexuality v \u010ceskoslovensku do\u017eil. A do toho stihol pom\u00f4c\u0165 mnoh\u00fdm \u201eutla\u010dovan\u00fdm na\u0161incom\u201c <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale o tom niekedy nabud\u00face. Ke\u010f v\u00e1s teda v s\u00fa\u010dasnosti bude niekto tr\u00e1pi\u0165 ot\u00e1zkou, \u010di gejovia a lesby maj\u00fa pr\u00e1vo vychov\u00e1va\u0165 deti, \u010di to zvl\u00e1dnu a \u010di maj\u00fa k tomu dispoz\u00edcie \u010di kompetencie, odpovedzte len: \u201eZvl\u00e1dli to v minulosti, v ove\u013ea \u0165a\u017e\u0161\u00edch podmienkach a v n\u00faten\u00fdch man\u017eelstv\u00e1ch, pre\u010do by to dne\u0161n\u00e9 gener\u00e1cie nezvl\u00e1dli teraz, ke\u010f m\u00f4\u017eu \u017ei\u0165 s t\u00fdm, koho nadov\u0161etko \u013e\u00fabia\u201c?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Slovo \u201egej\u201c by ste v\u00f4bec nepoznali. Pravdepodobne by ste nepoznali ani slovo \u201ehomosexu\u00e1l\u201c, v tom \u010dase toti\u017e bolo ve\u013emi mlad\u00e9. Sk\u00f4r by ste na seba po\u010duli ozna\u010denie \u201esodomita\u201c \u010di \u201epervert\u201c. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":2278,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,6,9,13],"tags":[149,207],"class_list":["post-2276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-comingout","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-queer-historia","category-viditelnost","tag-queer-historia","tag-teple-okienko"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2276"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2276\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2647,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2276\/revisions\/2647"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}