{"id":1750,"date":"2020-11-11T18:16:25","date_gmt":"2020-11-11T17:16:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=1750"},"modified":"2020-11-11T18:16:25","modified_gmt":"2020-11-11T17:16:25","slug":"ponorka-rozdelenie-rozchod-ale-aj-viac-lasky-ako-prezivali-queer-pary-karantenu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/ponorka-rozdelenie-rozchod-ale-aj-viac-lasky-ako-prezivali-queer-pary-karantenu\/","title":{"rendered":"Ponorka, rozdelenie, rozchod, ale aj viac l\u00e1sky. Ako pre\u017e\u00edvali queer p\u00e1ry karant\u00e9nu?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ocitn\u00fa\u0165 sa v jednej dom\u00e1cnosti m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 \u0165a\u017ekou sk\u00fa\u0161kou ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. V marci v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina p\u00e1rov skon\u010dila v karant\u00e9ne s obmedzen\u00fdm vych\u00e1dzan\u00edm.<\/strong> <strong>Prostredie nieko\u013ek\u00fdch stien a izol\u00e1cia od rodiny \u010di priate\u013eov m\u00f4\u017ee p\u00f4sobi\u0165 na jednej strane sties\u0148uj\u00faco, ale aj upokojuj\u00faco. Niektor\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy sk\u00fa\u0161ku celosvetovou kr\u00edzou nepre\u017eili, in\u00e9 na\u0161li rie\u0161enia dlhotrvaj\u00facich probl\u00e9mov a ne\u017en\u00e9 okamihy v spolo\u010dnom objat\u00ed.<\/strong> <strong>Zozbierali sme pr\u00edbehy nieko\u013ek\u00fdch partnersk\u00fdch dvoj\u00edc, ktor\u00e9 ukazuj\u00fa ich sk\u00fasenosti s novou a ne\u010dakanou situ\u00e1ciou.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Laco a&nbsp;Pavel: Zaspali sme pod stanom uprostred sp\u00e1lne<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pre Laca a&nbsp;Pavla priniesla karant\u00e9na viac spolo\u010dne str\u00e1ven\u00e9ho \u010dasu. Na\u0161li sa pred \u0161estn\u00e1stimi rokmi, no zrejme e\u0161te nikdy doteraz neboli naraz tri mesiace v&nbsp;jednom byte. \u017dij\u00fa vo Viedni, kde sa aj zosob\u00e1\u0161ili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Obaja zvykli ve\u013ea cestova\u0165, dopravn\u00e9 prostriedky boli prakticky ich druh\u00fdm domovom. V&nbsp;marci sa to zmenilo, obaja zostali doma. Kon\u0161tatuj\u00fa, \u017ee nov\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia ich stmelila. \u201eJasn\u00e9, \u017ee sme niekedy c\u00edtili aj klaustrof\u00f3biu, ale zaka\u017ed\u00fdm r\u00fdchlo pominula. Sna\u017eili sme sa robi\u0165 veci tak, aby sme mali na \u010do spom\u00edna\u0165. S&nbsp;na\u0161ou viedenskou partiou sme sa dohodli, \u017ee p\u00f4jdeme spolu do Opery. V&nbsp;piatok sme sa v\u0161etci obliekli, \u017eeny do n\u00e1dhern\u00fdch r\u00f3b, mu\u017ei do smokingov, stretli sme sa cez Zoom a&nbsp;spolu pozerali z\u00e1znam z&nbsp;opery,\u201c hovor\u00ed Laco.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f ma\u013eovali byt a&nbsp;museli da\u0165 v\u0161etok n\u00e1bytok pre\u010d zo sp\u00e1lne, vymysleli si, \u017ee p\u00f4jdu na dovolenku. \u201eVytiahli sme stan, spac\u00e1ky, karimatky, gitaru, na iPade sme si pustili ohe\u0148 a&nbsp;zaspali sme pod stanom uprostred sp\u00e1lne.\u201c Okrem toho pravidelne chodili na prech\u00e1dzky, robili si v\u00fdlety za medved\u00edm cesnakom, raz za \u010das vy\u0161li na ulicu na bicykloch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pavel pracoval ako oby\u010dajne a&nbsp;Laco si ako muzik\u00e1lov\u00fd herec musel n\u00e1js\u0165 nov\u00fa n\u00e1pl\u0148. Divadl\u00e1 zavreli, a&nbsp;tak uva\u017eoval, \u010do \u010falej. \u201eZa\u010dal som medzi prv\u00fdmi dobrovo\u013en\u00edcky \u0161i\u0165 r\u00fa\u0161ka, denne som cvi\u010dil j\u00f3gu. Varili sme, upratovali,\u201c spom\u00edna si Laco.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u010das karant\u00e9ny si vymyslel online kurzy \u0161itia a&nbsp;so svojimi \u017eia\u010dkami str\u00e1vil dvakr\u00e1t v&nbsp;t\u00fd\u017edni dve hodiny na internetov\u00fdch lekci\u00e1ch. R\u00fa\u0161ka potom chodil ka\u017ed\u00fd ve\u010der rozosiela\u0165. Po\u0161ta je v\u0161ak v&nbsp;Rak\u00fasku aj samoobslu\u017en\u00e1, tak\u017ee sa s nik\u00fdm nemusel osobne st\u00fdka\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Situ\u00e1cia vo Viedni bola in\u00e1 ako na Slovensku \u2013 krajina nezaviedla a\u017e tak\u00e9 pr\u00edsne pravidl\u00e1. Nakupova\u0165 napriek tomu chodili iba raz za dva t\u00fd\u017edne, a&nbsp;ke\u010f im nie\u010do ch\u00fdbalo, sna\u017eili sa vymyslie\u0165 recepty zo surov\u00edn, ktor\u00e9 im doma zostali. Zaviedli si pravidlo, \u017ee recepty bud\u00fa vyh\u013ead\u00e1va\u0165 iba v&nbsp;kuch\u00e1rskych knih\u00e1ch, a&nbsp;nie cez Google.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"722\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-722x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1751\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-722x1024.jpg 722w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-423x600.jpg 423w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-1083x1536.jpg 1083w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-1444x2048.jpg 1444w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35-211x300.jpg 211w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-35.jpg 1748w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 722px) 100vw, 722px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>He\u0148a a Petra: Sna\u017eili sme sa rozobera\u0165 t\u00e9my, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa n\u00e1m obom pr\u00edjemn\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDo n\u00e1\u0161ho be\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota karant\u00e9na extr\u00e9mne nezasiahla,\u201c hovoria He\u0148a a Petra. \u201eOvplyvnilo n\u00e1s to zrejme len v tom, \u017ee sme spolu tr\u00e1vili viac \u010dasu vo dvojici. Predt\u00fdm sme mali ve\u013ea spolo\u010dn\u00fdch aktiv\u00edt aj s na\u0161imi bl\u00edzkymi a zn\u00e1mymi. Po\u010das \u201akorona-opatren\u00ed\u2018 sme komunikovali osamote viac ako predt\u00fdm, to je pravda.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vo vz\u0165ahu ich prekvap\u00ed u\u017e m\u00e1lo\u010do, stretli sa pred jeden\u00e1stimi rokmi. Uzn\u00e1vaj\u00fa, \u017ee ob\u010das c\u00edtili v sties\u0148uj\u00facich podmienkach ponorkov\u00fa chorobu. \u201eHlavne pri sychravom po\u010das\u00ed, b\u00farka \u010di d\u00e1\u017e\u010f zmen\u00ed n\u00e1ladu ka\u017ed\u00e9mu, aj mne ako optimistke,\u201c hovor\u00ed Pe\u0165a. Ke\u010f sa chceli \u201eponorke\u201c vyhn\u00fa\u0165, chodili do pr\u00edrody, viac sa venovali psovi, i\u0161li si zabeha\u0165 a spozn\u00e1va\u0165 okolie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eUsilovali sme sa vyh\u013ead\u00e1va\u0165 sk\u00f4r pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 t\u00e9my, a nie tie, ktor\u00e9 sa jednej \u010di druhej bridia. Sna\u017eili sme sa menej na seba fu\u010da\u0165 kv\u00f4li somarin\u00e1m.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Michal a Michal: Keby sme vedeli, \u010do v\u0161etko sa stane, nerozdelili by sme sa<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNieko\u013eko dn\u00ed pred zavret\u00edm hran\u00edc sme sa obaja vr\u00e1tili z \u010ceska, kde spolu \u017eijeme, domov na Slovensko, ka\u017ed\u00fd ku svojej rodine. To sme e\u0161te netu\u0161ili, \u017ee kv\u00f4li korone uviazneme s rodinami na tri mesiace,\u201c zh\u0155\u0148aj\u00fa svoju situ\u00e1ciu po\u010das pand\u00e9mie Michal a Michal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Opatrenia im \u00faplne zastavili ich ka\u017edodenn\u00fd \u017eivot, spolo\u010dn\u00e9 b\u00fdvanie. \u201eKeby sme vedeli vopred, \u010do v\u0161etko sa stane, zrejme by sme domov na Slovensko ani nevycestovali a nerozdelili sa.\u201c V tomto obdob\u00ed si uvedomili, ako ve\u013emi im spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot ch\u00fdba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCh\u00fdbalo n\u00e1m to, \u010domu sa hovor\u00ed ozajstn\u00fd domov. Ten pocit, ke\u010f si ve\u010der m\u00e1te ved\u013ea koho \u013eahn\u00fa\u0165, koho m\u00f4\u017eete len tak obja\u0165, pobozka\u0165, koho si m\u00f4\u017eete zo srandy dobera\u0165.\u201c Karant\u00e9na bola pre nich sk\u013eu\u010duj\u00facim z\u00e1\u017eitkom, hoci si v\u017edy na\u0161li sp\u00f4sob, ako sa aspo\u0148 na p\u00e1r hod\u00edn v t\u00fd\u017edni stretn\u00fa\u0165 osobne. \u201eBol to v\u0161ak zna\u010dne obmedzen\u00fd kontakt \u2013 v\u017edy na verejnosti, tak\u017ee ak\u00e9ko\u013evek vyt\u00fa\u017een\u00e9, prirodzen\u00e9 l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 prejavy i\u0161li bokom.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Situ\u00e1cia sa predl\u017eovala a v nich narastal pocit frustr\u00e1cie. \u201eNapriek tomu, \u017ee svoje rodiny \u013e\u00fabime, nemohli sme sa u\u017e do\u010dka\u0165, kedy sa znova otvoria hranice.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"722\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-722x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1752\" srcset=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-722x1024.jpg 722w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-423x600.jpg 423w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-1083x1536.jpg 1083w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-1444x2048.jpg 1444w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36-211x300.jpg 211w, https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/11\/QYS-magazin-\u2022-LETO20-36.jpg 1748w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 722px) 100vw, 722px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Robert a Wayne: Dali sme si definit\u00edvne adieu<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eN\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah bol u\u017e vo svojom z\u00e1vere a kv\u00f4li situ\u00e1cii s pand\u00e9miou sme si dali definit\u00edvne adieu,\u201c hovor\u00ed Robert. Ich vz\u0165ah bol o to komplikovanej\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee jeho expriate\u013e Wayne poch\u00e1dza z Hongkongu, nemohol sa \u013eahko ods\u0165ahova\u0165 zo spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho b\u00fdvania, a na d\u00f4va\u017eok po\u010das karant\u00e9ny pri\u0161iel e\u0161te aj o pr\u00e1cu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAj predt\u00fdm bol st\u00e1le doma, lebo v Bratislave nem\u00e1 ve\u013ea priate\u013eov. \u013dudia tu k nemu nie s\u00fa ve\u013emi priate\u013esk\u00ed a on nepije alkohol, kr\u010dmy ho nebavia, tak\u017ee sa mu na Slovensku \u0165a\u017e\u0161ie utu\u017euj\u00fa vz\u0165ahy.\u201c Po\u010das karant\u00e9ny sa v\u0161ak neh\u00e1dali \u010dasto, neliezli si na nervy, preto\u017ee Wayne sa st\u00e1le hral v tichosti na po\u010d\u00edta\u010di. \u201eTo len ja som na neho kri\u010dal, aby sa u\u017e to\u013eko nehral,\u201c dop\u013a\u0148a Robert.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hoci sa Robertovi skon\u010dil partnersk\u00fd vz\u0165ah, p\u00e1\u010dilo sa mu, \u017ee sa svet zastavil a on stihol dobehn\u00fa\u0165 mnoh\u00e9 resty. Napr\u00edklad za\u010dal p\u00edsa\u0165 divadeln\u00fa hru. \u201eBude fenomen\u00e1lna. A zd\u00e1 sa, \u017ee raz budem maturitnou ot\u00e1zkou: V\u00fdznamn\u00ed predstavitelia slovenskej dr\u00e1my 21. storo\u010dia.\u201c Pozit\u00edvne tie\u017e bolo, \u017ee sa k nim do dom\u00e1cnosti vr\u00e1til ich ps\u00edk, s ktor\u00fdm mohli po\u010das karant\u00e9ny tr\u00e1vi\u0165 viac \u010dasu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ester: Sna\u017eila som sa nezbl\u00e1zni\u0165<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Svoje sk\u00fasenosti z \u010dias izol\u00e1cie ste n\u00e1m p\u00edsali aj na soci\u00e1lne siete. Ester sa zd\u00f4verila, \u017ee pand\u00e9mia bola pre \u0148u traumatick\u00e1. \u201eNa konci apr\u00edla sa mi rozpadol vz\u0165ah a vplyvom celej tejto situ\u00e1cie sa mi zhor\u0161ili psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Tak\u017ee m\u00f4j pr\u00edbeh je o tom, ako sa \u00faplne nezbl\u00e1zni\u0165.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stewen naopak nap\u00edsal: \u201eKe\u010f sme pre\u017eili toto, pre\u017eijeme u\u017e v\u0161etko. Po\u010das karant\u00e9ny sme osl\u00e1vili deviate v\u00fdro\u010die, karant\u00e9na n\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah s partnerom e\u0161te posilnila.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Autori textu: Marek Hudec, Andrej Kuruc<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ilustr\u00e1cie: Vikt\u00f3ria Szab\u00f3ov\u00e1<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ocitn\u00fa\u0165 sa v jednej dom\u00e1cnosti m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 \u0165a\u017ekou sk\u00fa\u0161kou ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. V marci v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina p\u00e1rov skon\u010dila v karant\u00e9ne s obmedzen\u00fdm vych\u00e1dzan\u00edm. Prostredie nieko\u013ek\u00fdch stien a izol\u00e1cia od rodiny \u010di priate\u013eov m\u00f4\u017ee p\u00f4sobi\u0165 na jednej strane sties\u0148uj\u00faco, ale aj upokojuj\u00faco. Niektor\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy sk\u00fa\u0161ku celosvetovou kr\u00edzou nepre\u017eili, in\u00e9 na\u0161li rie\u0161enia dlhotrvaj\u00facich probl\u00e9mov a ne\u017en\u00e9 okamihy v spolo\u010dnom <a href=\"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/ponorka-rozdelenie-rozchod-ale-aj-viac-lasky-ako-prezivali-queer-pary-karantenu\/\" class=\"more-link\">&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1754,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3,6,12,13],"tags":[102,142],"class_list":["post-1750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-partnerstva","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-tipy","category-viditelnost","tag-lgbti","tag-queer"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1750","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1750"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1750\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1750"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1750"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1750"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}