{"id":2104,"date":"2019-10-07T08:58:23","date_gmt":"2019-10-07T06:58:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=2104"},"modified":"2019-10-07T08:58:23","modified_gmt":"2019-10-07T06:58:23","slug":"rodicovstvo-jednoducho-nie-je-o-pohlavi-je-to-o-laske-opatrovani-a-starostlivosti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/rodicovstvo-jednoducho-nie-je-o-pohlavi-je-to-o-laske-opatrovani-a-starostlivosti\/","title":{"rendered":"Rodi\u010dovstvo jednoducho nie je o pohlav\u00ed. Je to o l\u00e1ske, opatrovan\u00ed a starostlivosti."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Autor textu: Martin Hodo\u0148 \/ Foto: s\u00fakromn\u00fd arch\u00edv<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Arch\u00edvny text sme prv\u00fd raz publikovali v \u010d\u00edsle Jese\u0148 2019.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed Bartovanec sa narodil v\u00a0roku 1983 v\u00a0Mari\u00e1nskych L\u00e1znich v\u00a0\u010ceskej republike. Vy\u0161tudoval baletn\u00fa \u0161kolu, nesk\u00f4r tane\u010dn\u00e9 konzervat\u00f3rium. V\u00a0roku 2003 odi\u0161iel do Berl\u00edna. Pripravil mno\u017estvo tane\u010dn\u00fdch performanci\u00ed a\u00a0choreografi\u00ed, v\u00a0ktor\u00fdch aj \u00fa\u010dinkoval, u\u010d\u00ed a\u00a0podiela sa aj na pr\u00edprave dokumentov s\u00a0touto t\u00e9mou. Jeho man\u017eel Jind\u0159ich Bartovanec Havl\u00edk (41) vy\u0161tudoval kn\u00edhta\u010d a\u00a0grafick\u00fd dizajn a\u00a0soci\u00e1lnu pedagogiku. Zaober\u00e1 sa p\u00edsan\u00edm detsk\u00fdch kn\u00edh a\u00a0pracovn\u00fdch zo\u0161itov \u0161kolsk\u00fdch predmetov. Spolu\u00a0 vyhov\u00e1vaj\u00fa mal\u00e9ho syna Kili\u00e1nka, ktor\u00e9ho si adoptovali.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Chcel by som za\u010da\u0165 momentom, kedy ste zistli svoju orient\u00e1ciu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Mo\u017eno je to zvl\u00e1\u0161tne, ale ja som si to uvedomoval u\u017e od detstva. Jednoducho u\u017e princovia v&nbsp;rozpr\u00e1vkach mi boli sympatickej\u0161\u00ed ako princezn\u00e9. Neza\u017eil som teda ono h\u013eadanie, t\u00e1panie a&nbsp;randenie s&nbsp;diev\u010datami, kedy by som svoju citov\u00fa orient\u00e1ciu h\u013eadal.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: U&nbsp;m\u0148a to bolo celkom neskoro. Je pravda, \u017ee som mal nejak\u00e9 predstavy o&nbsp;mu\u017eoch u\u017e v&nbsp;puberte, ale nebolo to tak siln\u00e9. Tie\u017e som po\u010das dospievania rie\u0161il in\u00e9 starosti, najm\u00e4 rozvod a&nbsp;rodinn\u00e9 \u0165ahanice o&nbsp;m\u0148a ako ich n\u00e1stroj v&nbsp;boji za pon\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 eg\u00e1 jednej polovice rodiny. Na tane\u010dnom konzervat\u00f3riu som sa za\u013e\u00fabil do diev\u010data a&nbsp;miloval som ju nieko\u013eko rokov, ne\u017e sme sa v&nbsp;dobrom rozi\u0161li. V&nbsp;dev\u00e4tn\u00e1stich som odi\u0161iel do Berl\u00edna a&nbsp;tam som za\u010dal pozn\u00e1va\u0165 city k&nbsp;mu\u017eom.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ako vyzeral coming out?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich:&nbsp; \u010cakal som na okam\u017eik, ke\u010f budem ma\u0165 priate\u013ea. Rozhodol som sa, \u017ee to poviem a\u017e vtedy a&nbsp;svoju prv\u00fa zn\u00e1mos\u0165 som mal v&nbsp;18 rokoch. Ne\u017e som ale sta\u010dil \u010doko\u013evek poveda\u0165, moja mama ma predbehla a&nbsp;op\u00fdtala sa ma sama. Mamy to jednoducho vyc\u00edtia.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: S&nbsp;pr\u00edchodom do Berl\u00edna sa mi za\u010dal meni\u0165 cel\u00fd \u017eivot. M\u00f4j poh\u013ead na odli\u0161nosti okolo m\u0148a a&nbsp;tie\u017e cesta ku mne sam\u00e9mu bola jasnej\u0161ia. Viac som rozumel svojim t\u00fa\u017ebam. Najprv som sa zveril mamke a&nbsp;sestr\u00e1m. O&nbsp;p\u00e1r rokov otcovi a&nbsp;\u010fal\u0161\u00edm bl\u00edzkym. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ako to prijala rodina a bl\u00edzky?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Bolo to v&nbsp;poriadku. Jedin\u00fd, kto s&nbsp;t\u00fdm mal probl\u00e9m, bol m\u00f4j otec (u otcov asi be\u017en\u00e1 vec). Netrvalo ale dlho a&nbsp;prijal to. Mo\u017eno v&nbsp;tom zohrala \u00falohu aj mama, ktor\u00e1 mu v&nbsp;pokoji povedala: \u201eBu\u010f sa s&nbsp;t\u00fdm vyrovn\u00e1\u0161, alebo sa s&nbsp;tebou rozvediem. M\u00e1\u0161 na to t\u00fd\u017ede\u0148.\u201c&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: Mamy v\u00a0prvom rade rie\u0161ia potomkov, tak to bolo aj pri mne. Chv\u00ed\u013eu jej to bolo \u013e\u00fato, \u017ee akosi nem\u00f4\u017eem preda\u0165 g\u00e9ny \u010falej. Druh\u00fdm dychom my v\u0161ak vyjadrila podporu slovami, \u017ee som jej die\u0165a a\u00a0bude ma na\u010falej milova\u0165 tak\u00e9ho ak\u00fd som. Jej podpora mi dala odvahu. Prv\u00fd d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd \u010dlovek ma prijal potom to u\u017e i\u0161lo s\u00a0outovan\u00edm \u013eah\u0161ie.<strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"775\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/clanok-7-Bartovenec-fotky-1-775x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2106\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/clanok-7-Bartovenec-fotky-1-775x1024.jpg 775w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/clanok-7-Bartovenec-fotky-1-454x600.jpg 454w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/clanok-7-Bartovenec-fotky-1-227x300.jpg 227w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/clanok-7-Bartovenec-fotky-1.jpg 824w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 775px) 100vw, 775px\" \/><figcaption>Foto: s\u00fakromn\u00fd arch\u00edv<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kedy ste poc\u00edtili t\u00fa\u017ebu zalo\u017ei\u0165 si rodinu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich:&nbsp; &nbsp; Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je to prirodzen\u00e9. Ja som t\u00fa potrebu c\u00edtil v\u017edy. Ten prv\u00fd krok, ke\u010f som za\u0161iel na \u00farad so \u017eiados\u0165ou o&nbsp;adopciu, som ale urobil a\u017e po smrti otca. To pova\u017eujem za najsilnej\u0161\u00ed impulz. Uvedomil som si, \u017ee \u017eivot ve\u013emi r\u00fdchle let\u00ed a&nbsp;\u010dlovek nesmie na ni\u010d \u010daka\u0165. Na to a\u017e postav\u00ed dom, urob\u00ed kari\u00e9ru, na\u0161por\u00ed si, dokon\u010d\u00ed \u0161kolu&#8230; ni\u010d z&nbsp;toho by \u010dloveka nemalo brzdi\u0165. Pokia\u013e m\u00e1 nejak\u00fd sen, u\u017e v\u010dera bolo neskoro za\u010da\u0165 s&nbsp;jeho realiz\u00e1ciou. Naviac m\u00e1m ved\u013ea seba \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka. V Ji\u0159\u00edm som na\u0161iel partnera pre \u017eivot a&nbsp;od za\u010diatku mi bolo jasn\u00e9, \u017ee s&nbsp;n\u00edm chcem vychov\u00e1va\u0165 deti a&nbsp;zostarn\u00fa\u0165.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed:. Mo\u017eno pramenilo z&nbsp;detstva. Mal som pocit, \u017ee svoju rodinu sa pok\u00fasim vytvori\u0165 v&nbsp;in\u00fdch podmienkach, ako v&nbsp;t\u00fdch \u010do som mal ja. \u017delanie je jedna vec, ale ma\u0165 k&nbsp;tomu toho prav\u00e9ho je druh\u00e1. To som pr\u00e1ve na\u0161iel u&nbsp;Jindra. Od za\u010diatku vz\u0165ahu sme obaja t\u00fa\u017eili spolo\u010dne vytvori\u0165 rodinu a&nbsp;zostarn\u00fa\u0165. Zatia\u013e sa n\u00e1m v\u0161etko dar\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Viem, \u017ee ste sa o adopciu sna\u017eili dlho. Ako cel\u00fd tento proces vyzeral? \u010do boli najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie prek\u00e1\u017eky?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: D\u00e1 sa poveda\u0165, \u017ee od podania \u017eiadosti a\u017e do okam\u017eiku, ke\u010f sme n\u00e1\u0161ho syna videli prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t ubehlo bez dvoch mesiacov 5 rokov. Proces bol naozaj dlh\u00fd, ale nakoniec sa vyplatilo po\u010dka\u0165. S&nbsp;adopciou maj\u00fa r\u00f4zny \u013eudia v&nbsp;\u010cR r\u00f4zne sk\u00fasenosti \u2013 ob\u010das po\u010d\u00favam ve\u013emi smutn\u00e9 a&nbsp;zl\u00e9 pr\u00edbehy, ale na\u0161\u0165astie n\u00e1s sa to net\u00fdkalo. Cel\u00e9 konanie sa s\u00edce vlieklo, ale v\u0161etci zamestnanci sa k&nbsp;n\u00e1m spr\u00e1vali ve\u013emi pr\u00edjemne a&nbsp;profesion\u00e1lne. Nepoci\u0165oval som \u017eiadnu formu diskrimin\u00e1cia a&nbsp;\u00faradn\u00ed\u010dky boli ve\u013emi ochotn\u00e9 a&nbsp;\u00fastretov\u00e9. Doteraz som s&nbsp;niektor\u00fdmi v&nbsp;kontakte a&nbsp;ob\u010das im po\u0161leme fotografie alebo poh\u013eadnicu z&nbsp;na\u0161ich ciest.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: Bola to kr\u00e1sna sk\u00fasenos\u0165. Toto len tak niekto neza\u017eije. M\u00e1m v\u00fdzvy r\u00e1d a&nbsp;ke\u010f s\u00fa s&nbsp;tak\u00fdm naplnen\u00edm ako bola adopcia, nem\u00f4\u017ee to ani dopadn\u00fa\u0165 zle. Ob\u00e1val som sa jednej veci, a&nbsp;to, \u017ee adopcia prebiehala v&nbsp;\u010cR. Predsa len \u017eijem v&nbsp;Nemecku u\u017e 17 rokov a&nbsp;\u010dlovek pozn\u00e1 prijatie inakosti norm\u00e1lne tak ako okolo n\u00e1s je a&nbsp;vytv\u00e1ra pestros\u0165 denn\u00e9ho obrazu \u017eivota. Predstava, \u017ee by sme sa stretli s&nbsp;diskrimin\u00e1ciou, alebo \u010d\u00edmko\u013evek in\u00fdm bola dos\u0165 siln\u00e1. Opak bol pravdou za \u010do som nesmierne r\u00e1d.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ako vyzeral moment, kedy ste sa dozvedeli, \u017ee budete rodi\u010dia?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Viete na tento okamih \u010dak\u00e1te stra\u0161ne dlho. Predstavuje si v\u0161etky mo\u017en\u00e9 scen\u00e1re, ke\u010f v\u00e1m zavol\u00e1 telef\u00f3n a&nbsp;v&nbsp;akej situ\u00e1cii v\u00e1s to zastihne. A&nbsp;potom to pr\u00edde v&nbsp;ten v\u0161edn\u00fd okam\u017eik, \u017ee chv\u00ed\u013eu ani nech\u00e1pete, \u010do v\u00e1m pr\u00e1ve povedali. To \u010dakanie bolo ale naozaj dlh\u00e9 a&nbsp;prizn\u00e1m sa po t\u00fdch rokoch som to chcel aj vzda\u0165. Pri ka\u017edom zazvonen\u00ed telef\u00f3nu, kde sa v\u00e1m zobrazilo nezn\u00e1me \u010d\u00edslo, to vo v\u00e1s toti\u017e hrklo a&nbsp;v&nbsp;mysli nasko\u010dila jedin\u00e1 my\u0161lienka. O&nbsp;to v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie bolo sklamanie, ke\u010f i\u0161lo napr\u00edklad o&nbsp;prieskum trhu, alebo telemarketing. A&nbsp;pr\u00e1ve v&nbsp;tak\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch sme dostali podporu od t\u00fdch \u201enepr\u00edjemn\u00fdch\u201c \u00faradn\u00edkov. Uis\u0165ovali n\u00e1s, \u017ee nech sa nevzd\u00e1vame, \u017ee sa ur\u010dite do\u010dk\u00e1me. Len mus\u00edme by\u0165 trpezliv\u00ed a&nbsp;nestr\u00e1ca\u0165 n\u00e1dej.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: Dva dni po na\u0161ej svadbe v&nbsp;Berl\u00edne mi vol\u00e1 Jindra a&nbsp;hovor\u00ed \u201epr\u00e1ve mi volali z&nbsp;\u00faradu, budeme oteckovia.\u201c Nemohol som veri\u0165, \u017ee by to tak naozaj teraz mohlo by\u0165. V&nbsp;ten moment, ke\u010f sa veci dej\u00fa tak ako ste o&nbsp;nich sn\u00edvali, st\u00e1va sa zrazu t\u00e1 vec a\u017e nepochopite\u013ene nemo\u017en\u00e1. Je to ako by ste bl\u00edzku bud\u00facnos\u0165 videli v&nbsp;stra\u0161nej dia\u013eke. Vysvet\u013eujem si ten moment tak, \u017ee v\u00e1s vystrel\u00ed do v\u00fd\u0161ky va\u0161a rados\u0165 a&nbsp;dojatie a&nbsp;vy h\u013ead\u00edte z&nbsp;v\u00fd\u0161ky ako sa pomaly zn\u00e1\u0161ate do tej reality. U&nbsp;n\u00e1s to bolo dva a&nbsp;p\u00f3l t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a od telefon\u00e1tu, ke\u010f sme si priniesli syn\u010deka domov. To u\u017e je \u010dlovek op\u00e4\u0165 nohami pevne na zemi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ak\u00e9 je to by\u0165 rodi\u010dom?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Je to asi to najkraj\u0161ie, \u010do sa v\u00e1m v&nbsp;\u017eivote m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165. \u010clovek za\u010dne na ve\u013ea vec\u00ed pozera\u0165 inak. Preorganizuje si svoj rebr\u00ed\u010dek hodn\u00f4t, za\u010dne viac rozumie\u0165 svojim rodi\u010dom,&nbsp; e\u0161te viac sa utvrd\u00ed v&nbsp;tom, \u010do je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 a&nbsp;\u010do nie je. Zist\u00edte, \u017ee veci ako pr\u00e1ca a&nbsp;kari\u00e9ra nemaj\u00fa tak\u00fa cenu a&nbsp;v&nbsp;porovnan\u00ed s&nbsp;rodi\u010da s\u00fa malichern\u00e9. Zrazu v\u00e1m v\u0161etko za\u010dne d\u00e1va\u0165 zmysel a&nbsp;vy si uvedom\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot za\u010d\u00edna pr\u00e1ve vtedy, a\u017e ke\u010f ho niekomu venujete. V\u017edy som chcel by\u0165 otcom a&nbsp;ma\u0165 die\u0165a. Ke\u010f sa to nakoniec stalo, uvedomil som si, \u017ee je to \u00faplne inak, ako som si myslel \u2013 die\u0165a m\u00e1 toti\u017e v\u00e1s a&nbsp;nie, \u017ee vy ho vlastn\u00edte.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed:&nbsp; Je to ve\u013ek\u00fd kus zodpovednosti. U\u017e to nie ste len vy. Neto\u010d\u00ed sa to len okolo v\u00e1s. Je to dar, neuverite\u013en\u00fd pestr\u00fd dar v\u0161etk\u00fdch em\u00f3ci\u00ed a&nbsp;starost\u00ed. S\u00fa a\u017e slovami neop\u00edsate\u013en\u00e9 a&nbsp;d\u00e1va\u0165 a&nbsp;prij\u00edma\u0165 je n\u00e1s ka\u017edodenn\u00ed ritu\u00e1l. Prizn\u00e1m sa, \u017ee aj po pol roku sa zah\u013ead\u00edm a&nbsp;never\u00edm, \u017ee n\u00e1m bolo umo\u017enen\u00e9 da\u0165 kus na\u0161ich cies\u0165 na t\u00fa jednu spolo\u010dn\u00fa v&nbsp;trojici.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ako vyzer\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161 be\u017en\u00fd de\u0148?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Je celkom norm\u00e1lny a&nbsp;rovnak\u00fd ako v&nbsp;ka\u017edej inej rodine. L\u00ed\u0161i sa sn\u00e1\u010f a Ji\u0159\u00ed&nbsp; teraz cez leto nie je tak pracovne vy\u0165a\u017een\u00fd. M\u00f4\u017eeme tak by\u0165 s&nbsp;Kili\u00e1nkom obaja naraz a&nbsp;on neza\u017e\u00edva to, \u017ee jeden z&nbsp;rodi\u010dov r\u00e1no od\u00edde a&nbsp;vr\u00e1ti sa a\u017e ve\u010der. M\u00e1 jednoducho dvoch otcov, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa mu plne k&nbsp;dispoz\u00edcii.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: Deti asi maj\u00fa radi, alebo im rob\u00ed dobre, ke\u010f maj\u00fa ritu\u00e1ly a&nbsp;re\u017eim. Vst\u00e1vanie, maznanie, rann\u00e9 mlie\u010dko, ra\u0148ajky, hranie sa a&nbsp;sk\u00famanie, prech\u00e1dzka, predpolud\u0148aj\u0161\u00ed sp\u00e1nok, obed a&nbsp;znovu hranie, v\u00fdlet, stret\u00e1vanie sa s&nbsp;priate\u013emi alebo ihrisko, olovrant, popolud\u0148aj\u0161\u00ed sp\u00e1nok, ve\u010dera a&nbsp;rozpr\u00e1vka, hudba, \u010di tanec a&nbsp;pr\u00edprava na sp\u00e1nok, mlie\u010dko a&nbsp;no\u010dn\u00e9 spanie&#8230; a&nbsp;r\u00e1no \u00faplne rovnak\u00fd ritu\u00e1l nanovo. K&nbsp;tomu v\u0161etk\u00e9mu je mili\u00f3n \u00fasmevov a&nbsp;pla\u010dov, d\u00f4very a&nbsp;l\u00e1sky. De\u0148 je pln\u00fd&#8230; ale pocitovo r\u00fdchlej\u0161\u00ed a&nbsp;mesiace s\u00fa krat\u0161ie.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ak\u00e9 s\u00fa reakcie okolia?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jind\u0159ich: Reakcie s\u00fa pozit\u00edvne. Nestretli sme sa s&nbsp;ani jednou negat\u00edvnou odozvou. Ale ono je to logick\u00e9. \u013dudia, ktor\u00ed proti n\u00e1m nie\u010do maj\u00fa, zas nemaj\u00fa dos\u0165 odvahy, aby n\u00e1m to povedali do o\u010d\u00ed. Nerob\u00edm si il\u00fazie, \u017ee tak\u00ed nie s\u00fa. Mus\u00edm ale poveda\u0165, \u017ee v\u0161etky reakcie, ktor\u00e9 k&nbsp;n\u00e1m smerovali boli kr\u00e1sne. Ve\u013eakr\u00e1t n\u00e1s \u013eudia aj doj\u00edmali a&nbsp;n\u00e1\u0161 pr\u00edbeh zase ich. Ve\u013emi \u010dast\u00e9 ale bolo to, \u017ee sa k&nbsp;v\u00e1m doty\u010dn\u00fd naklonil a&nbsp;s&nbsp;\u00fadivom za\u0161epkal \u201e ja som v\u00f4bec netu\u0161il, \u017ee to ide.\u201c V&nbsp;spolo\u010dnosti je jednoducho zakorenen\u00e9,&nbsp; \u017ee d\u00fahov\u00e9 rodiny nie s\u00fa be\u017en\u00e9 a&nbsp;pritom je to norm\u00e1lne. Sta\u010d\u00ed sa len pozrie\u0165 ko\u013eko mu\u017eov sami vychov\u00e1vaj\u00fa svoje die\u0165a (nech je to z&nbsp;ak\u00e9hoko\u013evek d\u00f4vodu). A&nbsp;rovnako ako \u017eeny dok\u00e1\u017eu \u00faspe\u0161ne vies\u0165 ve\u013ek\u00e9 firmy a&nbsp;by\u0165 skvel\u00fdmi politi\u010dkami aj mu\u017e sa dok\u00e1\u017ee v\u00fdborne stara\u0165 o&nbsp;deti. Nehovoriac o&nbsp;tom, ke\u010f s\u00fa na to dvaja. Je mi ale jasn\u00e9, \u017ee&nbsp; hlboko v&nbsp;spolo\u010dnosti, v\u017edy bude zakorenen\u00e9, \u017ee die\u0165a mus\u00ed ma\u0165 mamu a&nbsp;otca a&nbsp;in\u00e1 forma rodiny bude pova\u017eovan\u00e1 za nenorm\u00e1lnu. V&nbsp;tomto oh\u013eade je treba e\u0161te prejs\u0165 kus cesty. V\u017edy si spomeniem na stanovisko slovensk\u00e9ho re\u017eis\u00e9ra Juraja Jakubiska, ako sa pred rokmi postavil proti mo\u017enosti adopcie rovnako pohlavn\u00fdmi p\u00e1rmi. Pritom on s\u00e1m vyrastal bez otca, a&nbsp;ako s\u00e1m prizn\u00e1val, vychov\u00e1vali ho len sam\u00e9 \u017eeny. Niekedy s nads\u00e1zkou hovor\u00edm, ve\u010f aj Je\u017ei\u0161 mal dvoch otcov a&nbsp;ako \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd \u010dlovek z&nbsp;neho vyr\u00e1stol. Rodi\u010dovstvo jednoducho nie je o&nbsp;pohlav\u00ed. Je to o&nbsp;l\u00e1ske, opatrovan\u00ed a&nbsp;starostlivosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed: S\u00fahlas\u00edm s&nbsp;Jindrou, len pozit\u00edvne v&nbsp;okol\u00ed aj na cest\u00e1ch.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ji\u0159\u00ed Bartovanec sa narodil v roku 1983 v Mari\u00e1nskych L\u00e1znich v \u010ceskej republike. Vy\u0161tudoval baletn\u00fa \u0161kolu, nesk\u00f4r tane\u010dn\u00e9 konzervat\u00f3rium. V roku 2003 odi\u0161iel do Berl\u00edna. Pripravil mno\u017estvo tane\u010dn\u00fdch performanci\u00ed a choreografi\u00ed, v ktor\u00fdch aj \u00fa\u010dinkoval, u\u010d\u00ed a podiela sa aj na pr\u00edprave dokumentov s touto t\u00e9mou. 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