{"id":1385,"date":"2019-12-18T19:41:10","date_gmt":"2019-12-18T18:41:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qys.sk\/?p=1385"},"modified":"2021-03-18T08:55:11","modified_gmt":"2021-03-18T07:55:11","slug":"agnes-lovecka-keby-som-mala-odtialto-pre-svoju-orientaciu-utiect-inde-by-som-hladala-stastie-asi-len-velmi-tazko","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/agnes-lovecka-keby-som-mala-odtialto-pre-svoju-orientaciu-utiect-inde-by-som-hladala-stastie-asi-len-velmi-tazko\/","title":{"rendered":"Agnes Loveck\u00e1: Keby som mala odtia\u013eto pre svoju orient\u00e1ciu utiec\u0165, inde by som h\u013eadala \u0161\u0165astie asi len ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017eko"},"content":{"rendered":"

Agnes Loveck\u00fa poznaj\u00fa \u013eudia najm\u00e4 ako hudobn\u00ed\u010dku skupiny \u017div\u00e9 kvety. No okrem toho<\/em>
\nje aj vin\u00e1rka, partnerka a\u00a0v\u00a0neposlednom rade matka. Cestu za rodi\u010dovstvom bli\u017e\u0161ie op\u00edsala<\/em>
\npo\u010das PRIDE t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a v diskusii Dve mamy a\u00a0dvaja otcovia a\u00a0teraz v rozhovore\u00a0pre magaz\u00edn<\/em>
\nQYS.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u017dijete s\u00a0partnerkou, s\u00a0ktorou vychov\u00e1vate dve deti. Ak\u00e1 bola va\u0161a cesta za<\/strong>
\nrodi\u010dovstvom? Ko\u013eko trval cel\u00fd proces h\u013eadania mo\u017enost\u00ed a\u00a0vybavovania?<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00e1m \u0161\u0165astie a so svojou partnerkou sme sa zhodli v tom, \u017ee chceme ma\u0165 deti, \u017ee spolu
\nchceme zalo\u017ei\u0165 rodinu. Ve\u013ea na\u0161ich kamar\u00e1tok z\u00a0homosexu\u00e1lnej komunity deti nechc\u00fa
\nz\u00a0r\u00f4znych d\u00f4vodov. Mnoh\u00e9 sa boja privies\u0165 deti do na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti z\u00a0obavy, \u017ee bud\u00fa
\nstigmatizovane t\u00fdm, v\u00a0akej rodine \u017eij\u00fa. Vlastne tej obave aj rozumiem, ale s\u00a0partnerkou
\nver\u00edme, \u017ee treba kona\u0165 pod\u013ea vlastn\u00e9ho presved\u010denia, a\u00a0tak sme od za\u010diatku rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eali, ako
\nby sa to dalo zrealizova\u0165. Dlho sme zva\u017eovali, ak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom sa do toho procesu pusti\u0165, t\u00e1
\nment\u00e1lna pr\u00edprava bola nekone\u010dn\u00e1. Ve\u013ea sme \u010d\u00edtali, rozpr\u00e1vali sa a\u00a0radili s\u00a0\u013eu\u010fmi, ktor\u00ed nie\u010do
\npodobn\u00e9 podst\u00fapili, aj ke\u010f n\u00e1js\u0165 tak\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed bolo zo za\u010diatku priam nemo\u017en\u00e9.
\nNa\u0161ou prioritou bolo rie\u0161i\u0165 to leg\u00e1lnou cestou. P\u00f4vodne sme mysleli, \u017ee na kliniku
\nasistovanej reprodukcie budeme lieta\u0165 do D\u00e1nska, ale v\u00a0roku 2015 sa mo\u017enosti otvorili aj
\nv\u00a0susednom Rak\u00fasku, a\u00a0tak sme nakoniec cel\u00fd proces absolvovali na klinike vo Viedni.
\nMuseli sme nav\u0161t\u00edvi\u0165 rak\u00faskeho not\u00e1ra a\u00a0pred rak\u00faskym z\u00e1konom sme dnes rovnocenn\u00e9
\nmamy obom na\u0161im synom. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 sme porodila jedn\u00e9ho z nich. Rozhodli sme sa pre jedn\u00e9ho
\nanonymn\u00e9ho darcu, ktor\u00e9ho bud\u00fa m\u00f4c\u0165 na\u0161e deti v\u00a0dospelosti kontaktova\u0165. Op\u00edsa\u0165 cel\u00fa na\u0161u
\ncestu by bolo nadlho, ale ak to niekoho naozaj zauj\u00edma, \u013eahko si ma vyh\u013ead\u00e1 a\u00a0rada porad\u00edm.<\/p>\n

Na Slovensku, ako vieme, nie s\u00fa uz\u00e1konen\u00e9 registrovan\u00e9 partnerstv\u00e1 a\u00a0rodi\u010dia<\/strong>
\nrovnak\u00e9ho pohlavie nie s\u00fa pr\u00e1vne uznan\u00ed. V\u00a0ktor\u00fdch konkr\u00e9tnych situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch v\u00e1m to<\/strong>
\nsp\u00f4sobuje probl\u00e9my a obmedzenia?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee skuto\u010dn\u00e9 existen\u010dn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my hrozia, ke\u010f sa jednej z\u00a0partneriek alebo
\njedn\u00e9mu z partnerov stane nejak\u00e9 ne\u0161\u0165astie. Vtedy nastupuj\u00fa na sc\u00e9nu \u00farady a\u00a0slovensk\u00e9
\nz\u00e1kony, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa k\u00a0rodin\u00e1m, ako sme my, extr\u00e9mne krut\u00e9. V skuto\u010dnosti sme pre ne
\nneexistuj\u00facou rodinou, a\u00a0to aj napriek tomu, \u017ee na Slovensku n\u00e1s \u017eije pomerne ve\u013ea.
\nOproti tomu s\u00fa na\u0161e probl\u00e9my z\u00a0be\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota zatia\u013e zanedbate\u013en\u00e9. V\u00a0ka\u017edodennom
\n\u017eivote je to sk\u00f4r o\u00a0osobnom vz\u0165ahu s\u00a0u\u010dite\u013ekou, doktorkou, susedmi a\u00a0tam sme sa doteraz s
\nnen\u00e1vis\u0165ou nikdy nestretli, sk\u00f4r naopak. Je to v\u0161ak o\u00a0konkr\u00e9tnych \u013eu\u010foch a\u00a0o\u00a0tom, na koho
\nnatraf\u00edte.<\/p>\n

Ktor\u00e9 pr\u00e1vne \u00fapravy by v\u00e1m na Slovensku najviac zjednodu\u0161ili \u017eivot?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Registrovan\u00e9 partnerstvo a\u00a0adopcie. To prv\u00e9 pre vz\u0165ah m\u0148a a\u00a0mojej partnerky a\u00a0to druh\u00e9
\npre na\u0161e deti. Odhliadnuc od\u00a0fundamentalistick\u00fdch v\u00e1\u0161n\u00ed, vyrie\u0161ilo by to konkr\u00e9tne situ\u00e1cie,
\ns\u00a0ktor\u00fdmi sa denne stret\u00e1vame, ale tie\u017e hrozby, ktor\u00e9 nad na\u0161ou rodinou visia ako gilot\u00edna.
\nN\u00e1zor \u013eud\u00ed na adopcie det\u00ed homosexu\u00e1lnymi p\u00e1rmi je \u010dasto posunut\u00fd do extr\u00e9mnej
\npolohy ak\u00e9hosi prerozde\u013eovania det\u00ed medzi homosexu\u00e1lov. To je nen\u00e1vistn\u00fd blud, ktor\u00fd sa tu
\n\u00faspe\u0161ne \u0161\u00edri len v\u010faka tomu, \u017ee neexistuje re\u00e1lna diskusia. Pravda je, \u017ee adopcie by vyrie\u0161ili
\nhlavne \u017eivotn\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu det\u00ed a rod\u00edn, ako sme my. Na\u0161e deti by nadobudli rovnak\u00e9 pr\u00e1va, ako
\nv\u0161etky ostatn\u00e9 deti. Napr\u00edklad by im nehrozil detsk\u00fd domov v\u00a0pr\u00edpade \u00famrtia biologick\u00e9ho
\nrodi\u010da, mali by mo\u017enos\u0165 dedi\u0165 po oboch rodi\u010doch a\u00a0mnoho \u010fal\u0161\u00edch zdanlivo samozrejm\u00fdch
\nvec\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Zva\u017eovali ste niekedy odchod do inej krajiny s\u00a0priaznivej\u0161ou legislat\u00edvou?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u017dijeme na farme,\u00a0hospod\u00e1rime na p\u00f4de a\u00a0na\u0161u pr\u00e1cu milujeme. Neviem si svoj \u017eivot
\nmoment\u00e1lne predstavi\u0165 inde. Nevylu\u010dujem tak\u00fa situ\u00e1ciu, ale keby som odtia\u013eto mala uteka\u0165
\npre svoju orient\u00e1ciu, u\u017e by som asi ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017eko h\u013eadala \u0161\u0165astie inde.<\/p>\n

B\u00fdvali ste v\u00a0Bratislave, o\u00a0rodinn\u00fd podnik Slobodn\u00e9 vin\u00e1rstvo sa star\u00e1te<\/strong>
\nv\u00a0Zemianskych Sadoch. Ak\u00e9 rozdiely ste postrehli vo vn\u00edman\u00ed LGBTI komunity<\/strong>
\nv\u00a0hlavnom meste a\u00a0na vidieku?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u017dila som v\u00a0Bratislave, ale aj v\u00a0New Yorku a\u00a0viem ak\u00e9 oslobodzuj\u00face je strati\u0165 sa v\u00a0dave.
\nNa dedine je to inak. Nikto nerie\u0161i \u017eiadnu komunitu, len konkr\u00e9tnych \u013eud\u00ed. A\u00a0konkr\u00e9tni \u013eudia
\nsa tak niekedy st\u00e1vaj\u00fa z\u00e1stupcami celej komunity. To za\u017e\u00edvam, tie sk\u00famav\u00e9 poh\u013eady. \u010clovek
\nna to nem\u00e1 v\u017edy n\u00e1ladu, ale\u00a0beriem to tak, \u017ee lep\u0161ia zvedavos\u0165 ako nen\u00e1vis\u0165. Som dnes
\nhlboko presved\u010den\u00e1, \u017ee jedin\u00e9, \u010do na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti pom\u00f4\u017ee, je otvoren\u00fd \u017eivot LGBTI \u013eud\u00ed,
\nktor\u00ed nim nastavia zrkadlo v\u0161etk\u00fdm tm\u00e1rom.<\/p>\n

Ako hodnot\u00edte vyjadrenie mnoh\u00fdch politikov, \u017ee najsk\u00f4r treba vyrie\u0161i\u0165<\/strong>
\n\u201ed\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie\u201c probl\u00e9my ne\u017e pr\u00e1va homosexu\u00e1lov?<\/strong>
\nPolitika ma bav\u00ed, sledujem ju, pravidelne vol\u00edm, ale m\u00e1rne \u010dak\u00e1m na niekoho, kto sa
\nnebude b\u00e1\u0165 postavi\u0165 sa za vlastn\u00e9 princ\u00edpy aj proti preferenci\u00e1m. Ver\u00edm, \u017ee princ\u00edpy id\u00fa
\nprierezovo men\u0161\u00edmi aj v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edmi probl\u00e9mami a\u00a0principi\u00e1lni \u013eudia by sa nemali b\u00e1\u0165 hovori\u0165
\nnahlas. Je \u010das prida\u0165 volume, ke\u010f\u017ee t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed n\u00e1s st\u00e1le nie\u010d\u00edm stra\u0161ia, kri\u010dia na pln\u00e9 \u00fasta. Pani
\nprezidentka uk\u00e1zala, \u017ee st\u00e1\u0165 pevne vo svojich ide\u00e1loch je najsilnej\u0161ia zbra\u0148.<\/p>\n

Na jar sa v\u00a0Bratislave konal protest proti ministerke kult\u00fary \u013dubici La\u0161\u0161\u00e1kovej.<\/strong>Ako hodnot\u00edte jej rozhodnutia z\u00a0poh\u013eadu hudobn\u00ed\u010dky a\u00a0z\u00a0poh\u013eadu pr\u00edslu\u0161n\u00ed\u010dky LGBTI<\/strong>
\nkomunity?<\/strong>
\nUmenie je tu pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch, tomu pani La\u0161\u0161\u00e1kov\u00e1 nedok\u00e1\u017ee zabr\u00e1ni\u0165, toho sa neboj\u00edm.
\nAle d\u00fafam, \u017ee v\u00a0najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch vo\u013eb\u00e1ch oto\u010d\u00edme kormidlom a\u00a0aj na ministerstvo kult\u00fary sa
\ndostane niekto, kto bude vidie\u0165 svoju \u00falohu v\u00a0nap\u013a\u0148an\u00ed potrieb na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti takej, ak\u00e1 je,
\na nie v\u00a0jej d\u00e9monizovan\u00ed a pretv\u00e1ran\u00ed na vlastn\u00fd obraz. To by som pova\u017eovala za kult\u00farne.<\/p>\n

http:\/\/www.zivekvety.sk\/<\/p>\n

Fotografia : osobn\u00fd arch\u00edv Agnes Loveckej<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Agnes Loveck\u00fa poznaj\u00fa \u013eudia najm\u00e4 ako hudobn\u00ed\u010dku skupiny \u017div\u00e9 kvety. No okrem toho je aj vin\u00e1rka, partnerka a\u00a0v\u00a0neposlednom rade matka. Cestu za rodi\u010dovstvom bli\u017e\u0161ie op\u00edsala po\u010das PRIDE t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148a v diskusii Dve mamy a\u00a0dvaja otcovia a\u00a0teraz v rozhovore\u00a0pre magaz\u00edn QYS. \u017dijete s\u00a0partnerkou, s\u00a0ktorou vychov\u00e1vate dve deti. Ak\u00e1 bola va\u0161a cesta za rodi\u010dovstvom? Ko\u013eko trval cel\u00fd proces …<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":1387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,259,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-pribehy-lgbti-ludi","category-rozhovory","category-viditelnost"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1385"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1385\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2549,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1385\/revisions\/2549"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1387"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/duhovyrok.sk\/qys\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}