{"id":1872,"date":"2018-03-31T08:40:50","date_gmt":"2018-03-31T06:40:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=1872"},"modified":"2018-03-31T08:40:50","modified_gmt":"2018-03-31T06:40:50","slug":"bratislavsky-kiss-in-alebo-slusne-bozkavanie-v-uliciach-bratislavy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/bratislavsky-kiss-in-alebo-slusne-bozkavanie-v-uliciach-bratislavy\/","title":{"rendered":"Bratislavsk\u00fd kiss-in alebo slu\u0161n\u00e9 bozk\u00e1vanie v uliciach Bratislavy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Autor textu: Robert Pakan \/ Foto: Nov\u00fd \u010das<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stala sa tak\u00e1 vec u n\u00e1s, na tom na\u0161om Slovensku, \u017ee u\u017e aj bozk na l\u00edce je nemor\u00e1lny a neslu\u0161n\u00fd. Nemali sme o akcept\u00e1cii lesieb a gejov na Slovensku vysok\u00fa mienku, ale v Bratislave, v tej na\u0161ej liber\u00e1lnej o\u00e1ze, sa u\u017e prijatie \u201ein\u00fdch\u201d v\u00fdrazne posunulo. Nu\u017e fandili sme si mo\u017eno a\u017e pr\u00edli\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arch\u00edvny text bol p\u00f4vodne publikovan\u00fd v \u010d\u00edsle Jar 2018<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

V t\u00fdchto pohnut\u00fdch \u010dasoch, kedy desa\u0165tis\u00edce \u013eud\u00ed protestuj\u00fa a dom\u00e1haj\u00fa sa \u201eSlu\u0161n\u00e9ho Slovenska\u201d, i\u0161li si takto zaprotestova\u0165 aj dve diev\u010dence. Diev\u010dence s\u00fa to r\u00fa\u010de a okrem priate\u013estva ich sp\u00e1ja aj l\u00e1ska. S\u00fa lesby, p\u00e1r. Hovorme im Krist\u00edna a Barbora. Nie s\u00fa to krycie men\u00e1. Skuto\u010dne sa tak volaj\u00fa.  Men\u00e1 pre tento pr\u00edbeh  nebudeme zamie\u0148a\u0165. Krist\u00edna a Barbora s\u00fa toti\u017e re\u00e1lne \u013eudsk\u00e9 bytosti, ktor\u00e9 d\u00fdchaj\u00fa a c\u00edtia.  Po ob\u010dianskom anga\u017eovan\u00ed sa i\u0161li obe e\u0161te na chv\u00ed\u013eu zohria\u0165 do bl\u00edzkej kaviarne. Dali si \u010daj. A k nemu si dali e\u0161te jeden sladk\u00fd bozk na l\u00edce. Poviete si: \u201e\u010co u\u017e je toto za pr\u00edbeh?\u201d  Pusa na l\u00edce? Tak tie sa na verejnosti rozdaj\u00fa mili\u00f3ny. Av\u0161ak, nie je pusa ako pusa. T\u00e1to konkr\u00e9tna ve\u013emi pohor\u0161ila \u010da\u0161n\u00ed\u010dku kaviarne, ktor\u00e1 okam\u017eite reagovala: \u201eBez t\u00fdch pusiniek popros\u00edm\u201d. Dve dospel\u00e9 \u017eeny ostali \u0161okovan\u00e9. \u010ca\u0161n\u00ed\u010dka v\u0161ak vo vysvet\u013eovan\u00ed pokra\u010dovala: \u201eNechceme, aby sa na pusy museli d\u00edva\u0165 na\u0161i z\u00e1kazn\u00edci.\u201d Dve dospel\u00e9 \u017eeny e\u0161te st\u00e1le ost\u00e1vaj\u00fa ako obaren\u00e9 \u010dajom, ktor\u00fd e\u0161te ani nenaserv\u00edrovali a \u010da\u0161n\u00ed\u010dka pokra\u010dovala: \u201eMy sme slu\u0161n\u00fd podnik!\u201d Na to sa \u017eeny zodvihli a povedali, \u017ee odch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, lebo v homof\u00f3bnom podniku viac nebud\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reakcia kaviarne<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Reakcia na t\u00fato udalos\u0165 nenechala na seba dlh\u0161ie \u010daka\u0165. Po tom, ako sa Krist\u00edna zd\u00f4verila s nemilou udalos\u0165ou na soci\u00e1lnej sieti, vysl\u00fa\u017eil si podnik sp\u0155\u0161ku kritiky, na ktor\u00fa nesk\u00f4r reagoval takto: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eAkceptujeme v\u0161etk\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed bez oh\u013eadu rasy, vierovyznania a\u00a0orient\u00e1cie, a ur\u010dite nikoho nevyhadzujeme … My sme toho n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee v kaviarni, bare si m\u00e1te odd\u00fdchnu\u0165, vypn\u00fa\u0165 od be\u017en\u00fdch starost\u00ed, a nie sa tam obchyt\u00e1va\u0165 a\u00a0bozk\u00e1va\u0165,\u201c\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaviare\u0148 vo svojom vyjadren\u00ed skon\u0161tatovala, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek by si mal polo\u017ei\u0165 ot\u00e1zku, \u010di svoj\u00edm spr\u00e1van\u00edm neob\u0165a\u017euje okolie.\u00a0\u201eNie ka\u017ed\u00e9mu sa p\u00e1\u010di to, \u010do v\u00e1m pr\u00edde \u00faplne norm\u00e1lne a\u00a0naopak. Ned\u00e1 sa vyhovie\u0165 v\u0161etk\u00fdm,\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Status kaviarne mohol a mal v\u0161etko vyrie\u0161i\u0165. Za spr\u00e1vanie \u010da\u0161n\u00ed\u010dky sa mali ospravedlni\u0165 a mo\u017eno ju pre\u0161koli\u0165, ako sa m\u00e1 spr\u00e1va\u0165 k z\u00e1kazn\u00edkom a z\u00e1kazn\u00ed\u010dkam. Mo\u017eno potom by vlna odporu a \u201ebojkotu\u201d vo\u010di spom\u00ednanej kaviarni ust\u00e1la. Vyjadrenie v\u0161ak len potvrdilo homof\u00f3bny postoj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bozk\u00e1vacia akcia\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vo v\u0161etkom zlom sa v\u0161ak udialo \u010dosi naozaj kr\u00e1sne. Spont\u00e1nna hromadn\u00e1 verejn\u00e1 bozk\u00e1vacia akcia na podporu dvoch \u017eien, ktor\u00e9 neurobili ni\u010d in\u00e9, len si dali kr\u00e1snu romantick\u00fa pusu na l\u00edce. V\u0161etko sa zorganizovalo cez soci\u00e1lne siete a vznikol event \u201eVerejn\u00e9 a slu\u0161n\u00e9 bozk\u00e1vanie pred Caf\u00e9 Barista\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non\u0161alantne opomenieme pln\u00e9 vedro hejtu, ktor\u00e9 sa vylialo na v\u0161etk\u00fdch LGBTI \u013eud\u00ed po zverejnen\u00ed udalosti. Pote\u0161en\u00edm zost\u00e1va, \u017ee naozaj sa pred kaviare\u0148 pri\u0161lo bozk\u00e1va\u0165 vy\u0161e 15 p\u00e1rov ak\u00fdchko\u013evek sexu\u00e1lnych ident\u00edt. Bratislava sa tak pridala k \u010fal\u0161\u00edm mest\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 tak\u00e9to verejn\u00e9 bozk\u00e1vacie protesty u\u017e absolvovali. Bozkom sa predsa ned\u00e1 pohor\u0161i\u0165. Bozk te\u0161\u00ed \u013eud\u00ed. L\u00e1ska obohacuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Verejnos\u0165 toto negat\u00edvne spr\u00e1vanie kaviarne mo\u017eno don\u00fati zamyslie\u0165 sa nad t\u00fdm, kto ur\u010duje hranice mor\u00e1lky. Azda sa niektor\u00ed \u013eudia c\u00edtili ako viac mor\u00e1lny a teda lep\u0161\u00ed? Oscar Wilde hovor\u00ed: \u201eMor\u00e1lka je postoj vo\u010di \u013eu\u010fom, ktor\u00fdch nem\u00e1me radi.\u201d V tomto pr\u00edpade kaviare\u0148 len pod\u010diarkla tento cit\u00e1t svojou homof\u00f3bnou prepisova\u010dkou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiss-in v\u00a0USA (2012)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiss-in je druh verejn\u00e9ho zhroma\u017edenia, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 za \u00falohu do tv\u00e1ri \u201emoralistov\u201d chrstn\u00fa\u0165 tis\u00edce bozkov, a u\u017e je na nich ako sa s nimi vysporiadaj\u00fa. Ke\u010f sa podobn\u00e1 udalos\u0165 organizovala v USA v roku 2012, zapojen\u00e9 boli viacer\u00e9 mest\u00e1. Zn\u00e1ma je pod n\u00e1zvom Chick-fil-A kiss-in.<\/em><\/strong> <\/em>Prezident zn\u00e1meho fastfoodov\u00e9ho re\u0165azca sa verejne vyjadril proti pr\u00e1vam LGBTI \u013eud\u00ed a proti man\u017eelstv\u00e1m rovnakopohlavn\u00fdch p\u00e1rov. Citoval z biblick\u00fdch textov a k\u00e1zal komunite. LGBTI aktivisti a aktivistky a podporovatelia gejsk\u00fdch a lesbick\u00fdch man\u017eelstiev v re\u0161taur\u00e1ci\u00e1ch Chick-fil verejn\u00fdm bozk\u00e1van\u00edm prejavili svoj nes\u00fahlas s vyjadreniami prezidenta re\u0165azca. Akcia vyvolala ve\u013ek\u00fd medi\u00e1lny z\u00e1ujem a verejn\u00e9 bozk\u00e1vanie bolo pred ka\u017edou pobo\u010dkou re\u0161taur\u00e1cie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zdroj: NY Daily News<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Sainsbury’s kiss-in (2016)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 <\/em><\/strong>Bezpe\u010dnostn\u00e1 slu\u017eba v supermarkete prin\u00fatila Thomasa Reesa (32) rokov a jeho priate\u013ea Joshuu Bradwellovi (25) rokov, aby opustili priestory supermarketu po tom, ako ich in\u00fd z\u00e1kazn\u00edk upozornil a s\u0165a\u017eoval sa na to, \u017ee sa p\u00e1r spr\u00e1va nemor\u00e1lne a \u201enevhodne sa dot\u00fdkaj\u00fa\u201d. Sainsbury sa ospravedlnilo, a s\u00edce pon\u00faklo p\u00e1ru pouk\u00e1\u017eku vo v\u00fd\u0161ke 10 libier, aby ju minul v obchode, aktivisti povedali, \u017ee toto gesto \u201eneakceptuj\u00fa“ a zhroma\u017edili protestuj\u00facich, aby sa masovo bozk\u00e1vali pred obchodom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiss in v\u00a0Indii (2014)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Akcie sa v\u0161ak nedej\u00fa len v USA alebo Eur\u00f3pe. V roku 2014 v indickej Kerale prebehla bozk\u00e1vacia akcia Kiss of love protest. <\/em><\/strong>Akcia sa za\u010dala v Kerale a pre ve\u013ek\u00fd \u00faspech a zanietenie protestuj\u00facich sa roz\u0161\u00edrila aj do \u010fal\u0161\u00edch \u010dast\u00ed Indie. Za\u010diatok v\u0161ak nebol tak\u00fd pozit\u00edvny. V roku 2000 bolo v Kerali nieko\u013eko pr\u00edpadov mor\u00e1lnej kontroly. V roku 2011 bola 26-ro\u010dn\u00e1 mlad\u00e1 \u017eena zabit\u00e1 davom v Kodiyathure v Kerale za \u00fadajn\u00fd vz\u0165ah s vydatou \u017eenou. V\u0161etci obvinen\u00ed boli ods\u00faden\u00ed na do\u017eivotie. V j\u00fani 2014 boli divadeln\u00e1 umelky\u0148a a jej kolegy\u0148a zadr\u017ean\u00e9 a dan\u00e9 do policajnej v\u00e4zby za spolo\u010dn\u00e9 cestovanie v noci, \u010do vyvolalo protesty proti mravnej kontrole na soci\u00e1lnych m\u00e9di\u00e1ch. V celom meste Kerala bolo hl\u00e1sen\u00fdch nieko\u013eko ve\u013emi podobn\u00fdch pr\u00edpadov. Tieto v\u0161etky udalosti podnietili v masov\u00e9 protestn\u00e9 bozk\u00e1vanie Kiss of love protest v Kerale.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Zdroj: India Today<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Manhatans\u2019s kiss-in (2018)<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Posledn\u00fd zn\u00e1my protest prebehol v New Yorku pod n\u00e1zvom Manhatans\u2019s kiss-in <\/em><\/strong>vo Febru\u00e1ri 2018. <\/em><\/strong>Newyor\u010dania sa za da\u017e\u010fa bozk\u00e1vali pred ve\u013evyslanectvom Uzbekistanu. Zn\u00e1me spievanie v da\u017edi nahradilo bozk\u00e1vanie v da\u017edi s patri\u010dnou newyorskou romantikou. Aktivisti a aktivistky uskuto\u010dnili zhroma\u017edenie a bozk\u00e1vanie, pri\u010dom d\u00fafali, \u017ee upriamia pozornos\u0165 na n\u00e1silie sp\u00f4sobovan\u00e9 zo strany \u0161t\u00e1tu vo\u010di komunit\u00e1m LGBTQ + v Uzbekistane, Azerbajd\u017eane a Tad\u017eikistane. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z nich je \u010dlenom Organiz\u00e1cie Spojen\u00fdch n\u00e1rodov, ktorej budova bola umiestnen\u00e1 hne\u010f vo ved\u013eaj\u0161ej ulici od bozk\u00e1vaj\u00faceho sa davu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e1m ost\u00e1va len d\u00fafa\u0165, \u017ee tak\u00fdch akci\u00ed ako bratislavsk\u00fd kiss-in bude \u010do najviac, av\u0161ak d\u00f4vodom ich organizovania bude len oby\u010dajn\u00e1 chu\u0165 pobozka\u0165 sa a\u00a0nie protestova\u0165.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Autor textu: Robert Pakan \/ Foto: Nov\u00fd \u010das Stala sa tak\u00e1 vec u n\u00e1s, na tom na\u0161om Slovensku, \u017ee u\u017e aj bozk na l\u00edce je nemor\u00e1lny a neslu\u0161n\u00fd. Nemali sme o akcept\u00e1cii lesieb a gejov na Slovensku vysok\u00fa mienku, ale v Bratislave, v tej na\u0161ej liber\u00e1lnej o\u00e1ze, sa u\u017e prijatie \u201ein\u00fdch\u201d v\u00fdrazne posunulo. Nu\u017e fandili …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":1875,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,3,5,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1872","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-comingout","category-partnerstva","category-praca-a-skola","category-viditelnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1872","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1872"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1872\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1875"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1872"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1872"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1872"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}