{"id":2146,"date":"2019-12-07T10:41:22","date_gmt":"2019-12-07T09:41:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=2146"},"modified":"2021-03-18T08:56:06","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T07:56:06","slug":"queer-spoved-zumba-mi-zachranila-zivot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/queer-spoved-zumba-mi-zachranila-zivot\/","title":{"rendered":"Queer spove\u010f: Zumba mi zachr\u00e1nila \u017eivot"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Text: Matej Somr\u00a0 \/ Foto:\u00a0 s\u00fakromn\u00fd arch\u00edv\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Arch\u00edvny text vy\u0161iel prv\u00fd raz v \u010d\u00edsle Zima 2019.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, ako sa mi pred rokom za\u010dal r\u00fati\u0165 \u017eivot. Najprv zdravie, neskor\u0161ie ot\u00e1zka pracovn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Ostal som akoby v slepej uli\u010dke, z ktorej niet \u00faniku. Najm\u00e4 po tom, \u010do som musel od\u00eds\u0165 aj z pr\u00e1ce. Zostalo obrovsk\u00e9 ticho a mnoho ot\u00e1zok bez odpoved\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A dnes? Podie\u013eam sa na veciach, \u010do mi prin\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa neskuto\u010dn\u00fa rados\u0165. Pracujem so \u0161tudentami a s \u013eu\u010fmi, s ktor\u00fdmi sa navz\u00e1jom in\u0161pirujeme. Zdie\u013eam neskuto\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky s \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdmi osobami i z&nbsp;na\u0161ej #ZumbaFamily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kde nastal zlom? Bolo to niekedy na rozhran\u00ed marca a apr\u00edla 2019. V tom \u010dase moja myse\u013e neskuto\u010dne prem\u00fd\u0161\u013eala nad ot\u00e1zkami t\u00fdkaj\u00face sa nejasnej bud\u00facnosti. Sebavedomie ako i chu\u0165 do \u017eivota na bode mrazu, \u017eiadna motiv\u00e1cia. Ostala pr\u00e1zdnota a&nbsp;ja. N\u00e1js\u0165 si nov\u00fa pr\u00e1cu bolo \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 a&nbsp;z\u00e1rove\u0148 nastala aj&nbsp;kr\u00edza z&nbsp;finan\u010dn\u00e9ho h\u013eadiska. Bol to moment, kedy som sa po prv\u00fd raz dostal na \u00fapln\u00fd pokraj vlastn\u00fdch s\u00edl. A potom to pri\u0161lo ako blesk z jasn\u00e9ho neba&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrav\u00edm si, ke\u010f mi ni\u010d nevych\u00e1dza v \u017eivote akoby som chcel, p\u00f4jdem na to \u00faplne z opa\u010dn\u00e9ho konca. Namiesto \u00fapenliv\u00e9ho nah\u00e1\u0148ania sa za pr\u00e1cou \u010di peniazmi, pri\u0161la moja hlava s n\u00e1padom vr\u00e1ti\u0165 sa k tomu, \u010do som kedysi stra\u0161ne miloval \u2013ZUMBA. Jednoducho odvr\u00e1ti\u0165 pozornos\u0165 od nedosiahnute\u013en\u00fdch cie\u013eov v&nbsp;danom okamihu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Za\u010dala teda moja p\u00e1tracia akcia po hodin\u00e1ch zumby v Martine prostredn\u00edctvom facebooku. Brut\u00e1lnou r\u00fdchlos\u0165ou mi pri\u0161la aj sp\u00e4tn\u00e1 v\u00e4zba v podobe kontaktu na in\u0161truktorku Gabrielu M\u00e1chov\u00fa. Klikol som na profil a vrav\u00edm si, \u017ee t\u00e1to osoba mi je neskuto\u010dne zn\u00e1ma. No jasn\u00e9! Bola to t\u00e1 ist\u00e1 in\u0161truktorka, ku ktorej som pred 3 rokmi chodil na hodiny.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A odvtedy to v\u0161etko i\u0161lo nejako sam\u00e9. Zozn\u00e1mil som sa s \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdmi in\u0161truktorkami, so skvel\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi. Spolo\u010dne sme za\u017eili neskuto\u010dn\u00e9, predov\u0161etk\u00fdm vesel\u00e9 chv\u00edle nabit\u00e9 pozit\u00edvnou energiou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zumba mi poskytla viac ne\u017e len nejak\u00fd tanec \u010di fitness. V\u010faka nej mi bolo umo\u017enen\u00e9 stretn\u00fa\u0165 sa so zauj\u00edmav\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi a&nbsp;bli\u017e\u0161ie spozna\u0165 ich ne\u013eahk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00e9 pr\u00edbehy. S\u00fa to v\u0161ak osoby, ktor\u00e9 ma neust\u00e1le in\u0161piruj\u00fa. Spolo\u010dne zdie\u013eame okamihy prospe\u0161n\u00e9 najm\u00e4 pre na\u0161e du\u0161e. Z unik\u00e1tnych jednotlivcov chodiacich na hodiny sa postupom \u010dasu stala jedna obrovsk\u00e1 rodina.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Z kreat\u00edvneho \u010dloveka, pln\u00e9ho \u017eivota sa v\u010faka nemil\u00fdm \u017eivotn\u00fdm udalostiam stala postupne vyhasnut\u00e1 a pr\u00e1zdna \u013eudsk\u00e1 schr\u00e1nka, bez ak\u00fdchko\u013evek \u017eivotn\u00fdch cie\u013eov. Dnes som to op\u00e4\u0165 ja! Dokonca dovol\u00edm si tvrdi\u0165, \u017ee lep\u0161ia verzia vlastn\u00e9ho ja ne\u017e t\u00e1, \u010do bola predt\u00fdm. Lebo aj tie zl\u00e9 a bolestn\u00e9 veci nau\u010dili moju du\u0161u r\u00e1s\u0165.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chcem po\u010fakova\u0165 najm\u00e4&nbsp; Gabike M\u00e1chovej, Lucke Sta\u0148ovej, Lucke Kalankovej \u010di napokon Ma\u0165ke Krausovej. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 z nich je pre m\u0148a ve\u013ekou in\u0161pir\u00e1ciou. Nie s\u00fa to len in\u0161truktorky, s\u00fa to najm\u00e4 \u017eeny, nes\u00face obrovsk\u00fa a zodpovedn\u00fa \u00falohu \u2013 motivova\u0165, u\u010di\u0165, vytv\u00e1ra\u0165 nov\u00e9 priate\u013estv\u00e1 a&nbsp;udr\u017eiava\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka\u017ed\u00e1 choreografia, ka\u017ed\u00fd pohyb, o\u010dn\u00fd kontakt, \u00fasmev, energia&#8230; V\u0161etky tieto vymenovan\u00e9 faktory dod\u00e1vaj\u00fa in\u00fdm silu alebo dok\u00e1\u017eu ur\u010dit\u00fdm smerom povzbudi\u0165. Ja som nesmierne v\u010fa\u010dn\u00fd za ka\u017ed\u00fa jednu z nich. Preto\u017ee s\u00fa v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e9! Maj\u00fa predov\u0161etk\u00fdm obrovsk\u00fa moc sp\u00e1ja\u0165 \u013eud\u00ed, \u010do v&nbsp;podstate na\u0161a s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00e1 doba s\u00farne potrebuje ako chlieb.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moje obrovsk\u00e9 po\u010fakovanie patr\u00ed aj Mati. Bola moj\u00edm prv\u00fdm kontaktom so zumbou po troch rokoch. Spo\u010diatku bolo \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 nasko\u010di\u0165 na tento rozbehnut\u00fd vlak. Ale st\u00e1lo to za to! Dok\u00e1zala postupom \u010dasu zlepi\u0165 moje rozbit\u00e9 k\u00fasky a&nbsp;objavi\u0165 v&nbsp;sebe d\u00e1vno straten\u00e9, \u017eivotom po\u0161liapan\u00e9 sebavedomie. Nabral som svoj druh\u00fd dych a \u017eivot dostal op\u00e4\u0165 zmysel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u0161etky pozit\u00edvne veci sa odzrkadlili i v mojom teraj\u0161om \u017eivote. M\u00e1m schopnos\u0165 in\u0161pirova\u0165 in\u00fdch, pom\u00e1ha\u0165 im objavova\u0165 ich jedine\u010dnos\u0165 a najm\u00e4 nema\u0165 strach by\u0165 s\u00e1m sebou. A\u017e zumba mi poskytla bezpe\u010dn\u00fd priestor pln\u00fd akcept\u00e1cie, tolerancie, harm\u00f3nie a&nbsp;mo\u017enosti n\u00e1js\u0165 pochopenia.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hodiny zumby mi taktie\u017e priniesli \u010fal\u0161iu vz\u00e1cnu osobu, akou je Zuzka Vatra\u013eov\u00e1. Na jednej strane je mojou TOP tane\u010dnou par\u0165\u00e1\u010dkou a&nbsp;na druhej stranou i&nbsp;skvelou kamo\u0161kou. Poskytla mi pomocn\u00fa ruku v \u010dasoch, ke\u010f som ju najviac potreboval. Naozaj skuto\u010dn\u00fd priate\u013e nielen ke\u010f svieti slnko, ale i do samotn\u00e9ho da\u017e\u010fa. Dve nezn\u00e1me osoby \u017eij\u00face v&nbsp;rovnakom meste spojil osud a\u017e na jednom mieste, kde sa sp\u00e1ja tanec, cvi\u010denie a&nbsp;dobr\u00e1 n\u00e1lada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 milujem stretnutia s&nbsp;\u013eu\u010fmi z&nbsp;tejto komunity \u010di u\u017e priamo tu v&nbsp;Turci, na Liptove, v&nbsp;Nitre, na Myjave \u010di kdeko\u013evek inde. V\u0161etci ma priv\u00edtali medzi seba akoby ma azda cel\u00fd \u017eivot poznali. Taktie\u017e by som r\u00e1d spomenul \u010fal\u0161\u00edch talentovan\u00fdch in\u0161truktorov, ktor\u00ed mi priniesli obrovsk\u00fd pr\u00ednos do \u017eivota na tejto pestrofarebnej hudobno-tane\u010dnej ceste ako So\u0148u G\u00e1borov\u00fa (Zumba Sonnyes), Michaelu Ly\u017ei\u010diarov\u00fa (MiLy) a napokon Vladim\u00edra \u0160ev\u010d\u00edka (Zumba Vlado).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nikdy som sa nejako neradil do \u017eiadnej skupiny \u2013 \u010di u\u017e v \u0161kole v kolekt\u00edve alebo celkovo v \u017eivote. Nikdy som si nevedel n\u00e1js\u0165 ako sa hovor\u00ed to spr\u00e1vne miesto v \u017eivote. ALE TOTO JE PRESNE TO, \u010cO SOM H\u013dADAL.&nbsp;U\u017e teraz viete, pre\u010do mi zumba zachr\u00e1nila \u017eivot a stala sa najpodstatnej\u0161ou zlo\u017ekou v mojom \u017eivote.&nbsp; Zumba ako tak\u00e1 pozn\u00e1 mnoho r\u00f4znych \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch \u017eivotn\u00fdch osudov. Spojila \u013eud\u00ed, dala im rodinu a&nbsp;predov\u0161etk\u00fdm druh\u00fa \u0161ancu. Pom\u00e1ha nielen mne, ale aj ostatn\u00fdm vyjs\u0165 z&nbsp;komfortnej z\u00f3ny a&nbsp;z\u00e1rove\u0148 posun\u00fa\u0165 vlastn\u00e9 limity (#PushYourLimits).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, ako sa mi pred rokom za\u010dal r\u00fati\u0165 \u017eivot. Najprv zdravie, neskor\u0161ie ot\u00e1zka pracovn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Ostal som akoby v slepej uli\u010dke, z ktorej niet \u00faniku. Najm\u00e4 po tom, \u010do som musel od\u00eds\u0165 aj z pr\u00e1ce. 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